
fyi being a gay man in northern indiana sucks why do people feel the need to be so closeted — damn




Posted by DazedScorp
How do you find that lovely when the first thing he says is "its disgusting but..."?
It negates the rest of his statement. It's the people that find it disgusting that become the suppressors ie. KingOfAries.




Posted by DazedScorpPosted by westside
calm down brah, i wasnt being as serious as you are taking this.
Gay bashing is a serious issue. People have been mutilated and killed because of it. How is that not serious?click to expand

Posted by janettam
agreed. gay teen suicide is increasing because people making careless comments thinking its funny. yeah you think its harmless yeah you think its funny but its really degrading. not to mention that your words couldve been the one to spur some kid comtemplating suicide to actually commit suicide.

Posted by DazedScorpPosted by westsidePosted by janettam
agreed. gay teen suicide is increasing because people making careless comments thinking its funny. yeah you think its harmless yeah you think its funny but its really degrading. not to mention that your words couldve been the one to spur some kid comtemplating suicide to actually commit suicide.
i made myself clear, refer to my previous post.
Are you telling me that if I called you a n****r, that you wouldn't take it serious?click to expand


Posted by ellessque
fucking html.
westside, put yourself in someone elses shoes for a bit. it's the same exact thing.
basing an opinion on someone else simply because they are different then you is ignorant in any case.
if you understand racism, you understand gay bashing and the like.
it stunts your intellect and you miss out on how wonderful the world really is.
...and don't use the "how I was raised" cop out. I highly doubt you were raised to be an ignorant person.


Posted by janettamPosted by westside
maybe i misunderstood but it seems like what you are saying janettam, is that if i call a gay person gay, thats equivalent to being against gays,their civil rights, ect.
with that being said i hope i misunderstood or else i dont even know what to say.click to expand
uhm judging by your use of the word gay, it seem as if you meant it in a derogatory sense.

Posted by tiki33
Oh gosh you guys are being extra! He said if he saw 2 men kissing he would think to himself eww gross and that's completely okay, naturally the instinctive response to seeing men act out together is a feeling of discomfort or internal aversion and/or repulse, it's okay for him to say to himself ewww gross, don't we all think things about others instinctively, not one of you can say you haven't seen an obese person or a gay couple or just something that you felt wasn't attractive and think certain things to yourself, we're not above it all, we're human beings, is being gay disgusting NO but there are some disgusting gays in the world so should we just pretend there are no disgusting gays in the world too? People should be able to say how they feel about social issues without being crowded and controlled and censored.



Posted by DazedScorp
West, it's not that you think it's gross. That is fine. It's because of your comment stating..
"if you dont find 2 dudes making out disgusting you gotta be gay.."
It's like me saying "You're black so you're uneducated, lazy, and spread HIV to the world."
Ignorance


Posted by ellessque
I state my opinion and i'm preaching?
You state your opinion and i'm just supposed to nod and smile?
what the fuck ever.


Posted by PurrrHisssPosted by KingOfAries
leave westside alone i completely support him, i dont give a crap about gays as well but when i see two making out it makes me wanna puke because i imagine myself as doing that, dazedscorp i cant read ur comments because i blocked u cause ur a douche, if im grossed out it doesnt mean i treat them any different than other people, i might even look at them with deceiving look lmfao so they feel pretty or whatever, but i dont have bad intentions i feel good that they feel good, and i acknowledge that some of them are hot looking but again if i see them or think about them doing something it just grosses me out
Interesting.click to expand

Posted by DazedScorp
Yes, it's now that I realise that the reason you have no idea what Elle, janet, and I are talking about is because you are only 17. You have yet to figure out the difference between an elephants vigina and your mothers. That goes for KoA also.
Let me restate that I have no problem with you finding gay men gross. What I do have a problem with, is that you seem to think that if someone doesn't agree with your thoughts and beliefs, then they must be wrong. It's like trying to tell a Baptist that their truth isn't the absolute truth because there are many other beliefs.
Not finding gay men disgusting makes you gay? NO
Being black makes you stupid and lazy? NO
Is it that hard to understand?
Finish highschool and live life a little bit and maybe you will.

Posted by DazedScorpPosted by westside
hm...ok well since it seems that way, let me make it clear and say that i dont think if someone doesnt agree with my thoughts and beliefs, then they must be wrong. k?
Do you still agree with this statement?
if you dont find 2 dudes making out disgusting you gotta be gay..
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Posted by tiki33
Not everybody like gay people, black people, white people, some men hate women, some women hate men, it exist, hate exist in the world and if I thought for a second the men that spoke about their feelings in a hateful way I would be the first person to speak up about it. Maybe some understanding is needed before everyone swoops down and gang up on one person about how terrible they are because he says ewww when he see 2 men kiss, I guess a 4 year old that says ewww to seeing 2 men kiss is racist and homophobic too. This isn't kum bah yah, this is the real world we live in. We all have to learn how to be more tolerant of others even of those that don't like a persons life style . If i'm not for gay marriage then I should be raked acrossed the coals for it, if i don't like to see 2 men kissing then I should be ganged up on and made to feel ostracized or dumb or stupid for it, my point is none of you are no better than the next person, climb off your pedestals. At some point we all have been judgmental/opinionated about something and someone.
I see more people being tolerant and to me that's just as bad, it's like I'm tolerating your presence but I don't like you...yuck...Glad I'm moving out of the United States in a few years, I feel like I'm being choked by all the negativity in this country.

Posted by DazedScorpPosted by westside
honestly responding to you is draining
Gems...
*smh*
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Posted by DazedScorpPosted by tiki33
I see more people being tolerant and to me that's just as bad, it's like I'm tolerating your presence but I don't like you...yuck...Glad I'm moving out of the United States in a few years, I feel like I'm being choked by all the negativity in this country.
You are still missing the point.
It's not because he thinks it's gross.
It's because of the ignorant comment, if you don't think it's disgusting then you must be gay.click to expand

Posted by tiki33
@westside....tolerance is better but it still sucks IMO. Do we really have to tolerate one another, I wish this country could get over it's prejudices but I guess it's going to be another 1000 years before that happens....2022 maybe?

Posted by DazedScorpPosted by tiki33
@dazedscorp...I see your point and that's how he feel, so we're going to gang up on him b/c he feel that way?
How many idiots must I run into today?
I have no problem with his beliefs. I'm fine with him thinking it's disgusting.
But that fact that he said you must be gay if you don't find it disgusting is the same as me saying you must be black because you are uneducated and lazy.
It's simply IGNORANCE
Am I the only one who sees this?click to expand



Posted by DazedScorpPosted by westside
bro i tried my best to make it clear of my intentions when i said that in one of my previous posts, if you still cannot understand im at a loss and remember god loves you.
There is no God. If you believe in god...you gotta be an idiot.
*waiting*click to expand



Posted by janettam
ahahh it's not that bad @ p.s. in new york
but many of them dont give a shit. in highschool, i volunteer at a public elementary school for some volunteer hours and i just feel bad. parents gets younger while the kids gets dumber. 😢 of course not all of them. incase i recieve some backlash.



Posted by ellessquePosted by tiki33
@elle
Shut the fuck up bipolar nit wit...I was never on a pedestal, you on the hand have been smelling your own ass and it reeks of stinch, you love doubling up on people don't you...negative bitch
OMG...chill out.
I told you a million times it's not you, it's me. maybe in the next life 😛click to expand




Posted by ellessque
"so your not much of a good string puller when it comes to the matters of the heart actually."
+1
you got me.
want a button?
seriously, I have to go. missed you sweetness.




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