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Can anyone shed some light on this for me? I am dealing with an Aries landlord who constantly fights for a position of power when the position is not even needed. I am really struggling to maintain my sanity, while desperately trying to find a new place to live. I moved in this place with another friend of mine, with the understanding that it would be just her and I living here. The Aries woman was supposed to move out to one of her other houses. I would have never agreed to move in here with her. Now, I am at the mercy of this woman, whom from day to day keeps switching her position on where she stands with me. My friend that lives here is a Sag, and they get along pretty well. They have an ego connection...big ones.
I foolishly moved in with out any contract, and now she has tried to raise my rent 2 weeks before it is due. I am trying to be very diplomatic with this woman without losing my temper. She never tells the truth about anything, and rarely remembers anything she says. I am at a loss in how to deal with this. as soon as I find another place, hopefully in the next couple of weeks, I will be gone and better off. Is there any effective way of communicating here?
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Don't you have anything in writing saying how much ur rent would be before you moved in? Like a text from the sag or something? That serves as a written agreement.
And she is not the landlord so she has no right to put ur rent up. She can't make u give her more money. So just be defiant, find urself a new place to live because she is trying to see how far she can push you and how much u'll let her dominate you.... If u don't stand up to her and stand ur ground, she's gonna think ur weak and then u'll be tickets. We like finding people's weaknesses and 'kicking' them where it hurts kinda way so they know who's boss. Either you confront possible conflict to get her respect, or you let her dominate you and leave.... Those are ur options in my eyes. We're pretty tough to beat... Not much scares us.... And we're tough as fucking hell and bent on winning. We're not for pussies!
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Posted by starlover
**We like finding people's weaknesses and 'kicking' them where it hurts kinda way so they know who's boss**


Not nice! I really avoid people like this ~~ control freaks! You are not the boss actually!



i agree. it's not nice. wouldnt that be more of a "bully" doing that to a weaker individual? isn't that a sign of insecurity too? if confronted by them, just shrug it off.
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I bet you guys aren't all perfect sunshine and roses either. I wasn't bragging about that trait... I was bringing to light a darker side I know exists to try and help the OP. Every sign has a dark side, just like every sign has a good side. Nobody is all good or all bad, so get off your judgemental high horses. I know I'm full of shit sometimes, but I also know I have more good traits than bad traits.
I was giving OP a possible perspective, not asking you for your 5 cents worth on my character, as she's clearly past the point of just shrugging her problem off.
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Posted by lotuslily

And she is not the landlord so she has no right to put ur rent up.



My bad... I totally overlooked that it is her house. Still... if you have a text or something that says how much rent you were initially quoted, you stand your ground. She's supposed to give a fair amount of notice (as in a month or two) so you can decide if you want to pay that amount or not, and if not, make new living arrangements.
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Posted by lotuslily
I bet you guys aren't all perfect sunshine and roses either. I wasn't bragging about that trait... I was bringing to light a darker side I know exists to try and help the OP. Every sign has a dark side, just like every sign has a good side. Nobody is all good or all bad, so get off your judgemental high horses. I know I'm full of shit sometimes, but I also know I have more good traits than bad traits.
I was giving OP a possible perspective, not asking you for your 5 cents worth on my character, as she's clearly past the point of just shrugging her problem off.


?'m sorry if i hurt your feelings. I was just agreeing, but being very subjective about it. Don't know you. I get bullied in real life so i understand how it feels, that's why i agreed. Definitely not perfect at all.

as for the OP, she should just let it go, or appeal to the soft side of the aries woman, if she has one at all.
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On rotten Aries (http://www.myspace.com/lizzielonglegs/blog/319863304): She's not squeamish about who she has to walk on, or sleep with, to get to the top of her chosen field.

Joan Crawford and archrival Bette Davis are perfect examples of why the Aries female is known as the Queen Bitch of the Universe, and deserves the title. The legendary feud between the two stars was well known in the Hollywood of the forties and fifties.

Davis said of Crawford, "She's slept with every male star at MGM except Lassie." In return Crawford said, "I don't hate Bette Davis . . . take away the pop eyes, the cigarette, and those funny clipped words and what have you got?"

When the pair co-starred in Whatever Happened to Baby Jane, Bette had a Coca-Cola machine installed to irk Joan because of her affiliation with Pepsi. Joan got revenge by putting weights in her pockets when Davis had to drag her across the floor during a key scene. In an interview after filming wrapped, Davis said, "The best time I had working with Joan is when I pushed her down the stairs." The aries female is the queen bitch of the zodiac and its a well deserved title.
However, in battle no other sign can match you.

Scorpio may try to sting, but a well-aimed barb flung straight from your flaming tongue singes the Scorpio's tail. Cancer and Pisces crings and fade away with a single, smoldering look. Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn soon learn what Scorched Earth Policy means when they try to rage you, nag, or trample you. Your ability to push Air signs Gemini and Aquarius into the ozone with your one-upmanship soon bursts their respective bubbles. And you have wishy-washy Libra begging for mercy when you demand that he make a decision — now! You and the other Fire signs, Leo and Sagittarius, understand each other on a soul level, and therefore rarely have serious confrontations.

Your philosophy is, "Nothing ventured, nothing gained." You couldn't care less what others think. You are supremely confident, rugged individualist who lives life on your own terms. Let the rest of the world bake cookies and tend their gardens. Years from now, when all those folks you've left in the dust are weeding the window boxes at the old people's home, you can give them the finger as you race by in your Drop-Dead Red, supercharged hot rod.
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The good side (http://www.love-astrology.com/astrology/women/aries-women/): The first thing I am going to have to say about these women is this??_I LOVE THEM!! They are fabulous people. I have known many and all of them I have become good friends with. Some of my funniest moments have been spent with an Aries Woman, laughing so hard I cried and then laughed some more, tears rolling down my face.They are naturally funny, even when they don't mean to be. Their accidental innocence just makes me fall for them every-time. They look at everything like it's the first time they have seen it, like a child, which, I supposed is essentially what they are., being an Aries, the first sign, and the baby of the zodiac. Don't let that fool you for one moment though!

These women are so far removed from being stupid it's funny.These women are very clever, and they don't miss a trick but they may let on sometimes that their brains are just full of air, it doesn't work??_I know it's not! Like a child they appear to have a fear for trying new things, and then the next time you see them they are jumping out of a plane with a parachute attached to their back, or swimming with great whites, without the cage! They really are quite phenomenal people.When in a relationship these women must be treated with respect.

Overall though, these women do have a lot going for them. And anyone who takes up with one of these interesting and enthusiastic ladies is certainly in for an exciting time, they make enjoyable companions and a brilliant shoulder if you are in need. For me personally these girls get a 10/10!
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One way to get through her is through direct, honesty, and assertiveness [is very much needed] communication, this is what an Aries need to be stood up by. When you show assertiveness, it shows power, that you cannot be overrun and tolerates not to be stomped. Generally, people's egos have gotten bigger, or maybe I don't know how worse it was before, and I think it gets bigger when they are not confronted with the problem/obstacle that is created between and around their people, every one approaches and consume situations differently.

She sounds a bit harsh, not knowing her, I am sure she can come off as very aggressive and a bully. I have been and still bullied now, and it is no fun games at all. Psssst, you're a scorpio, you have persuasion, a way with words. There is a downside to it, she may not take it into consideration, at all, knowing that you are moving out in a couple of weeks. I do not know but I get the feeling if you are polite with her, she will take you seriously, but more likely brush it off later, not taking it into consideration,

Certain use of words and how it is worded with assertiveness trigger certain spots, if you want to get through her...

Do not lose your temper to this woman, she is not worth any of your emotions, neither are her actions any importance.

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Be Scorpio nice/nasty:

We tend to get it when you are aggressive and assertive. Sometimes we are block headed otherwise. Being distant or shying away from her feeds the fire. Sitting her down and confronting your issues specifically with her will make the next few weeks less drama filled possibly. Scorpio women have a way of easing things into a conversation that resonant even with the biggest egotistical bitch.
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This woman is not interested in anything that does not apply to her. Her moon is in Sag, and she takes BS to a whole new level. I've never met anyone with a more fraudulant personality. I stood up to her at the very beginning because she was constantly summoning me to wherever she was to talk to me. I do not stand for this. I told her that she could not treat me this way. She backed down instantly. Being seen that way did not sit weell with her at all. After that confrontation, everything got better for awhile. When she realized that I could not be used, she had no use for me, and started doing some crazy passive agressive shit. Her mars is in Cancer, and so is her mother. I have never had to deal with someone likethis in my life,and I consider myself to be very effective at communicating with pretty much everyone, I have lots of Gemini in my chart. I am out first thing tomorrow looking for another place, and whaatever I find that suits my needs, I will take. FK this crazy BTCH. Thank you all for your replies,this has been very helpful. 🙂
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Posted by lotuslily
We like finding people's weaknesses and 'kicking' them where it hurts kinda way so they know who's boss.



What the hell is wrong with you?

Stfu trying to represent Aries, here. Gawd.

And eff all you idiots for justifying bullshit like this. It doesn't even apply to the fact that her landlord is a twat. I don't care what sign she is. No lease agreement and she's upping the rent a few weeks before it's due?

That's just an asshole of a person, sorry.

Also Sag moon and Cancer mars? HA. No wonder. What a damned troll. I hope you find a new place soon.
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Posted by lotuslily
We like finding people's weaknesses and 'kicking' them where it hurts kinda way so they know who's boss.



What the hell is wrong with you?

Stfu trying to represent Aries, here. Gawd.

And eff all you idiots for justifying bullshit like this. It doesn't even apply to the fact that her landlord is a twat. I don't care what sign she is. No lease agreement and she's upping the rent a few weeks before it's due?

That's just an asshole of a person, sorry.

Also Sag moon and Cancer mars? HA. No wonder. What a damned troll. I hope you find a new place soon.
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Christ on a bicycle! Why are you all so sensitive about that one little sentence! Show me one Aries who doesn't try and dominate every now and then! I was just saying that's how domination gets done. FUCK! Sorry I even opened my mouth!
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Christ on a bicycle! Why are you all so sensitive about that one little sentence! Show me one Aries who doesn't try and dominate every now and then! I was just saying that's how domination gets done. FUCK! Sorry I even opened my mouth!



There's a difference between wanting to take charge and being a conniving, manipulative ass that takes advantage of one's weakness. THAT would be your Scorp rising if you approach situations like this in such a manner.

Again, don't speak up for all Aries with bullshit like that. It's embarrassing. That's a YOU thing, not an Aries thing. Sorry.
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New developement, my other roommate, the Sag, said that the Aries anger towards me is out of control, but when I see her, it is her typical fake shit. I am staying away from the house to avoid purposely walking into a war zone. to me, this is not a battle. The only battle for me at this point is in myself not to react the way my ego wants me to. I will not. I have to admit, this situation is a little too intense for me, and I got too much shit to do. If she is harboring intense anger towards me, what should I expect—?
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Posted by scorpiogemini
New developement, my other roommate, the Sag, said that the Aries anger towards me is out of control, but when I see her, it is her typical fake shit. I am staying away from the house to avoid purposely walking into a war zone. to me, this is not a battle. The only battle for me at this point is in myself not to react the way my ego wants me to. I will not. I have to admit, this situation is a little too intense for me, and I got too much shit to do. If she is harboring intense anger towards me, what should I expect—?



Run far, far away.. scorpio women, are no match for a scorned Aries woman. I think your solution is simple. Get a new landlord. You aren't even obliged to stay as a tenant by any means.
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Christ on a bicycle! Why are you all so sensitive about that one little sentence! Show me one Aries who doesn't try and dominate every now and then! I was just saying that's how domination gets done. FUCK! Sorry I even opened my mouth!



There's a difference between wanting to take charge and being a conniving, manipulative ass that takes advantage of one's weakness. THAT would be your Scorp rising if you approach situations like this in such a manner.

Again, don't speak up for all Aries with bullshit like that. It's embarrassing. That's a YOU thing, not an Aries thing. Sorry.
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Eat or get eaten Rocky Road... I know which I'd prefer (in a non sexual context of course :p ).

You really are making a mountain out of a molehill! And over reacting in my personal opinion. If I HAVE TO explain myself to get out of shit here, this is what I am going to say: If someone is trying to strong arm me into doing something, there's no way in hell I am going to let them get away with that, and I will do what is necessary not to let someone take advantage of me -- even if it means doing some less than honourable things to make sure I'm not screwed over. I refuse to let someone strong arm me -- i don't give a fuck if it's the queen of england! They will not get it right! I will find a way to make sure that person regrets ever trying to fuck with me.

I don't manipulate or connive ANYONE if it's not called for! You don't know me at all.. you just made ill assumptions based on incomplete information. Shooting first and asking questions later is another famous aries trait, so you're also not exactly representing well here either ok.

Someone clearly lit the fuse on your tampon today and you're taking it out on me. Find someone else to PMS all over, I was trying to help the OP by giving a possible perspective.
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Posted by starlover
I have learned, that power comes very quietly sometimes ~ there is no need to shout, scream or have the urge *to get one over on someone*....some of the strongest women i know, are the most calm and gentle but could move mountains

lotus you sound like an angry young teen male who has just entered puberty...there is no need, women have much power and i feel we have to use it wisely or else we may burn out?



Haha...yes well you try facing a firing squad when all you were trying to do was help the OP and unfortunately decided on the wrong choice of words. I feel I have every right to defend myself. In any situation.

That sentence was misunderstood completely by several people.
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I would just pay her what we originally agreed upon and then I'd I'll for a new place to live. What is she gonna do?

It shouldnt take that long to find a new place. There's really nothing to talk about and if you feel the need to say anything just say your honoring the original agreement. If you want you could tell her of she the rent is raised two weeks before its due she has to give you some more time and then be out before the you pay her another dime. No need to stress so much over this.
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Posted by CreativeJam
Rockyroad,
She is only speaking for herself and for other Aries who are like her.....
there is nothing for you to be embarrassed about when she is speaking of herself and not you...
just saying....




If she wants to prove what a dick she can be to others, fine. To generalize and say that ALL aries are as pathetic as she is when it comes to treating others, THAT'S embarrassing. An "I take advantage of peoples' weaknesses" mindset is not something you brag about. Says a lot about her.

Just sayin'.
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Eat or get eaten Rocky Road... I know which I'd prefer (in a non sexual context of course :p ).

You really are making a mountain out of a molehill! And over reacting in my personal opinion. If I HAVE TO explain myself to get out of shit here, this is what I am going to say: If someone is trying to strong arm me into doing something, there's no way in hell I am going to let them get away with that, and I will do what is necessary not to let someone take advantage of me -- even if it means doing some less than honourable things to make sure I'm not screwed over. I refuse to let someone strong arm me -- i don't give a fuck if it's the queen of england! They will not get it right! I will find a way to make sure that person regrets ever trying to fuck with me.

I don't manipulate or connive ANYONE if it's not called for! You don't know me at all.. you just made ill assumptions based on incomplete information. Shooting first and asking questions later is another famous aries trait, so you're also not exactly representing well here either ok.

Someone clearly lit the fuse on your tampon today and you're taking it out on me. Find someone else to PMS all over, I was trying to help the OP by giving a possible perspective.



None of this bullshit applies to the situation. She hasn't said anything that would warrant any type of response like this from the Aries. She stood her ground and the bitch is being a psycho hobag. End of story.

If you proudly exclaim that "aries" finds a weak spot and kicks you while you're down, THAT is manipulation at its finest and you are also being a conniving bitch.

Ill assumptions? Just like you assumed that all aries think as fucked up as you do? Sure, go ahead with accusing me of ill assumptions. You presented yourself to be an ass, so therefore you are perceived to be one, no?

No fuses or PMS involved here, oh immature one. Just someone telling you to shut it before you embarrass yourself any further.

Proceed to backpedal...
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Posted by bkbella86
I would just pay her what we originally agreed upon and then I'd I'll for a new place to live. What is she gonna do?

It shouldnt take that long to find a new place. There's really nothing to talk about and if you feel the need to say anything just say your honoring the original agreement. If you want you could tell her of she the rent is raised two weeks before its due she has to give you some more time and then be out before the you pay her another dime. No need to stress so much over this.



This. If anything, the lack of contract of any kind gives her leeway to pay at least this month of the agreed amount and then she can bounce. Thankfully she's not locked into something that's like 6 months or more.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream

None of this bullshit applies to the situation. She hasn't said anything that would warrant any type of response like this from the Aries. She stood her ground and the bitch is being a psycho hobag. End of story.

If you proudly exclaim that "aries" finds a weak spot and kicks you while you're down, THAT is manipulation at its finest and you are also being a conniving bitch.

Ill assumptions? Just like you assumed that all aries think as fucked up as you do? Sure, go ahead with accusing me of ill assumptions. You presented yourself to be an ass, so therefore you are perceived to be one, no?

No fuses or PMS involved here, oh immature one. Just someone telling you to shut it before you embarrass yourself any further.

Proceed to backpedal...



If you bothered to read the rest of the threads you would see I stated clearly that I wasn't proudly exclaiming anything. I was bringing to light a darker side of Aries. I'm not conniving anything, so just go lie down in the car and calm down.
Not once did I say ALL Aries think the same way I do. That's another ill misconception/assumption on your part. Perceive me as an ass all you want... I don't really give a shit what you think of me.
If all you can do is sit there and call me names and tell me how shit I am as your defense when you don't even know me, then go right ahead. As for immature, I'm not the one calling anyone a conniving bitch or an ass or making attacks on anyone's personal character. I'M BETTER THAN THAT! Way to go on embarrassing yourself.
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Posted by CreativeJam
If Lotuslily wants to fire away, she can fire away....this does happen to be the aries forum, by the way.
Load those missiles, lotus. 😉
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If it weren't for the fact that I was getting well bored, I would lock 'n load more... this will be my last response on the matter. I refuse to apologise and I refuse to say any more in my defense. This 'conversation' is over!

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Posted by scorpiogemini
I'm moving out today kids. I'm sitting in a cafe waiting for the truck to show up. I haven't said shit to her, and I wasn't hidin while I was packin. This shit's about to be Republican.....OVER!



Yay!! Good for you!!
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Awesome! Home needs to be a harmonious sanctuary, not a war zone! I hope your new home is just what you need.