Aries & Sag

Hello,

I am a new member and my sis told me to check this place out to get feedback on my current situation. Im a Sag and Im dating an Aries man. We have the best time and of course very compatible. We have been seeing eachother for about 3 months now. He shows me hes into me. He takes me out all the time, went all out for my bday, spends most of his free time with me..basically he spoils me. I like him alot and would like things to go further. How do I tell an aries man that? I have let him come to me and pretty much let him make the moves in the relationship. We are hanging out tonight to talk. I dont wanna come off as the typical girl and I dont wanna ask him where this is going. Do aries men have a hard time expressing their feelings verbally cuz that is something I need since I am straight forward with people (Sag) Bottom line I want to know if Im someone he can be with. I dont wanna waste my time.

Thx,

lala

I'd give my two cents...but i was just on here less than 3 days ago trying to figure an aries man out myself, and i've kown mine since we were 10! Basically seems to me they aren't that complicated. They can be just as honest, and blunt as a sagg which why the pair get along so well. You respect this about one another. My cousin is an aries and has been with her sagg man for 6 yrs going on 7. They just got married last yr in aug. At first she was too much for him. Imaginr that another sign that is actually to blunt,fiesty, and sharp for a sagg! But it did what other signs always fail to do and thats keep that sagg on his toes and coming back for more, so he freakin married her!lol. In your case i'd say be yourself, they tend to like it. Based on the advise i was given, they respect someone who's more upfront. If you try to hide like everything is fine, they'll know anyway so you might as well spill. Just be careful not to sound bossy, or like your trying to run the show. As i've read aries men like to chase, and take the lead. So i'd be cool and collected when approaching the subject of a relationship. (something I need to learn.lol) and make him feel comfortable, then i'd drop it. If he says something you like, then rock on. If not i'd drop it, and just date him. But i wouldn't dwell on it. He's obviously crazy about you. Your a sagg ENJOY THE RIDE! lol

Aries and Sag are suppose to be really good with each other. Maybe because of the directness.

We Aries men can have issues communicating things but doesn't mean we don't understand or can't keep up with someone's decision to talk about the relationship.

I would much rather have someone be direct with me as you are thinking about doing. I would give bonus points in fact haha.

I think any step to make things more clear would be benefit both of you equally especially if you listen to whatever he might have to say and try to strike out a balance of opinions of where to go next.

Good luck, hope things continue to work out!

Thx for the great advice everyone 🙂 I talked to him and was direct. He even said that likes when someone is upfront with him. We let everything out and both agreed that we want more. It was the best talk I have ever had! 🙂 Actually I got mad and cried a little when he admitted some stuff to me, but we talked about that too. I feel so much better that we did this. We both seemed to be relived lol. So we'll see what happens from here but I have a feeling its gonna be great!

I would much rather have someone be direct with me as you are thinking about doing. I would give bonus points in fact haha.

Yeah I think I got points for that too 🙂

greaaat. now i wish i were a sagg...lol. Maybe then i wouldn't feel like me and my aries have communicato issues. HAHA