Aries man in open marriage ?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Virgoshowgirl on Friday, June 6, 2014 and has 5 replies.

Understanding Aries Men in Open Marriages

Aries men in open marriages may seek independence and new connections while maintaining their commitments. Their personalities often include assertiveness and a desire for excitement, which can influence their approach to open relationships. However, individual behaviors vary, and communication is key to understanding their intentions and boundaries.

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@Virgoshowgirl
14 Years

Hi all,

I have met a nice Aries man while I was working abroad. We spent a lot of time together, as friends.

He has been married for 2 years to his high school sweetheart (they've been together 12 years), and they decided last year to do an "open marriage", as they are both traveling a lot for work (They live in the US and he spends almost 5 months/year in Europe for work).

We have had serious debates over his open marriage, as I don't really agree with this concept. We are supposed to work together again for a few months in the fall, and I can feel he is interested in me.
I told him right from the start I could never get involved with a married man, open or not.

What are your views on that ?

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@Virgoshowgirl
14 Years

They actually are in an open marriage, I have friends who have known them for years and they confirmed this.
Besides, he hasn't tried to sleep with me, so this is not the point of my post.

I'm just curious to know what would lead an Aries man to have an open marriage, because I always thought they were very exclusive when in love.
Could this mean he wants out of the relationship ?

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@PrettyQueenBee
12 YearsCapricorn

I've had a married Aries man hit on me pretty tough for the last 4 months. He's never said the marriage was open. I've never entertained him. I don't judge people who choose to date or fxck married men. Married men are so slick... half of the time when you meet one, you don't even know that he's married. And if you do, you'd have to hear long, drawn-out stories of how his marriage is "failing," his wife isn't fxcking and sucking him good anymore, she doesn't understand him, the marriage is open, they're separated, blah blah. The typical BS a married man will feed to you in attempt to get you to fall.

Now my Leo friend was involved with an Aries guy who said his marriage was open, but I told her not to believe him. Although some marriages really are "open," I didn't believe the guy... and come to find out, it wasn't. She got a phone call from him wife, and that pretty much ended everything. lol

IDK what's up with Aries men and their cheating ways. Aries is really the only Fire sign I don't care for.

As far as your question is concerned, I really don't have any major views on open marriages... it is what it is. It's all in the couple's preference. I know personally, I would not want to know that my husband is fxcking another chick. He better keep it under wraps and hide it good, because if I find out.... it won't be pretty.

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by feby16aqua

ALSO, it sounds kind of weird that other people know about their arrangement. That would be a red flag to me. From what I know and my personal experience, these things are kept a bit more under wraps.

+10000

It could mean that your peers will be knowing that you sleep with a married man, as soon as it happens!

You really DON"T want to go there!