Aries wont talk to me...

Aries wont talk to me...

I'm a virgo and he's april 1 aries and we had a fight about 2 months ago which led to the cops being called..........

things started to get strange when we returned from vacation with his family from florida.....

see I took a trip with his mom and dad and brother and wife.......we arrived a day later than the family..

after a day I told him I kind of felt uncomfortable because I felt like the black sheep for some reason because his mom always seem to like me from a distant but as soon as we got a chance to be aorund eachother.....I felt she had a change of heart.

after we returned from home we seem to be alittle distant and arguing alot becuse I was pretty upset about being pregnant again because six months ago we just had a babygirl....

I know its not all his fault but I just couldnt help to reflect th anger towards him...

due to I didnt want anther baby so soon and he dint want me to get an abortion....

anyway he goes out without saying a word when usually he would say were he's going and when he will be back......

he comes in drunk and gives this lame excuse about him being with boys....I ask him to leave and go back to be with the boys and he blows up and things get ugly with name calling and him grabbing me saying he's not cheating..... I get a little panicky because he's so upset after I ask him to leave....I call the police and he then leaves.... but before they could get there....

I feel I overreacted and apologized to him but he won't except it......he feels I was trying to get him locked up...

Now him and his family has shut me out and he wont talk to me or come to see his daughter...

he's been so stubborn and giving the silent treatment.....act if he doesnt care about his unborn or his child that we already have together...

I think he's back with his ex.....

did I run him away forever.......

Hi Prringleo,

he in his late 20's......I Feel his mom actions was opposite to way she has expressed in the pass.... because of that I decided to get a seperate room so I could be comfortable for the week we were there.

Spritually we both was raised that abortion wasnt an option....btu due to the circumstances ....i was really contemplating it......

becasue he has went back to her before when we seperated....and him nor calling or missing me like I miss him....

It appears to be an impulsive reaction always on is side of things....we were engage but I guess that is off by his and his family reactions towards me and him telling me to lose his number....

we've been dating for 4 yea

CONT....

4years off and on but when we disagree or he gets bored i always get the silent treatment.

Its like i can call him because i feel like it show him weakness and also i would like a fool if he has moved on...

and he is so stubborn it like he will never call just for the sake if not wanted to give in because he feels it all my fault anyway....

SORRY typos i mean i cant call him and and he wont call for the sake of not losing cuse he called first....

I also was trying to say he has the tendency to be the impulsive one out of the relationship...

Well, my husband is an Aries and usually when he pulls away from me he has something on his mind and i'll ask him what's wrong once. i used to make the mistake of asking him over and over again but it would piss him off so now I'll ask once then ignore him and eventually he will come around and act like nothings wrong and I'll here him say something like "hey baby come here" or "hey baby can you get me something to drink". Sometimes this takes days and sometimes up to a week. I hate the waiting but i've grown used to it.