ARIES IS THIS NORMAL??

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I'm a Capricorn that's interested in an Aries.
We chatted up for a couple of days and she finally gave me her number. (without me asking for it)
Well we flirt almost every time we talk. However when i ask her question about herself to get to know her, she then acts shy or doesn't seem to explain much. Which makes it difficult for me to figure her out. What does this mean? Is this an Aries trait? Is she really interested in me?
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I'm a Capricorn that's interested in an Aries.
We chatted up for a couple of days and she finally gave me her number. (without me asking for it)
Well we flirt almost every time we talk. However when i ask her question about herself to get to know her, she then acts shy or doesn't seem to explain much. Which makes it difficult for me to figure her out. What does this mean? Is this an Aries trait? Is she really interested in me?



Yes. She is interested.
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What made you say that?
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I'm a Capricorn that's interested in an Aries.
We chatted up for a couple of days and she finally gave me her number. (without me asking for it)
Well we flirt almost every time we talk. However when i ask her question about herself to get to know her, she then acts shy or doesn't seem to explain much. Which makes it difficult for me to figure her out. What does this mean? Is this an Aries trait? Is she really interested in me?



Yes. She is interested.




What made you say that?


Probably the shy/doesn't seem to explain much part. 🙂
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ikr it's throwing me off. but maybe that's apart of her plan you Aries love to be chase but also want a challenge. I don't want to come off clingy but i would like to get to know her.
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ikr it's throwing me off. but maybe that's apart of her plan you Aries love to be chase but also want a challenge. I don't want to come off clingy but i would like to get to know her.



You're a Cap right? I've never know you all to be clingy...if anything y'all are far from it.

My ex Cap chased me for 2 months, but she did it very subtly - started with "let's hang out more" - then on our 3rd official date, she shoved her tongue into my mouth on the dance floor ahahaha.
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Yeah i'm a cap but my moon is in cancer and venus in pisces. I think that should sum it up lol
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ikr it's throwing me off. but maybe that's apart of her plan you Aries love to be chase but also want a challenge. I don't want to come off clingy but i would like to get to know her.



You're a Cap right? I've never know you all to be clingy...if anything y'all are far from it.

My ex Cap chased me for 2 months, but she did it very subtly - started with "let's hang out more" - then on our 3rd official date, she shoved her tongue into my mouth on the dance floor ahahaha.



Yeah i'm a cap but my moon is in cancer and venus in pisces. I think that should sum it up lol



What's her chart?
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I don't know, 😢 .
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In all seriousness, whenever I do this, it's because I'm realizing that the guy may be interested and the fun banter has now crossed the line and omg it's not fun banter, but something more serious. The guy may be interested? Well shit, either I don't know if I'm interested or I really am not, hence the hesitance to share.

Don't put a ton of weight into one answer as her having true interest. She COULD, but you shouldn't put all your eggs in one basket, assuming it's interest.
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Posted by Rambunctious76
Posted by ckraprickorn
I'm a Capricorn that's interested in an Aries.
We chatted up for a couple of days and she finally gave me her number. (without me asking for it)
Well we flirt almost every time we talk. However when i ask her question about herself to get to know her, she then acts shy or doesn't seem to explain much. Which makes it difficult for me to figure her out. What does this mean? Is this an Aries trait? Is she really interested in me?



Yes. She is interested.




What made you say that?


Probably the shy/doesn't seem to explain much part. 🙂



ikr it's throwing me off. but maybe that's apart of her plan you Aries love to be chase but also want a challenge. I don't want to come off clingy but i would like to get to know her.
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Just be yourself. If she likes you cool, if not... there are plenty of fishes in the sea 🙂
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In all seriousness, whenever I do this, it's because I'm realizing that the guy may be interested and the fun banter has now crossed the line and omg it's not fun banter, but something more serious. The guy may be interested? Well shit, either I don't know if I'm interested or I really am not, hence the hesitance to share.

Don't put a ton of weight into one answer as her having true interest. She COULD, but you shouldn't put all your eggs in one basket, assuming it's interest.



So what do you do Rocky, when you are interested in someone?
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I don't shy away or avoid them, that's for sure.
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I don't think she's reading too much into things. I think she got confused as to what it means.



She? I thought the OP was a dude? Where did you get "she" from?

I think the OP is reading too much into it. Could this Aries be interested? Sure. But I'm saying that to go from friendly and giving out a phone number to freezing up and going quiet when it comes to personal questions, I wouldn't be surprised if she was being friendly and then realized that the OP mistook that for genuine interest. It's happened to me on occasion- I'm just being friendly and chatty and next thing I know, dude thinks I want a date or some shit.

OP just needs to keep doing what they were doing originally and not worry about it until they're sure. There is no mistaking someone's interest because it'd be more obvious than a "maybe I'm seeing things."

Btw, when I'M interested in someone, I don't freeze up or shy away from personal questions. The only time I get iffy/shy about that stuff is when I think the person in question may be on a whole other page than I am and I hesitate because I don't want to string along/encourage that bs.
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I don't think she's reading too much into things. I think she got confused as to what it means.



She? I thought the OP was a dude? Where did you get "she" from?

I think the OP is reading too much into it. Could this Aries be interested? Sure. But I'm saying that to go from friendly and giving out a phone number to freezing up and going quiet when it comes to personal questions, I wouldn't be surprised if she was being friendly and then realized that the OP mistook that for genuine interest. It's happened to me on occasion- I'm just being friendly and chatty and next thing I know, dude thinks I want a date or some shit.

OP just needs to keep doing what they were doing originally and not worry about it until they're sure. There is no mistaking someone's interest because it'd be more obvious than a "maybe I'm seeing things."

Btw, when I'M interested in someone, I don't freeze up or shy away from personal questions. The only time I get iffy/shy about that stuff is when I think the person in question may be on a whole other page than I am and I hesitate because I don't want to string along/encourage that bs.
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I am a she. and what is your moon and asc—
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In all seriousness, whenever I do this, it's because I'm realizing that the guy may be interested and the fun banter has now crossed the line and omg it's not fun banter, but something more serious. The guy may be interested? Well shit, either I don't know if I'm interested or I really am not, hence the hesitance to share.

Don't put a ton of weight into one answer as her having true interest. She COULD, but you shouldn't put all your eggs in one basket, assuming it's interest.



So what do you do Rocky, when you are interested in someone?



She gets overly excited and starts beating her chest in total domination style !

(Ok i'm just kidding here...)
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lmao i can believe that though! 😄
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I don't think i'm reading into anything by just being sure. I'm just curious into knowing if she was interested or not. Which she is btw. I found it a little strange as all and i asked for advice.



It's actually not that strange. I've done this before...gotten shy in the face of an interested party. But unlike Rocky, it's not because I was unsure of my interest in the person - it was more like I was unsure of how to reciprocate that interest (i.e. my lack of interest in intimacy etc.etc.)
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what made you unsure?
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You're a she? She's a she? Does she swing that way?

I have a cancer moon and pisces rising




yes she does. her screenname on almost everything is ilove_females.
& oh okay
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Sorry, gotta ask. We've had a few people show up here who were all into the same sex, but the object of their affection was not.

Do you know this chick irl or is it all online?

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I don't think i'm reading into anything by just being sure. I'm just curious into knowing if she was interested or not. Which she is btw. I found it a little strange as all and i asked for advice.



It's actually not that strange. I've done this before...gotten shy in the face of an interested party. But unlike Rocky, it's not because I was unsure of my interest in the person - it was more like I was unsure of how to reciprocate that interest (i.e. my lack of interest in intimacy etc.etc.)
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You failed to mention that I also do this when I'm NOT interested.
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lol relax she likes you. When Aries people are truly guarded, it means they like you a lot. Usually we're pretty friendly and assertive in situations like this..but the fact that she took the time, and gave out her number on the third date is a good sign.
1)When an Aries likes someone he/she is pretty friendly towards them.
2)When an Aries really likes someone, he/she will want to be a bit coy
3)When an Aries is speechless, well...hell we don't say a damn thing.
4)When you're an Aries with a cap moon, you will ignore the person you like..

People may assume that because we are generally known for being assertive people, that automatically means we are extroverted. That is an incorrect assumption. Actually out of all the fire signs, I would say we are the most introverted, we just hide it well. If an Aries opens up his/her heart to you..sign,sealed, delivered. Be a little patient. She's into you.
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lol relax she likes you. When Aries people are truly guarded, it means they like you a lot. Usually we're pretty friendly and assertive in situations like this..but the fact that she took the time, and gave out her number on the third date is a good sign.
1)When an Aries likes someone he/she is pretty friendly towards them.
2)When an Aries really likes someone, he/she will want to be a bit coy
3)When an Aries is speechless, well...hell we don't say a damn thing.
4)When you're an Aries with a cap moon, you will ignore the person you like..

People may assume that because we are generally known for being assertive people, that automatically means we are extroverted. That is an incorrect assumption. Actually out of all the fire signs, I would say we are the most introverted, we just hide it well. If an Aries opens up his/her heart to you..sign,sealed, delivered. Be a little patient. She's into you.



Thankx for your advice man. Her moon is in cancer like mine also her venus is in pisces too
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lol relax she likes you. When Aries people are truly guarded, it means they like you a lot. Usually we're pretty friendly and assertive in situations like this..but the fact that she took the time, and gave out her number on the third date is a good sign.
1)When an Aries likes someone he/she is pretty friendly towards them.
2)When an Aries really likes someone, he/she will want to be a bit coy
3)When an Aries is speechless, well...hell we don't say a damn thing.
4)When you're an Aries with a cap moon, you will ignore the person you like..

People may assume that because we are generally known for being assertive people, that automatically means we are extroverted. That is an incorrect assumption. Actually out of all the fire signs, I would say we are the most introverted, we just hide it well. If an Aries opens up his/her heart to you..sign,sealed, delivered. Be a little patient. She's into you.



Thankx for your advice man. Her moon is in cancer like mine also her venus is in pisces too
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lol yw hun, just play it cool and don't pry too much. She'll open up eventually. Aries and Capricorn is a tough match up, but if you're willing to get past your differences and compromise, it could be something special.