Aries guy help please!!!

Ok so this is a lot but im so stressed. I liked this guy alot I’m a Leo sun Venus in cancer and his is Aries sun venus in Aries. Maybe I’m about to sound so crazy but I’m legit confused. Obviously met this super awesome Aries guy, and I felt like we have connected like no other (I have not felt this way in a minute or at all really) and he was showing all the signs he felt the same way he even said we’re practically the same person. On the 3rd date we slept together cause I just couldn’t resist him but I asked him

If that’s all he wanted and he looked so Genuine when he said no, his communication didn’t start cutting off until a couple days after that. Like where I felt he was slowly loosing interest, he asked me to hang out sat but I wasn’t available so I said Sunday and he ended up cancelling, didn’t speak to him for three days and then messaged him and we picked up right where we left off his communication was top notch and he seemed genuinely interested told me he had Monday off and would like to see me I said how about Tuesday and he agreed come Tuesday he cancels and I basically tell him I had fun meeting him but just forget about it, he’s made plans twice and cancelled. He replied with “sorry I’m bad with making plans during the week and cancelling, HMU next time you have a weekend night off and I’ll make it up to you if ya want” I didn’t reply and left the message on read (I usually work weekends and he works weekdays ) idkkk what to do because I literally can not stop thinking about this guy. I don’t understand him at all. He obviously likes me but not enough and idk if there’s anything I can even do to get him back or if he’ll come back on his own . Like there’s just something about him

3 dates and 1 fu** in and you're all in your feelings 🤦

"I don't even know if there's anything I can do to get him BACK". I'm not so sure you truly "had him" after just 3 dates. Your emotions may be clouding your judgement.

After we slept together he didn’t just cut off contact he was still really sweet to me he would ask me to hang out on weekends (where I’m usually not available) he wanted to see me on Monday (because he had the whole day off) but we changed it to Tuesday for when I’m available. He does work at 4:30 am every Morning. So maybe he cancelled Tuesday because he was tired. He did say when called out that he has a bad habit for making plans on week days and then cancelling because of work and to hit him up the next weekend night I have off so he can make it up to me. Honestly though that’s what I don’t understand if he’s interested he should make time for me and if he isn’t why wouldn’t he just cut off contact completely. Like that kinda sounds like he wants me but just not enough

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Posted by Astrogirl76

Ok so this is a lot but im so stressed. I liked this guy alot I’m a Leo sun Venus in cancer and his is Aries sun venus in Aries. Maybe I’m about to sound so crazy but I’m legit confused. Obviously met this super awesome Aries guy, and I felt like we have connected like no other (I have not felt this way in a minute or at all really) and he was showing all the signs he felt the same way he even said we’re practically the same person. On the 3rd date we slept together cause I just couldn’t resist him but I asked him

If that’s all he wanted and he looked so Genuine when he said no, his communication didn’t start cutting off until a couple days after that. Like where I felt he was slowly loosing interest, he asked me to hang out sat but I wasn’t available so I said Sunday and he ended up cancelling, didn’t speak to him for three days and then messaged him and we picked up right where we left off his communication was top notch and he seemed genuinely interested told me he had Monday off and would like to see me I said how about Tuesday and he agreed come Tuesday he cancels and I basically tell him I had fun meeting him but just forget about it, he’s made plans twice and cancelled. He replied with “sorry I’m bad with making plans during the week and cancelling, HMU next time you have a weekend night off and I’ll make it up to you if ya want” I didn’t reply and left the message on read (I usually work weekends and he works weekdays ) idkkk what to do because I literally can not stop thinking about this guy. I don’t understand him at all. He obviously likes me but not enough and idk if there’s anything I can even do to get him back or if he’ll come back on his own . Like there’s just something about him

Did you expect him to say he just wanted to have sex with you? You would broke his nose. I think his testosterone intoxicated you. You don't understand him because its just 3 dates, what did you expected to know after such a short time? And remember - sleeping with someone before establishing anything it's a lottery - it can be happy ending but mostly it's not.

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Posted by Astrogirl76

Ok so this is a lot but im so stressed. I liked this guy alot I’m a Leo sun Venus in cancer and his is Aries sun venus in Aries. Maybe I’m about to sound so crazy but I’m legit confused. Obviously met this super awesome Aries guy, and I felt like we have connected like no other (I have not felt this way in a minute or at all really) and he was showing all the signs he felt the same way he even said we’re practically the same person. On the 3rd date we slept together cause I just couldn’t resist him but I asked him

If that’s all he wanted and he looked so Genuine when he said no, his communication didn’t start cutting off until a couple days after that. Like where I felt he was slowly loosing interest, he asked me to hang out sat but I wasn’t available so I said Sunday and he ended up cancelling, didn’t speak to him for three days and then messaged him and we picked up right where we left off his communication was top notch and he seemed genuinely interested told me he had Monday off and would like to see me I said how about Tuesday and he agreed come Tuesday he cancels and I basically tell him I had fun meeting him but just forget about it, he’s made plans twice and cancelled. He replied with “sorry I’m bad with making plans during the week and cancelling, HMU next time you have a weekend night off and I’ll make it up to you if ya want” I didn’t reply and left the message on read (I usually work weekends and he works weekdays ) idkkk what to do because I literally can not stop thinking about this guy. I don’t understand him at all. He obviously likes me but not enough and idk if there’s anything I can even do to get him back or if he’ll come back on his own . Like there’s just something about him

'' I'll make it up to you if YA want ''

😆

Please .. drop this loser.

I could swear I’ve read this post a while ago.

Am I mistaking?

Posted by Astrogirl76

After we slept together he didn’t just cut off contact he was still really sweet to me he would ask me to hang out on weekends (where I’m usually not available) he wanted to see me on Monday (because he had the whole day off) but we changed it to Tuesday for when I’m available. He does work at 4:30 am every Morning. So maybe he cancelled Tuesday because he was tired. He did say when called out that he has a bad habit for making plans on week days and then cancelling because of work and to hit him up the next weekend night I have off so he can make it up to me. Honestly though that’s what I don’t understand if he’s interested he should make time for me and if he isn’t why wouldn’t he just cut off contact completely. Like that kinda sounds like he wants me but just not enough

Honey! I feel you. Rams are adorbs. And easy to deal with but apparently not every sign is match for them and I totally disagree that it’s because sex too soon. Never believe that. I’ve always test drive men to not to lose time in some afterwards dikless items. You did ok.

Ask him. Right as you feeling it. He will be honest.

What’s his moon?

You have to understand that men sometimes just not feeling it same as women. How was sex? Had you 2 been comfortable? Think. There is an answer somewhere. Good luck.

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Posted by Astrogirl76

Ok so this is a lot but im so stressed. I liked this guy alot I’m a Leo sun Venus in cancer and his is Aries sun venus in Aries. Maybe I’m about to sound so crazy but I’m legit confused. Obviously met this super awesome Aries guy, and I felt like we have connected like no other (I have not felt this way in a minute or at all really) and he was showing all the signs he felt the same way he even said we’re practically the same person. On the 3rd date we slept together cause I just couldn’t resist him but I asked him

If that’s all he wanted and he looked so Genuine when he said no, his communication didn’t start cutting off until a couple days after that. Like where I felt he was slowly loosing interest, he asked me to hang out sat but I wasn’t available so I said Sunday and he ended up cancelling, didn’t speak to him for three days and then messaged him and we picked up right where we left off his communication was top notch and he seemed genuinely interested told me he had Monday off and would like to see me I said how about Tuesday and he agreed come Tuesday he cancels and I basically tell him I had fun meeting him but just forget about it, he’s made plans twice and cancelled. He replied with “sorry I’m bad with making plans during the week and cancelling, HMU next time you have a weekend night off and I’ll make it up to you if ya want” I didn’t reply and left the message on read (I usually work weekends and he works weekdays ) idkkk what to do because I literally can not stop thinking about this guy. I don’t understand him at all. He obviously likes me but not enough and idk if there’s anything I can even do to get him back or if he’ll come back on his own . Like there’s just something about him

'' I'll make it up to you if YA want ''

😆

Please .. drop this loser.

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Why are you calling him a loser?

Sex was mutually desired.

Have you never felt like oops! something doesn’t click?

I am asking women who hate Aries to explain why and so far there weren’t any explanations. Still waiting. I just don’t see how terrible they are and i know 3 Rams and none of them bad...

Just my 2 cents.

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Posted by Astrogirl76

Ok so this is a lot but im so stressed. I liked this guy alot I’m a Leo sun Venus in cancer and his is Aries sun venus in Aries. Maybe I’m about to sound so crazy but I’m legit confused. Obviously met this super awesome Aries guy, and I felt like we have connected like no other (I have not felt this way in a minute or at all really) and he was showing all the signs he felt the same way he even said we’re practically the same person. On the 3rd date we slept together cause I just couldn’t resist him but I asked him

If that’s all he wanted and he looked so Genuine when he said no, his communication didn’t start cutting off until a couple days after that. Like where I felt he was slowly loosing interest, he asked me to hang out sat but I wasn’t available so I said Sunday and he ended up cancelling, didn’t speak to him for three days and then messaged him and we picked up right where we left off his communication was top notch and he seemed genuinely interested told me he had Monday off and would like to see me I said how about Tuesday and he agreed come Tuesday he cancels and I basically tell him I had fun meeting him but just forget about it, he’s made plans twice and cancelled. He replied with “sorry I’m bad with making plans during the week and cancelling, HMU next time you have a weekend night off and I’ll make it up to you if ya want” I didn’t reply and left the message on read (I usually work weekends and he works weekdays ) idkkk what to do because I literally can not stop thinking about this guy. I don’t understand him at all. He obviously likes me but not enough and idk if there’s anything I can even do to get him back or if he’ll come back on his own . Like there’s just something about him

'' I'll make it up to you if YA want ''

😆

Please .. drop this loser.

Why are you calling him a loser?

Sex was mutually desired.

Have you never felt like oops! something doesn’t click?

I am asking women who hate Aries to explain why and so far there weren’t any explanations. Still waiting. I just don’t see how terrible they are and i know 3 Rams and none of them bad...

Just my 2 cents.

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1. I don't hate Aries.

There's a lot of losers in this world, some of them happen to be Aries. C'est la vie.

2. Sure sometimes it doesn't click, but only a loser will spew something like:

'' I'll make it up to you if YA want ''

Just be a man and say : sorry, I just wanted to get laid, i didn't want anything else. bye.

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Posted by Astrogirl76

Ok so this is a lot but im so stressed. I liked this guy alot I’m a Leo sun Venus in cancer and his is Aries sun venus in Aries. Maybe I’m about to sound so crazy but I’m legit confused. Obviously met this super awesome Aries guy, and I felt like we have connected like no other (I have not felt this way in a minute or at all really) and he was showing all the signs he felt the same way he even said we’re practically the same person. On the 3rd date we slept together cause I just couldn’t resist him but I asked him

If that’s all he wanted and he looked so Genuine when he said no, his communication didn’t start cutting off until a couple days after that. Like where I felt he was slowly loosing interest, he asked me to hang out sat but I wasn’t available so I said Sunday and he ended up cancelling, didn’t speak to him for three days and then messaged him and we picked up right where we left off his communication was top notch and he seemed genuinely interested told me he had Monday off and would like to see me I said how about Tuesday and he agreed come Tuesday he cancels and I basically tell him I had fun meeting him but just forget about it, he’s made plans twice and cancelled. He replied with “sorry I’m bad with making plans during the week and cancelling, HMU next time you have a weekend night off and I’ll make it up to you if ya want” I didn’t reply and left the message on read (I usually work weekends and he works weekdays ) idkkk what to do because I literally can not stop thinking about this guy. I don’t understand him at all. He obviously likes me but not enough and idk if there’s anything I can even do to get him back or if he’ll come back on his own . Like there’s just something about him

'' I'll make it up to you if YA want ''

😆

Please .. drop this loser.

Why are you calling him a loser?

Sex was mutually desired.

Have you never felt like oops! something doesn’t click?

I am asking women who hate Aries to explain why and so far there weren’t any explanations. Still waiting. I just don’t see how terrible they are and i know 3 Rams and none of them bad...

Just my 2 cents.

1. I don't hate Aries.

There's a lot of losers in this world, some of them happen to be Aries. C'est la vie.

2. Sure sometimes it doesn't click, but only a loser will spew something like:

'' I'll make it up to you if YA want ''

Just be a man and say : sorry, I just wanted to get laid, i didn't want anything else. bye.

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I’ve missed that part...🧐

You can’t get him back, because he wasn’t yours in the first place.

It sounds like he isn’t that interested.

Or he is interested but he already has a girlfriend, he’s already in a relationship that maybe is a bit toxic or something and he’s seeing if you are better.

I doubt it’s because he’s tired lol.. you shouldn’t be trying to defend him, I know you want to believe he’s this great guy but you don’t know him that well yet.

It could be any number of reasons that he is behaving like this, I think you need to assume that you don’t know and you won’t know, you can guess all you want to but what’s the point.

Just cool it, and see if he messages you, but in the mean time try and find someone else.

Don’t let this man disturb your mental health. You started this off with “I’m stressed.” Gravitate more to people who feel like sunshine, not people who lower your vibration. Pining after this guy does not serve you, as it keeps you in low vibration. As women, we have the bad habit of letting men’s actions ruin our day when the reason he is like this could have absolutely nothing to do with you. Make yourself really busy and try to get out of the habit of thinking about him. It seems he hardly thinks about you and is probably getting so much done.

You already know what’s up when you said “he likes me but not enough.” Men are good at liking someone just a little when for women it’s always all or nothing. You deserve more than someone who likes you just a little. Get a fully invested man. Free yourself!

Posted by Arielle83

Sorry sounds like you’re either too intense or love bombing him into a a corner and he agreed in the moment.

He’s red flagging you and backing away.

It’s from that box where all the

‘He said he doesn’t love me but he cared enough to say it so he must love me!’ 🤦‍♀️

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Posted by Gemitati

I could swear I’ve read this post a while ago.

Am I mistaking?

No, it’s just an epidemic

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Yeah. Like heroin...it seems if I don’t read one per day I am in withdrawal pain...🤪

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Posted by Arielle83

Sorry sounds like you’re either too intense or love bombing him into a a corner and he agreed in the moment.

He’s red flagging you and backing away.

It’s from that box where all the

‘He said he doesn’t love me but he cared enough to say it so he must love me!’ 🤦‍♀️

Or some projected emotional understanding which was really horny eyes

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You just don’t understand! Have you ever have such an intense emotional connection that felt unreal so how dare is he left it on read?

Posted by Astrogirl76

Ok so this is a lot but im so stressed. I liked this guy alot I’m a Leo sun Venus in cancer and his is Aries sun venus in Aries. Maybe I’m about to sound so crazy but I’m legit confused. Obviously met this super awesome Aries guy, and I felt like we have connected like no other (I have not felt this way in a minute or at all really) and he was showing all the signs he felt the same way he even said we’re practically the same person. On the 3rd date we slept together cause I just couldn’t resist him but I asked him

If that’s all he wanted and he looked so Genuine when he said no, his communication didn’t start cutting off until a couple days after that. Like where I felt he was slowly loosing interest, he asked me to hang out sat but I wasn’t available so I said Sunday and he ended up cancelling, didn’t speak to him for three days and then messaged him and we picked up right where we left off his communication was top notch and he seemed genuinely interested told me he had Monday off and would like to see me I said how about Tuesday and he agreed come Tuesday he cancels and I basically tell him I had fun meeting him but just forget about it, he’s made plans twice and cancelled. He replied with “sorry I’m bad with making plans during the week and cancelling, HMU next time you have a weekend night off and I’ll make it up to you if ya want” I didn’t reply and left the message on read (I usually work weekends and he works weekdays ) idkkk what to do because I literally can not stop thinking about this guy. I don’t understand him at all. He obviously likes me but not enough and idk if there’s anything I can even do to get him back or if he’ll come back on his own . Like there’s just something about him

Cause people date. You might not be the best. Mighta saw and engaged someone more interesting after your date. People date. People are looking.

Whatever the case, his interest appears low.

You don't know him enough even to speculate.

Some men are gentlemen and bluntness, directness, can be considered rude.

My son dated a young lady for a few weeks. I had to ask him several times what happened with her. He finally told me. As he was telling me, he looked like the words coming out of his mouth tasted like shit. He said she didn't have good hygiene. I forced him to go into more detail. He said she had bad breath, wasn't clean... like ever smelled good... not bad but stale, and she put little effort into grooming or looking nice... plain, blah. He did not tell her this.