my venus in aries problem

This topic was created in the Aries forum by danceinahaze on Wednesday, December 30, 2015 and has 10 replies.

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@danceinahaze
10 Years

hi all,

so i mentioned i another thread about a venus in aries guy who's blatantly chasing me. the thing is, i don't like him. this morning he sent me his morning abs pic to greet me good morning. i didn't reply. and yes, the other time he told me the size of his package. he's way too fast i feel scared but he's my classmate in most classes so i'm doomed to be with him in the next few terms. when i'm with him, it's as if he's robbing me of my personal space and a choice not to be with him.

the good thing though is i think i'm doing good in brisk walking.

how do i tell him to stop in a nice way? i just heard venus in aries men take rejections seriously.

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@danceinahaze
10 Years

thanks! i'll do it... i'm actually scared he'll send me an actual dick pic next. but when he's not overdosed in testosterone, he's nice to talk to. now it comes to a point he's scaring me.

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@danceinahaze
10 Years

Posted by METANOIA
What is his other placements?
venus in aries can be direct, and straightfoward in their chasing, but usually stop quickly if the other person isn't interested.

I would be direct with him

sun - pisces
moon and asc - sagg

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@danceinahaze
10 Years

Posted by MagicMona
why try to be nice to a person who is vile? this guy thinks he is hot shit and he thinks you should be impressed by that. tell that clown to back off. if i were you, i'd give him tell him to leave me the hell alone, give him a warning, and if he didn't stop, i'd report him. borderline sexual harassment is what that is.

no one wants to see his body parts. he needs to seriously get a damn life.

i guess i need to learn how not to be nice...

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@danceinahaze
10 Years

update:

so we hanged out yesterday with a few friends. he sat next to me and flirted in such a way that he made sure i see him flex his muscles and shit... so i followed everyone's advise and told him in a loud crassy manner.

"HOW MANY GUY'S BUTTS HAVE YOU POKED IN THE GYM SHOWER?"

everyone laughed. then he stopped. i felt guilty but at least he stopped being annoying. this morning he sent me a "hi". i did not reply.