Aries in a bad mood

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How do you act toward your partner if you are upset, agitated, angry, frustrated...and it has nothing to do with your partner...

What do you expect from your partner at the time when you are jumping out of your skin?

What would be the best action that your partner can provide for you?

Considering that you are in trusting loving non-confrontational rahips and you can share anything?
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Depends on the Moon in this situation.

I'm an Aries with a Gemini Moon. When I finally speak, you have to listen to my thoughts and agree with every word in a meaningful way that shows you fully understand. When I'm silent, be silent with me. My Virgo Cancer Moon hubby tries to feeds me and show concern for me not eating as well as full understanding.
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Posted by VenusAquarius

Depends on the Moon in this situation.

I'm an Aries with a Gemini Moon. When I finally speak, you have to listen to my thoughts and agree with every word in a meaningful way that shows you fully understand. When I'm silent, be silent with me. My Virgo Cancer Moon hubby tries to feeds me and show concern for me not eating as well as full understanding.


Aqua moon.

I am totally supportive of his crazy ass but sometimes I am wondering IF I maybe need to do something differently...because he does have legit problem (fighting for his child) and I fully understand but it seems at times that whatever I am having going on is always less important (thanks God though) and even he wants to know if I am ok - I don’t want to burden him with my shit because...what is he going to do if his heart and mind are occupied by greater problem.

He is by no means insensitive to me. It is my own choice to shelter him from my problems...however sometimes I am wondering IF he will used to me being ‘always ok’ and stop asking about how I am doing because I’ve always been fine...

Should I continue playing an umbrella until his problem will end. Hopefully this year...
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In my own personal experience Aries Sun and moons are a bit pushy when in a bad mood. Their bad mood is they type to detach a bit, while also pushing buttons. I honestly think some think it is fun. They enjoy a good challenge, and at some points want to fuck you up mentally, or even physically. It's more of a build-up with Aries energy though. You could be cool with some for years, then one day they want to fight you mentally or physically. Or both even. Most of the time it's because they find you weak, or unstable. I find Aries are like Scorpio in ways, except more extroverted. When it's on, its on and nothing will change their minds when on a warpath. The only difference is Aries energy tends to be about one huge explosion , while Scorpio is about enduring a long drawn out battle. That's why the two clash so much imo. Aries anger and bad moods are all about that particular situation, and nothing more then that. They could wake up the next day and truly move on and pretend like nothing happened. They tend to live in the fast lane, and prefer it that way.
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Live him alone. It won’t last long and they prefer not to bother anyone when they are in a bad mood


Nooooo...he tells me and we discussing...it’s not just a bad mood shit. It’s long lasting anger and frustration that is bugging shit out of him and puts fear into him that he won’t get his sons full permanent custody. It’s not a thing that passing by...he is great dad! However I will never ask him first. He has to tell me. But maybe I should?
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Live him alone. It won’t last long and they prefer not to bother anyone when they are in a bad mood

Nooooo...he tells me and we discussing...it’s not just a bad mood shit. It’s long lasting anger and frustration that is bugging shit out of him and puts fear into him that he won’t get his sons full permanent custody. It’s not a thing that passing by...he is great dad! However I will never ask him first. He has to tell me. But maybe I should?
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Oh I see. I think for that is best just to be on his side when he comes to confide in you. Just support him and be open. Asking can be good too so he sees that you care, but make sure that he doesn’t feel pushed to talk. You are just there for when he needs a helping hand. That is what he will expect from you.
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Live him alone. It won’t last long and they prefer not to bother anyone when they are in a bad mood

Nooooo...he tells me and we discussing...it’s not just a bad mood shit. It’s long lasting anger and frustration that is bugging shit out of him and puts fear into him that he won’t get his sons full permanent custody. It’s not a thing that passing by...he is great dad! However I will never ask him first. He has to tell me. But maybe I should?

Oh I see. I think for that is best just to be on his side when he comes to confide in you. Just support him and be open. Asking can be good too so he sees that you care, but make sure that he doesn’t feel pushed to talk. You are just there for when he needs a helping hand. That is what he will expect from you.
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Thanks. I thought so but I am so afraid to be overboard...I have tendency you know...Gemini after all...I don’t want to be a busy body...