Aries woman and the beginning of a relationship.

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It's about an aries girl, ofc. A few years ago she liked me but we lost the connection because I was already met my 3 yrs ex. We started to talk again a few months ago, she started everything with a strange complaint: can't believe that you have chosen her over me, with laughs ofc. Well these months have been weird, she is obviously treating me different, talking to me(only me most of the time) a lot on the phone because she's got a lot of friends.We had a small fight and then one hour later we went out for a walk, I have seen that she is sorry, she had a weird idea to take a snap holding hands in my car.Okay, did it. 2 days later I said okay, it's time to talk because clearly there is something between us and guess what, she confirmed that we are pretty close lately but she didn't expected me to feel smth for her because I have never showed that.She said the she admire me a lot, she trust me and she's got a different way of ''opening to me'' and without even asking her she promised that she will think about this situation.

Well I know what type of guy she want and I feel like everything is about me, with every word she is describing me. Everytime we talk she keeps repeating that she is not interested in any of her male friends, last time I have seen everything on her phone without even asking and I told her that she is giving me infos I dont ask for and she was happy that I noticed.Also, she always ask If I have talked to any of my exes lately lol.



Right now she is out of the country for a week and I'm asking you, what should I do or not do until she comes back? I told her that I don't want to screw smth and she said that everything is okay, it's just the idea which was unexpected because I have never gave a sign ..maybe she is right becausee..I'm a Capricorn 🙂)

What do you think it will happen next?I don't want this to get more weird than it is.

And sorry for my english 🙂
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Yes, of course. We share the same ideas, almost same thinking, same relationship goals and she likes our mind connection, I like talking with her about deep things, I like that we share the same madness and the most important thing, she want to give/get loyalty..and lol, I'm a Capricorn, we are not supposed to be a match. Yea, the whole paragraph was about her, maybe that's why it's a little confusing but I really like/admire her for being so ''simple'' as long as her friends are 99% different than her(personal stuff, sorry). Also, she knows that I treat her different than other people just like she is doing with me.It's hard not to overthink as long as I'm a Capricorn and we tend to analyze every single thing, only when we want someone, for the rest of time we are indifferent, I think this is the way we are showing that we are interested. For the moment I want to let her enjoy his holidays, she's the type of girl who don't like to write 100000 messages/day and she hates that.But yes, If I want someone right now, it's her.
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..that's very nice (:

And don't worry about your sun signs being incompatible. It's just astrology.

But to speak in astrological terms, incompatible signs have lot to give and take from each other IMO and teach each other a lot, balance out one another. It's good as long as both know when to compromise, how to work together and find common ground. 🙂

And, it's also more than just sun signs. (see rest of your charts)
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Well I don't know her chart because I don't know the birth hour but mine is:

Sun Capricorn 15°35'

Moon Gemini 11°03'

Mercury Capricorn 5°02'

Venus Pisces 2°05'

Mars Cancer 18°28'

Jupiter Libra 13°52'

Saturn Aquarius 16°53'

Uranus Capricorn 17°58'

Neptune Capricorn 18°33'

Pluto Scorpio 24°47'

Lilith Pisces 9°06'

Asc node Sagittarius 21°20'

AriesLady8, if you were her, a little change in my behavior would help you making a decision by showing you that I am serious in what I have told you? Or I will risk to appear clingy ? It's better for me to act natural, just like before? This is the main question for me, I don't want to rush the things.
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Posted by bumboklatt
with Aries girls, dont overthink it

just be honest and Man up cause they can sense weakness from a mile away
yes we are very idealistic and because Neptune has been in transiting Pisces forever... It is like our 12 house when you move our sun sign as the first.

All Aries have been spiritually opening up. So she is very intuitive and can tell if the vibe has changed. Also with pluto in scorpio if she is early 30 late 20's this has made many of use very sensitive

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Well I don't know her chart because I don't know the birth hour but mine is:

Sun Capricorn 15°35'

Moon Gemini 11°03'

Mercury Capricorn 5°02'

Venus Pisces 2°05'

Mars Cancer 18°28'

Jupiter Libra 13°52'

Saturn Aquarius 16°53'

Uranus Capricorn 17°58'

Neptune Capricorn 18°33'

Pluto Scorpio 24°47'

Lilith Pisces 9°06'

Asc node Sagittarius 21°20'

AriesLady8, if you were her, a little change in my behavior would help you making a decision by showing you that I am serious in what I have told you? Or I will risk to appear clingy ? It's better for me to act natural, just like before? This is the main question for me, I don't want to rush the things.
Do what you want to do. You don't have to premeditate so much. Be real.

Your previous relationship and her feeling you picked your ex over her is something she's seriously considering. We don't like to be 2nd.

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VenusAquarius yes you're right BUT we weren't friends 3 yrs ago, I've met my ex than 2 weeks later I've met her, it was just an attraction like ''you are cute and smart'' ,nothing more/deep etc. The Aries girl was my best friend's classmate and we weren't close or friends or smth back then, we changed a few words/ideas.

Anyway, about showing feelings, I didn't wanted to be just any other guy who want to get in her pants because trust me, she is pure Aries, athletic, beautiful but with standards, she doesn't get involved with anybody just to have a relationship if you understand.Almost every friend of her tried that and she didn't even showed any sign of special treatment for them like she is doing with me. But now that I have told her everything things will change when it comes to me.
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VenusAquarius yes you're right BUT we weren't friends 3 yrs ago, I've met my ex than 2 weeks later I've met her, it was just an attraction like ''you are cute and smart'' ,nothing more/deep etc. The Aries girl was my best friend's classmate and we weren't close or friends or smth back then, we changed a few words/ideas.

Anyway, about showing feelings, I didn't wanted to be just any other guy who want to get in her pants because trust me, she is pure Aries, athletic, beautiful but with standards, she doesn't get involved with anybody just to have a relationship if you understand.Almost every friend of her tried that and she didn't even showed any sign of special treatment for them like she is doing with me. But now that I have told her everything things will change when it comes to me.
It's so difficult to tell when you developed feelings and who initiated it.
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Yes, I agree.Funny thing is that she started to tell me things like ''I like talking with you, dont know, your voice is so relaxing''

Well I guess I have to wait until she comes back to have a face 2 face conversation or to see if smth has been changed in his behavior, if she's distant or smth.If that's the case then I got my answer without asking.

I'll post here the ''updates''
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Cap dudes are a pain in the ass for Aries women. You all are the epitome of the little boy who throws rocks at the girl he likes, or you turn into awkward, socially retarded troglodytes.

It doesn't fly well with us for very long and you get kicked to the curb and/or friend zoned.

I'm generally cool with Cap guys, but you get those emotions going and it's just... no. Ain't nobody in their right mind got time for that shit.
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You're wrong.

I don't know what Cap guys have you met but obviusly someone pissed you off.

I can say that your attitude (if you are an Aries) is a major turn off for us, you need days to answer to a message, you can't manage your time and obviously you want the right man to knock at your door without moving a finger because we need to understand that you Aries girls are busy, and I'm not talking about someone who likes you, I'm talking about everyone. No offence, I can understand a lot of things but not giving a sign after you were all sugar and honey, this one I can't understand. Funny thing is that my Aries girl is searching for what Cap guys have to give but all that she is doing is being busy for me and all of her friends.

And if by having a discussion about our feelings and then returning to our old friendship without any problem means throwing rocks...then you obviously got pissed off by someone.

We can't even be friends, I have no problem with that but we can't, I barely ''catch'' her, always busy, having problems managing her time. And no, not every Capp is full of butter but you can't say that we are the only one to blame as long as Aries girls want everything done without any effort.
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Posted by GNGC
You're wrong.

I don't know what Cap guys have you met but obviusly someone pissed you off.

I can say that your attitude (if you are an Aries) is a major turn off for us, you need days to answer to a message, you can't manage your time and obviously you want the right man to knock at your door without moving a finger because we need to understand that you Aries girls are busy, and I'm not talking about someone who likes you, I'm talking about everyone. No offence, I can understand a lot of things but not giving a sign after you were all sugar and honey, this one I can't understand. Funny thing is that my Aries girl is searching for what Cap guys have to give but all that she is doing is being busy for me and all of her friends.

And if by having a discussion about our feelings and then returning to our old friendship without any problem means throwing rocks...then you obviously got pissed off by someone.

We can't even be friends, I have no problem with that but we can't, I barely ''catch'' her, always busy, having problems managing her time. And no, not every Capp is full of butter but you can't say that we are the only one to blame as long as Aries girls want everything done without any effort.
Really? My very first bf was a cap and he chased me down until I gave in and then he ruined my life. Destroyed my faith in men before I even had any. The next cap I gave a shot was years later about 10 and ya know what he did? We went on a what' he made it a point to say not a date then He invited me out again then flaked, when I didn't confront him about it he sent me a text acting like nothing happened I responded playfully by text. I picked up the phone to call him and he yelled at me and told me he wished I was his ex calling and to leave him alone. I wasn't bothering him or anything but he was cruel for no reason.

We were actually friends in hs. So why act like that towards me?

Anyway I like what some caps have to offer indeed but I just don't think they could really love me like I need to be loved. I don't know if they're capable.
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Well bella, seems like you met some psycho teens. I usually don't chase, I'm reading the actions/words and I play by the rule ''not getting a message is also a message'' .I haven't got any word from her about our chat so I didn't opened the subject, I was her friend like before, I don't hate her If we remain friends because I know how lame is to chase someone if the answer is no.Hating is lame too.

Caps are capable of love but you know, we are wise souls, I dont know about other Caps but I personally believe that If you are interested/you want someone, you do smth.If not, I will back off and remain friends because not getting attention is a BIG turn off for me.And by attention I mean a message or smth as a sign that you think about me.Being busy everytime is showing me that I need to get rid of the relationship idea.

The type of behavior you are describing I saw on Cap women, psycho, unstable etc

Also, this type of behavior usually appear on a Cap's 1st relationship.
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Cap dudes are a pain in the ass for Aries women. You all are the epitome of the little boy who throws rocks at the girl he likes, or you turn into awkward, socially retarded troglodytes.

It doesn't fly well with us for very long and you get kicked to the curb and/or friend zoned.

I'm generally cool with Cap guys, but you get those emotions going and it's just... no. Ain't nobody in their right mind got time for that shit.
lol why are you yelling ?

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You're the one with capslock in your name. It is you who are yelling, sir.
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Posted by GNGC
You're wrong.

I don't know what Cap guys have you met but obviusly someone pissed you off.

I can say that your attitude (if you are an Aries) is a major turn off for us, you need days to answer to a message, you can't manage your time and obviously you want the right man to knock at your door without moving a finger because we need to understand that you Aries girls are busy, and I'm not talking about someone who likes you, I'm talking about everyone. No offence, I can understand a lot of things but not giving a sign after you were all sugar and honey, this one I can't understand. Funny thing is that my Aries girl is searching for what Cap guys have to give but all that she is doing is being busy for me and all of her friends.

And if by having a discussion about our feelings and then returning to our old friendship without any problem means throwing rocks...then you obviously got pissed off by someone.

We can't even be friends, I have no problem with that but we can't, I barely ''catch'' her, always busy, having problems managing her time. And no, not every Capp is full of butter but you can't say that we are the only one to blame as long as Aries girls want everything done without any effort.
Oh okay. Mister. "dur I don't know what Caps you've met blah blah spewing bullshit"

Yet I could ask you the same thing with the examples you gave. I don't know what kind of Aries YOU'VE met...

*eyeroll*

You're a trainwreck dude. Leave her alone.

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OP, is this the same Aries girl you were interested in one year ago? I swear you had a previous thread about her last year.

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I wouldn't be surprised. Some Cap dudes are emotionally constipated.
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Cap dudes are a pain in the ass for Aries women. You all are the epitome of the little boy who throws rocks at the girl he likes, or you turn into awkward, socially retarded troglodytes.

It doesn't fly well with us for very long and you get kicked to the curb and/or friend zoned.

I'm generally cool with Cap guys, but you get those emotions going and it's just... no. Ain't nobody in their right mind got time for that shit.
lol why are you yelling ?




You're the one with capslock in your name. It is you who are yelling, sir.
HOWS LIFE ?

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UNEVENTFUL.

Hence visiting DXP. bwahaha.

I'm actually putting off the project that is my dining room. I have a new table coming in a few days and I am so not where I wanted to be on this project haha. Motivation. I lack it. 😢
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Whether Aries and Caps work or not, I still love Rumil and nothing will change that. Nope. I will fight anyone anytime anyday for her and for her only i will concur the world. lol

Capricorns are misunderstood. We are loyal but just not to anyone. We choose carefully who we want to ler in our lives.

And Rumil..... Ahem

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Well my Cap wore me down till I agreed to be his girl. Then when I said yes he cheated and lied to me left and right. What am I misunderstanding?

That's not loyalty. And if your loyalty is selective than are you really loyal? No you're not.
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Well bella, seems like you met some psycho teens. I usually don't chase, I'm reading the actions/words and I play by the rule ''not getting a message is also a message'' .I haven't got any word from her about our chat so I didn't opened the subject, I was her friend like before, I don't hate her If we remain friends because I know how lame is to chase someone if the answer is no.Hating is lame too.

Caps are capable of love but you know, we are wise souls, I dont know about other Caps but I personally believe that If you are interested/you want someone, you do smth.If not, I will back off and remain friends because not getting attention is a BIG turn off for me.And by attention I mean a message or smth as a sign that you think about me.Being busy everytime is showing me that I need to get rid of the relationship idea.

The type of behavior you are describing I saw on Cap women, psycho, unstable etc

Also, this type of behavior usually appear on a Cap's 1st relationship.


One was a older teen but barely he was a lot older than me.

And the other was a grown ass man and this happened last year when he told me he wished I was his ex gf.

And I wasn't either of their first relationship by my first was mine. He cheated left and fight, was very angry and volitale. A huge liar. I don't remember any good times. I could have left him and I did but not soon enough. It's going to take a lifetime to forget that relationship.
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Well bella, seems like you met some psycho teens. I usually don't chase, I'm reading the actions/words and I play by the rule ''not getting a message is also a message'' .I haven't got any word from her about our chat so I didn't opened the subject, I was her friend like before, I don't hate her If we remain friends because I know how lame is to chase someone if the answer is no.Hating is lame too.

Caps are capable of love but you know, we are wise souls, I dont know about other Caps but I personally believe that If you are interested/you want someone, you do smth.If not, I will back off and remain friends because not getting attention is a BIG turn off for me.And by attention I mean a message or smth as a sign that you think about me.Being busy everytime is showing me that I need to get rid of the relationship idea.

The type of behavior you are describing I saw on Cap women, psycho, unstable etc

Also, this type of behavior usually appear on a Cap's 1st relationship.


One was a older teen but barely he was a lot older than me.

And the other was a grown ass man and this happened last year when he told me he wished I was his ex gf.

And I wasn't either of their first relationship by my first was mine. He cheated left and fight, was very angry and volitale. A huge liar. I don't remember any good times. I could have left him and I did but not soon enough. It's going to take a lifetime to forget that relationship.
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I feel you. Cap guys can be cool as fuck, but the mentally fucked ones are total nightmares to deal with. Your experience sounds very similar to mine. He was very volatile emotionally, manipulative, and thought he could just use women to his heart's content. When it blew up in his face, he went off on the deep end and turned psycho. Notorious cheater too.
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#rockyroadicecream Looks like a nerve has been hit but with a purpose.I wanted to show you that throwing me in the same pot with all of the Caps is wrong.

You don't like being judged because of 1000 other Aries girls and their behavior, I don't like it either.

To show you that not everyone is the same, the Aries lady is nothing like you, you're too offended for some reason.

P.S Just saw your last message and your story, psycho teen for you too, there is not so much class in that, can happen with every zodiac sign 🙂

@AriesLady8 That's the point, I want to remain friends just like before not matter what is happening with us.I can manage my feelings without blurring our friendship.

Same thing I have told her.

@Ram416 Same thing, psycho teens with a lot of time for meaningless behavior who can't take ''no'' for an answer.

The idea of ''fight for what you love'' is misunderstood most of the time.



@bkbella86 Now I understand and trust me, when a girl is chased for a long period of time It is gradually becoming a trophy.After you chase a girl for a long period of time you no longer

see her as a dream girl, you forget about respect, loyalty, all that you want is to get her no matter what.At this point you are like a drug addict lol.Anyway, your relationship started because maybe you just wanted to get rid of this chasing..and he was happy for the moment, felt like a champion..any reason except love/attraction 🙂 Once his mind was out of ''chasing bella duty'' he got time for playing the macho game.I will NEVER allow myself or someone else to start a relationship because of mercy, this is so wrong.

Once you win the game and get the trophy you get bored twice fast. And yes, this is available to girls too, it's a bad circle, I have seen a lot of girls doing that.Plus they are doing a funny thing..they start

to love/care/being loyal only when they're dumped and they try to make things right but it's too late.
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@Ram416 Same thing, psycho teens with a lot of time for meaningless behavior who can't take ''no'' for an answer.

The idea of ''fight for what you love'' is misunderstood most of the time.


Huh?

You're assuming my experience with the 2 Caps is the same as one of the other users here?

The first Cap I may probably agree with you that he was a teen psycho. He was controlling and emotionally abusive.We were both in our late teens.

The 2nd one, the stalker - she was too shy to approach me so she stood in the shadows for 6 months wondering how to do it. Plus I was also dating someone else at the time so she didn't want to get in between. She only started chasing me a month after my breakup with the other person. She spent another 6 months chasing me. We were both in our mid-20s.

I would call her approach "the calculated risks of a Capricorn" rather than that of a teen psycho.

My point is, both Caps chased, because they knew exactly what they wanted. Nothing wrong with that, is there? I can't understand why you're so averse to the idea that a Capricorn would chase. It's actually a good thing, and a very attractive trait, to me at least.
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lol well its too bad you lack motivation and hate Capricorns. Smh. Executing projects. Thats where we come in.

Why don't you ask a friend to help instead of doing it in your own? Than take your friend for lunch ?


I don't hate Capricorns. I just know they aren't relationship material for me. I get along with them just fine otherwise.

Nah, I wouldn't torment a friend with that. I got a lot done today after all anyway. Our old table is one we've had since we were little and just needs to go. The dining space is small and this table was a bit too big. It also was just serving as a place to leave stuff since we don't really eat at it due to the lack of space because it's kinda too big to use. Just a shit ton of clutter.

I managed to clear out a lot of stuff, get the table and chairs outside on the patio for now, threw out the old rug that my asshole cats peed on, and spot cleaned the carpet with my spot cleaner. I'll do a full carpet cleaning tomorrow. I'm now where I want to be haha. Yay accomplishing stuff!

Mah new set.

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#rockyroadicecream Looks like a nerve has been hit but with a purpose.I wanted to show you that throwing me in the same pot with all of the Caps is wrong.

You don't like being judged because of 1000 other Aries girls and their behavior, I don't like it either.

To show you that not everyone is the same, the Aries lady is nothing like you, you're too offended for some reason.

P.S Just saw your last message and your story, psycho teen for you too, there is not so much class in that, can happen with every zodiac sign 🙂




You stupid fuck, the guy I dealt with was 26. Get off this pedophile obsession with teenagers.

There is something seriously wrong with you, dude. Seek help.
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You've been used, cheated, manipulated and you call me stupid treetrunk because I told you that it's not your fault?

You think that a certain age is stopping you to act like a stupid psycho teenager? Nothing is stopping a person to act like an idiot no matter if he/she is 26.

Plus I don't remember insulting you or even starting this fight.You have a big rage dose flying through your veins, please share it somewhere else, not in my thread.

End of the subject.I will not answer to any of your insults.