Aries man got really upset

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Posted by Zetarose
So we've been talking LDR for two-three months. I have been having a hard time and he knows this. Insecurity, trust issues.. Need for attention, etc. last week I snapped and said this isn't working AGAIN. He just went off and basically said when you are ready to treat me as you would want tone treated then ill be here. But his last message was ok you've made up your mind I can't do anything I've said all I can say.... He is clearly frustrated with me. He didn't even message me for V day yesterday. Idk what to do....

Stop doing the stuff that's pissing him off. That's what you should do. He's an Aries so he's been crystal clear and direct with you about what he doesn't like. Listen or lose him. It's not very complicated.

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So we've been talking LDR for two-three months. I have been having a hard time and he knows this. Insecurity, trust issues.. Need for attention, etc. last week I snapped and said this isn't working AGAIN. He just went off and basically said when you are ready to treat me as you would want tone treated then ill be here. But his last message was ok you've made up your mind I can't do anything I've said all I can say.... He is clearly frustrated with me. He didn't even message me for V day yesterday. Idk what to do....

Stop doing the stuff that's pissing him off. That's what you should do. He's an Aries so he's been crystal clear and direct with you about what he doesn't like. Listen or lose him. It's not very complicated.

I know but I can't help my issues I have in relationships and need constant encouragement it seems; esp. In new relationships. He has told me he loves me, has talked about the future w me I just can't help I get so insecure feelings sometimes... Do Aries always say what they mean? Should I trust him.? When he tells me he loves me?

We are the most straightforward out of all the signs. We mean what we say and say what we mean without filters. Of course there are liars in every sign though. If it's coming from an Aries, it's most likely true.

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Posted by Zetarose
So we've been talking LDR for two-three months. I have been having a hard time and he knows this. Insecurity, trust issues.. Need for attention, etc. last week I snapped and said this isn't working AGAIN. He just went off and basically said when you are ready to treat me as you would want tone treated then ill be here. But his last message was ok you've made up your mind I can't do anything I've said all I can say.... He is clearly frustrated with me. He didn't even message me for V day yesterday. Idk what to do....

Stop doing the stuff that's pissing him off. That's what you should do. He's an Aries so he's been crystal clear and direct with you about what he doesn't like. Listen or lose him. It's not very complicated.

I know but I can't help my issues I have in relationships and need constant encouragement it seems; esp. In new relationships. He has told me he loves me, has talked about the future w me I just can't help I get so insecure feelings sometimes... Do Aries always say what they mean? Should I trust him.? When he tells me he loves me?

We are the most straightforward out of all the signs. We mean what we say and say what we mean without filters. Of course there are liars in every sign though. If it's coming from an Aries, it's most likely true.

Thank you Š!

No problem, but a word of advice, if there are significant signs that he's lying or something is wrong do not ignore them. Like I said, there are liars in every zodiac sign. Being a certain zodiac sign doesn't mean all people behave the same way. Good luck with your relationship. 🙂

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Posted by brandyp
it sounds like he likes you but you are pushing him away. LDR's aren't for everybody, and you seem to really hate the distance issue. the decision seems up to you if he really is doing everything he can.

Posted by brandyp
it sounds like he likes you but you are pushing him away. LDR's aren't for everybody, and you seem to really hate the distance issue. the decision seems up to you if he really is doing everything he can.

Posted by brandyp
I don't know much about aries but I imagine them (loudly) fighting for all things they want out of life, including love. If you need him to step up to the plate more, tell him. its hard for me to gauge exactly whats going on bc told you that hes said everything he could say to you already, yet you say you need reassurance so maybe tell him specifically like I need you to call me before you go to bed tonight or facetime with me tomorrow or whatever. IDK why he didn't call you yesterday im sorry sweetie, maybe like you said he is frustrated. You guys could plan a weekend together or something soon where you can see each other in person to revive the spark.

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Posted by brandyp
it sounds like he likes you but you are pushing him away. LDR's aren't for everybody, and you seem to really hate the distance issue. the decision seems up to you if he really is doing everything he can.

In a perfect world..(me being a Virgo-perfectionist. Especially in relationships; so in a perfect world, it'd be him saying I will give you all the reassurance you need,. And I will never break your heart.. Although he had said he would never intentionally hurt me. Well of course not, I know he wouldn't just hurt me on purpose. I see his Aries selfishness sometimes and that hurts me... I just want him to like fight for my love.. But , that's just not reality, people don't do that... That's like a movie or a romance Novel not real life I guess..

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I hope he does, keep us posted ok!!

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I hope he does, keep us posted ok!!

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I hope he does, keep us posted ok!!

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Posted by Zetarose
So we've been talking LDR for two-three months. I have been having a hard time and he knows this. Insecurity, trust issues.. Need for attention, etc. last week I snapped and said this isn't working AGAIN. He just went off and basically said when you are ready to treat me as you would want tone treated then ill be here. But his last message was ok you've made up your mind I can't do anything I've said all I can say.... He is clearly frustrated with me. He didn't even message me for V day yesterday. Idk what to do....

Could it be that he got frustrated because he believes he doesn't know how to make you happy?

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Posted by brandyp
it sounds like he likes you but you are pushing him away. LDR's aren't for everybody, and you seem to really hate the distance issue. the decision seems up to you if he really is doing everything he can.

In a perfect world..(me being a Virgo-perfectionist. Especially in relationships; so in a perfect world, it'd be him saying I will give you all the reassurance you need,. And I will never break your heart.. Although he had said he would never intentionally hurt me. Well of course not, I know he wouldn't just hurt me on purpose. I see his Aries selfishness sometimes and that hurts me... I just want him to like fight for my love.. But , that's just not reality, people don't do that... That's like a movie or a romance Novel not real life I guess..

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Is that what you ideally like from him? For him to fight for your love without you saying anything to him

I've made it clear since day one I am like this.. I say stuff I communicate my needs.

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Posted by Zetarose
So we've been talking LDR for two-three months. I have been having a hard time and he knows this. Insecurity, trust issues.. Need for attention, etc. last week I snapped and said this isn't working AGAIN. He just went off and basically said when you are ready to treat me as you would want tone treated then ill be here. But his last message was ok you've made up your mind I can't do anything I've said all I can say.... He is clearly frustrated with me. He didn't even message me for V day yesterday. Idk what to do....

Could it be that he got frustrated because he believes he doesn't know how to make you happy?

Possibly, but if he loves me as much as he says.. Then I'd think he'd do all he can to try n make it work... I mean cmon not even messaging me at lest on valentine day?!! Wtf

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So we've been talking LDR for two-three months. I have been having a hard time and he knows this. Insecurity, trust issues.. Need for attention, etc. last week I snapped and said this isn't working AGAIN. He just went off and basically said when you are ready to treat me as you would want tone treated then ill be here. But his last message was ok you've made up your mind I can't do anything I've said all I can say.... He is clearly frustrated with me. He didn't even message me for V day yesterday. Idk what to do....

Could it be that he got frustrated because he believes he doesn't know how to make you happy?

Possibly, but if he loves me as much as he says.. Then I'd think he'd do all he can to try n make it work... I mean cmon not even messaging me at lest on valentine day?!! Wtf

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It's Valentine's Day, it's not that critical. Chill. If you cared as much as you say you do, you wouldn't keep saying things that make him mad. If you have insecurities regarding your relationships, that's not his problem. That's something you need to work on. It's now or never, girl. Quit


I hear ya believe me I am ridiculous.. I can't help myself tho. I do need to work on my issues

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Posted by Zetarose
So we've been talking LDR for two-three months. I have been having a hard time and he knows this. Insecurity, trust issues.. Need for attention, etc. last week I snapped and said this isn't working AGAIN. He just went off and basically said when you are ready to treat me as you would want tone treated then ill be here. But his last message was ok you've made up your mind I can't do anything I've said all I can say.... He is clearly frustrated with me. He didn't even message me for V day yesterday. Idk what to do....

Could it be that he got frustrated because he believes he doesn't know how to make you happy?

Possibly, but if he loves me as much as he says.. Then I'd think he'd do all he can to try n make it work... I mean cmon not even messaging me at lest on valentine day?!! Wtf

Maybe he kind of dreads messaging you if he feels like he's walking on eggshells.

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Posted by Zetarose
So we've been talking LDR for two-three months. I have been having a hard time and he knows this. Insecurity, trust issues.. Need for attention, etc. last week I snapped and said this isn't working AGAIN. He just went off and basically said when you are ready to treat me as you would want tone treated then ill be here. But his last message was ok you've made up your mind I can't do anything I've said all I can say.... He is clearly frustrated with me. He didn't even message me for V day yesterday. Idk what to do....

Could it be that he got frustrated because he believes he doesn't know how to make you happy?

Possibly, but if he loves me as much as he says.. Then I'd think he'd do all he can to try n make it work... I mean cmon not even messaging me at lest on valentine day?!! Wtf

Maybe he kind of dreads messaging you if he feels like he's walking on eggshells.

Yeah I'm sure that has some part to do with it.. Damn I just don't know WTF to do

Is there anything he does that makes you happy? Or anything that puts a smile to your face?

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Posted by Zetarose
So we've been talking LDR for two-three months. I have been having a hard time and he knows this. Insecurity, trust issues.. Need for attention, etc. last week I snapped and said this isn't working AGAIN. He just went off and basically said when you are ready to treat me as you would want tone treated then ill be here. But his last message was ok you've made up your mind I can't do anything I've said all I can say.... He is clearly frustrated with me. He didn't even message me for V day yesterday. Idk what to do....

Could it be that he got frustrated because he believes he doesn't know how to make you happy?

Possibly, but if he loves me as much as he says.. Then I'd think he'd do all he can to try n make it work... I mean cmon not even messaging me at lest on valentine day?!! Wtf

Maybe he kind of dreads messaging you if he feels like he's walking on eggshells.

Yeah I'm sure that has some part to do with it.. Damn I just don't know WTF to do

Is there anything he does that makes you happy? Or anything that puts a smile to your face?

Yea that's why I fell in love with him.. I constantly think about him. From the moment I wake up to til my head hits the pillow. Im all about him.. I am just overcome with these negative thoughts and worries especially cuz it's LDR

Maybe let him know the things he does that makes you happy? Let him know of his achievements that you're proud of? 🙂 Don't make it up though. If you decide to do this, be honest. If there's something you would really like him to change, also tell him that.
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Posted by champranger
Because ... I think, in some ways, he doesn't feel like you respect him ...

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
He will come back around, and when he does, just be cool
about it. Take his word at face value.

Posted by DMV
Again, did you message him?

He could saying the same thing about you. That you dont care either.

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Posted by brandyp
I don't know much about aries but I imagine them (loudly) fighting for all things they want out of life, including love. If you need him to step up to the plate more, tell him. its hard for me to gauge exactly whats going on bc told you that hes said everything he could say to you already, yet you say you need reassurance so maybe tell him specifically like I need you to call me before you go to bed tonight or facetime with me tomorrow or whatever. IDK why he didn't call you yesterday im sorry sweetie, maybe like you said he is frustrated. You guys could plan a weekend together or something soon where you can see each other in person to revive the spark.

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Posted by brandyp
it sounds like he likes you but you are pushing him away. LDR's aren't for everybody, and you seem to really hate the distance issue. the decision seems up to you if he really is doing everything he can.

In a perfect world..(me being a Virgo-perfectionist. Especially in relationships; so in a perfect world, it'd be him saying I will give you all the reassurance you need,. And I will never break your heart.. Although he had said he would never intentionally hurt me. Well of course not, I know he wouldn't just hurt me on purpose. I see his Aries selfishness sometimes and that hurts me... I just want him to like fight for my love.. But , that's just not reality, people don't do that... That's like a movie or a romance Novel not real life I guess..

Thank you I will if he ever contacts me again... Idk if I will initiate. I'm scared..

So because you're scared, you expect him to initiate?

Girl, the ball is in your court now. If you really love him and want him back, you'll do what it takes.

That is why he said,"ready to treat me like I treat you."

If you're not willing to fight for him then you have to let him go.

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Posted by champranger
Good luck! 🙂

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Posted by DMV
Again, did you message him?

He could saying the same thing about you. That you dont care either.

No I'm too afraid right now.. I need to cool off first and he prob does too. Yea I guess he could say that but why would I stress so much over us if I didn't care.. And he knows I do

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Again, did you message him?

He could saying the same thing about you. That you dont care either.

No I'm too afraid right now.. I need to cool off first and he prob does too. Yea I guess he could say that but why would I stress so much over us if I didn't care.. And he knows I do

You didnt tell him Happy Valentine either.

For all we know, the same reason you didnt wish him well is the same reason he hasnt.

Im 100% sure he thought of you. BUT something made him decide not to reach out. And vice versa.

You could have easily called him and wished him well.

Dont put all of this on him.

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Posted by DMV
Give me his number. I will message him

Posted by DMV
Youre kind exhausting op

Posted by DMV
Give me his number. I will message him

Posted by scorply
Let him go OP. You're probably a great woman, but not for him. In the end, it won't work and you will end up wasting his time and yours. Reach out when you have more idealistic views on life, relationships and people.Nothing is perfect and there are two things in life that are guaranteed: people hurting you and death. Relationships come with love and pain. It's just a matter of what form of pain you can tolerate. Your perspective of things aren't real and because of that, YOU are disappointing yourself. You aren't ready for a ldr or a relationship in general.