Aries sun and venus - how would you know you found the one?

To my venus in aries, it's mostly the test of time.

I tend to fall in love rarely buy quickly but once if the connection persist, i think of it as true love (the one).

How is it for you?

Ya I'm the same but my moon sun and mars is Aries

IDK if I'll know.. personally, it's about timing for me. When I have settled some things in life.. But IDK.

I don't believe that I will fall in love and then get married. I have some criteria if they fulfil it I might go ahead with them.. But who knows. I think it's pointless to have some criteria yet I have it anyway.

I think it's more about convenience and timing for me.. I am stubborn regarding some things like building a career, getting some things done - only then I will get married.. (no relationship pls) who or why -- I cannot say for sure other than the criteria I have in mind - that too, i cannot be sure that I will stubbornly stick to that criteria/checklist. Because people are more than what we have an idea about...and it's hard to know anyone thoroughly unless you live under one roof and years pass by. Living under a roof can be all rosy and beautiful for a few months/years in beginning too.. So....

I have venus and sun in aries.

Posted by RumiL
IDK if I'll know.. personally, it's about timing for me. When I have settled some things in life.. But IDK.

I don't believe that I will fall in love and then get married. I have some criteria if they fulfil it I might go ahead with them.. But who knows. I think it's pointless to have some criteria yet I have it anyway.

I think it's more about convenience and timing for me.. I am stubborn regarding some things like building a career, getting some things done - only then I will get married.. (no relationship pls) who or why -- I cannot say for sure other than the criteria I have in mind - that too, i cannot be sure that I will stubbornly stick to that criteria/checklist. Because people are more than what we have an idea about...and it's hard to know anyone thoroughly unless you live under one roof and years pass by. Living under a roof can be all rosy and beautiful for a few months/years in beginning too.. So....

I have venus and sun in aries.

I think this is actually coming from your moon.

I have sun and venus in Aries too and I tend to not have much focus on relationship potential or such. If it happens then it happens, meanwhile I will continue focusing on more tangible purposes like career etc.

Posted by RumiL
IDK if I'll know.. personally, it's about timing for me. When I have settled some things in life.. But IDK.

I don't believe that I will fall in love and then get married. I have some criteria if they fulfil it I might go ahead with them.. But who knows. I think it's pointless to have some criteria yet I have it anyway.

I think it's more about convenience and timing for me.. I am stubborn regarding some things like building a career, getting some things done - only then I will get married.. (no relationship pls) who or why -- I cannot say for sure other than the criteria I have in mind - that too, i cannot be sure that I will stubbornly stick to that criteria/checklist. Because people are more than what we have an idea about...and it's hard to know anyone thoroughly unless you live under one roof and years pass by. Living under a roof can be all rosy and beautiful for a few months/years in beginning too.. So....

I have venus and sun in aries.

Very intresting response. Me too i'm difficult and idealistic about my future relationship. And if i dont find it, i don't mind staying alone.

I also feel that in order for it to succeed, i need to be set in all aspects of my life (health, routine, career, personal development...).

Do you mind sharing your check points list? I'm very curious...🙂

Rumi & Ram, same here

When I meet someone, my mind remains in the present

I can't think of being with "the one" now, I'm too busy...

Dating has never been a goal for me anyway

I'd rather meet someone with whom I can have a good friendship

However, I've tried to imagine what's my idea of this kind of relationship. I guess I just want us to feel very calm and comfortable around each other... to feel the air charged with love and affection

But first I have to handle my responsibilities

I'm Aries Sun and Venus

Posted by Fragrance
Rumi & Ram, same here

When I meet someone, my mind remains in the present

I can't think of being with "the one" now, I'm too busy...

Dating has never been a goal for me anyway

I'd rather meet someone with whom I can have a good friendship

However, I've tried to imagine what's my idea of this kind of relationship. I guess I just want us to feel very calm and comfortable around each other... to feel the air charged with love and affection

But first I have to handle my responsibilities

I'm Aries Sun and Venus

Fully understand, but what if you are in this "confortable and loving" state with someone for many years, won't you want to make it exclusive at one point?

That person could just get away and built a future with someone more future oriented...

Posted by Espresso

Posted by Fragrance
Rumi & Ram, same here

When I meet someone, my mind remains in the present

I can't think of being with "the one" now, I'm too busy...

Dating has never been a goal for me anyway

I'd rather meet someone with whom I can have a good friendship

However, I've tried to imagine what's my idea of this kind of relationship. I guess I just want us to feel very calm and comfortable around each other... to feel the air charged with love and affection

But first I have to handle my responsibilities

I'm Aries Sun and Venus

Fully understand, but what if you are in this "confortable and loving" state with someone for many years, won't you want to make it exclusive at one point?

That person could just get away and built a future with someone more future oriented...

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True story...my Aries wants a best friend in a partner also, but hes not focused on the future. I am not one to sacrifice my time for uncertainties so it may well go down this route...

I'm more of a think about the present kind of gal.. When I think too much of the future, especially with someone else, it gives me anxiety .. I don't mind being alone, I guess that helps too. I need & want a best friend in a relationship

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Posted by Fragrance
Rumi & Ram, same here

When I meet someone, my mind remains in the present

I can't think of being with "the one" now, I'm too busy...

Dating has never been a goal for me anyway

I'd rather meet someone with whom I can have a good friendship

However, I've tried to imagine what's my idea of this kind of relationship. I guess I just want us to feel very calm and comfortable around each other... to feel the air charged with love and affection

But first I have to handle my responsibilities

I'm Aries Sun and Venus

Fully understand, but what if you are in this "confortable and loving" state with someone for many years, won't you want to make it exclusive at one point?

That person could just get away and built a future with someone more future oriented...

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But if I'm in a relationship it's always exclusive

Wow, if it's been going on for many years in deep love and appreciation, it would be hard not to think of him as the love of my life 🙂

I basically meant I can't date now 😄

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Posted by Fragrance
Rumi & Ram, same here

When I meet someone, my mind remains in the present

I can't think of being with "the one" now, I'm too busy...

Dating has never been a goal for me anyway

I'd rather meet someone with whom I can have a good friendship

However, I've tried to imagine what's my idea of this kind of relationship. I guess I just want us to feel very calm and comfortable around each other... to feel the air charged with love and affection

But first I have to handle my responsibilities

I'm Aries Sun and Venus

stagnant life?

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Sensual life

Posted by andstill

Posted by Fragrance

Posted by andstill

Posted by Fragrance
Rumi & Ram, same here

When I meet someone, my mind remains in the present

I can't think of being with "the one" now, I'm too busy...

Dating has never been a goal for me anyway

I'd rather meet someone with whom I can have a good friendship

However, I've tried to imagine what's my idea of this kind of relationship. I guess I just want us to feel very calm and comfortable around each other... to feel the air charged with love and affection

But first I have to handle my responsibilities

I'm Aries Sun and Venus

stagnant life?

Sensual life

sensually stagnant

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Sensually invigorating

Posted by andstill

Posted by Fragrance

Posted by andstill

Posted by Fragrance

Posted by andstill

Posted by Fragrance
Rumi & Ram, same here

When I meet someone, my mind remains in the present

I can't think of being with "the one" now, I'm too busy...

Dating has never been a goal for me anyway

I'd rather meet someone with whom I can have a good friendship

However, I've tried to imagine what's my idea of this kind of relationship. I guess I just want us to feel very calm and comfortable around each other... to feel the air charged with love and affection

But first I have to handle my responsibilities

I'm Aries Sun and Venus

stagnant life?

Sensual life

sensually stagnant

Sensually invigorating

sounds like a bodywash 😄

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LOL 😄 With a soft sponge rubbing the back and lots of foam!

Posted by andstill

Posted by Fragrance

Posted by andstill

Posted by Fragrance

Posted by andstill

Posted by Fragrance

Posted by andstill

Posted by Fragrance
Rumi & Ram, same here

When I meet someone, my mind remains in the present

I can't think of being with "the one" now, I'm too busy...

Dating has never been a goal for me anyway

I'd rather meet someone with whom I can have a good friendship

However, I've tried to imagine what's my idea of this kind of relationship. I guess I just want us to feel very calm and comfortable around each other... to feel the air charged with love and affection

But first I have to handle my responsibilities

I'm Aries Sun and Venus

stagnant life?

Sensual life

sensually stagnant

Sensually invigorating

sounds like a bodywash 😄

LOL 😄 With a soft sponge rubbing the back and lots of foam!

click to expand

😄 😄 awwww

Posted by Espresso

Posted by RumiL
IDK if I'll know.. personally, it's about timing for me. When I have settled some things in life.. But IDK.

I don't believe that I will fall in love and then get married. I have some criteria if they fulfil it I might go ahead with them.. But who knows. I think it's pointless to have some criteria yet I have it anyway.

I think it's more about convenience and timing for me.. I am stubborn regarding some things like building a career, getting some things done - only then I will get married.. (no relationship pls) who or why -- I cannot say for sure other than the criteria I have in mind - that too, i cannot be sure that I will stubbornly stick to that criteria/checklist. Because people are more than what we have an idea about...and it's hard to know anyone thoroughly unless you live under one roof and years pass by. Living under a roof can be all rosy and beautiful for a few months/years in beginning too.. So....

I have venus and sun in aries.

Very intresting response. Me too i'm difficult and idealistic about my future relationship. And if i dont find it, i don't mind staying alone.

I also feel that in order for it to succeed, i need to be set in all aspects of my life (health, routine, career, personal development...).

Do you mind sharing your check points list? I'm very curious...🙂

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Thanks🙂

Yes, in order for it to succeed. For me, it's also because, i feel I will be too consumed by relationship that I might not be able to focus on career/work. I have always wondered how people..since school, manage studies while in a relationship 😕 .. It's beyond me how people manage both... Giving time to boyfriend, family, career, self...how. Especially when they are in the stage of making a career.

Regarding my checklist... Haha, its nothing much actually🙂

A person who is simple(in all ways - attitude, way of dealing with life, with others), has a sense of responsibility, stable, one who I can sit with and enjoy the silence between us.. :p