Aries men...

hi, i've been in 2 significant relationships the first was my 1st marriage with an Aries man born April 5th. the marriage lasted 'bout 2yrs. i was very in love w/this man but he simply wanted w/i wasn't. i was under the impression he thought he was too young, but shortly after i signed the divorce papers friends & family began to share w/me they'd spotted him w/another girl. i was crushed. when i confronted him 'bout this he denied it.

i am a yr. younger born Jan. 31 although i was crushed i began to date other guys always sizing em up to him. no one ever came close to him so i immediately dumped them. there was something about my aries guy i can't explain he had the strongest magnetism and i felt so safe and secure w/him i thought i'd never live w/out em. i continued to see him - he would come to my place of work we'd go out and one thing would lead to another. ofcourse he said all the right things and i couldn't resist his body language!! i never stopped thinking bout this other girl though. again, he denied that he was dating anyone, he assured me that i was the one he wanted.

although i new he was lying i continued to go out w/him hoping we could one day remarry. one day my co-worker and close friend told me he was waiting outside in his car to take me home. she looked a lil angry so i asked her what was wrong. she told me her boyfriend w/picked her up from wk as well told her that my guy told him he was engaged but not to mention anything to me.

to make what seems a long story short i moved on. a few yrs later i met an older guy who i admired but was n/physically attracted to. he had that same something my 1st love had but different. this guy pursued me but never seemed pushy. he was kind and oh-so-confident. i've been with him for quite some time now. his birthday is April 10.

i've noticed w/him i was more detached never showed my true feelings in fear he would hurt me too. i do as i please go where i want and although he gets jealous he acts like he doesn't care. i know he does but he won't say or express that. that drives me nuts!!!!

Aries men when do u know it's time to leave a relationship? what are the signs i should be looking for to help better prepare myself for another abrupt exit? i don't think i can bear another let down. i am a very attractive woman and although i would do anything to save this relationship i won't stoop down for anyone ever again. i sometimes feel i am too good for this man i have been a very loving, loyal, n dedicated girlfriend.

hey cielo, ariens usually donot lie. I think you should let loose your arien love. be true to him & express your honest & sincere feelings for him. He will definetely come back to you. But be prepared to satisfy his wild sexual urges 🙂

CoolGuy

Hey CoolGuy,

Hello and welcome to the boards. There are very few rules around here- but I'd say, take a look at the date of the last post made on a topic. If the topic is like 6 months old-- chances are- the topic is dead... and responding to that person is somewhat pointless.

ouch...good lord STD. I do admire aries' balls

Maybe we could look at this in another way...when bringing up a past post and responding we may be opening up a topic that someone may need to hear - it may just "hit the spot" I truly believe that nothing happens by accident. I do agree however if someone is looking for a response from a past poster, you may not get it and then again.....life is full of surprises 😉

LOL.. I agree to that, also.