Any venus in aries women—??

This topic was created in the Aries forum by P3n3lop3 on Thursday, May 5, 2016 and has 22 replies.

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@questionoflustquestionoftrust
12 Years

Aries Venus here.

I get bored very easily unless it consists something I'm passionate about.
I don't chase.

Something is going on with the fire ruled signs. I have coffee with an Aqua girlfriend of mine almost every Monday afternoon. She brought an Aries guy a few times already. He asked me out the first time he met me. I declined. And every fucking time he asks me out. I keep telling him I'm with someone. He angrily asked me this Monday...."MY GOD.! WHAT WILL IT TAKE TO BE WITH YOU??!!" I don't think I'll be having my Monday coffee with her anymore.

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@questionoflustquestionoftrust
12 Years

I believe moon is in Aries as we type.

As a Venus in Aries, I wouldn't want to keep someone. I want them to be free. Let them do what fulfills their souls purpose. I'm with Pisces/Aries guy. If I don't call him he'll call me. I love to text he doesn't :/
But when we're together he holds my hands tight.
If we're out in public he'll sit directly in front of me. We actually had a little argument about it. He said "ugh... this is why I hate going out to places sometimes you look at everyone and everything around, and you forget about me." Which is why he holds my hands more often now.
the hands are the ruling body part of geminis!

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@RumiL
10 Years5,000+ Posts

I think it depends on your other placements as well 🙂

Especially moon/rising/mars...

I'm the type that bores people to death but will never get bored 😐

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@Mermaiddreams
10 Years

Yes I don't chase either, but I love Saggittarius guys they seem to be what I'm attracted to the most. Keyword: attracted. Saggittarius usually can't fulfill my long term emotional needs being a Taurus moon. All in all I'm attracted to outgoing, spontaneous, passionate guys (Venus in Aries) but long term I need someone who will not just take off on me (Taurus moon) and who will support me emotionally (Pisces sun).

I also agree that men find us Venus in Aries VERY sexually attractive bc we are kind of alluring....

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@SuperMissMan
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Wait what is the problem?
And I relate, I find guys attracted to me but I get unattracted to them when they chase me, and I prefer to chase. If i dont get that pleasure, what the hell am I even doing here?

That is my train of thought. But its so difficult, I find this to be y most challenging trait 😢

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@SuperMissMan
12 Years1,000+ Posts

I just broke up with a boyfriend of nearly two years, a Cancer, and it was because the fire died, the passion died, he was comfy with me didn't put the effort I needed, and I ended up really bored, and Started being attracted to other people who stirred something in me, and I had to explain that to him. It wasn't his fault, he's just really a more comfortable rater than excitig, challenging, competitive person that I need.

I need someone I can compete with. Like the aries I like right now, he plays baseball (yummy yummy) has a really nice ass, but is very atheletic. But my abs are much more prominent and tough, and I actually started making it a goal to train in ballet more than he does in sports, and even considered the football team again, just for the hell of being athletic on his or more than his level, whereas with the cancer, I didn't do shit.

I need a competitor, who at the end of the day I can admire and love and be a lover to. I need someone to inspire me and help me motivate myself to doing things and getting out there, a challenfer, a doer, someone exciting, someone doing their own thing...THAT is what feeds my soul. When someone can compete with me, wether or not they know it, if someone can keep up with or be ahead of me to the point it actually frustuates me, they have won me. That is the conflict I need.

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@SuperMissMan
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Don't get me wrong, I can fall head over heels for other people who aren't in any way challenging, but are just hard to get, or usually in my case, timid by my way too hard of coming onto them. But it's extremely short lived, and people end up hurt

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@SuperMissMan
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by AriesLove
Posted by SuperMissMan
I just broke up with a boyfriend of nearly two years, a Cancer, and it was because the fire died, the passion died, he was comfy with me didn't put the effort I needed, and I ended up really bored, and Started being attracted to other people who stirred something in me, and I had to explain that to him. It wasn't his fault, he's just really a more comfortable rater than excitig, challenging, competitive person that I need.

I need someone I can compete with. Like the aries I like right now, he plays baseball (yummy yummy) has a really nice ass, but is very atheletic. But my abs are much more prominent and tough, and I actually started making it a goal to train in ballet more than he does in sports, and even considered the football team again, just for the hell of being athletic on his or more than his level, whereas with the cancer, I didn't do shit.

I need a competitor, who at the end of the day I can admire and love and be a lover to. I need someone to inspire me and help me motivate myself to doing things and getting out there, a challenfer, a doer, someone exciting, someone doing their own thing...THAT is what feeds my soul. When someone can compete with me, wether or not they know it, if someone can keep up with or be ahead of me to the point it actually frustuates me, they have won me. That is the conflict I need.

But most Aries men like to chase. Some are flattered by a woman chasing but they loose interest very quickly with these types.

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You'd think right?
Usualy when I don't completley scare them away, it turns pretty well because I get so easily shaken and distracted, it takes effort on their behalf to keep my attention on them.
Not sure why I have such a hard time with that, i'm sure it's annoying af, But i've known guys who have chased me during a relaionship more than ever.

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@Scenic
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Once I understand a partner pretty well I get bored and it's really hard to stick around. I've constantly fought those thoughts and still am. I've never had a relationship shorter than 8 months long, though, and today is actually the 3 year anniversary of my current relationship. I don't particularly feel like guys are any more sexually attracted to me than what is normal, though. But, that may be due to how young I look...

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@P3n3lop3
10 Years

See..... Glamorous 👸 @trollbait & I put respeck on dat ‚ but really I can say I admire that part about them & I like to jokey joke here and there don't take me serious all the time then this wouldn't be fun