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DUDE, now that shows your parents' helicopter parenting, they didnt let you drink, party or anything, then u went away for college and went crazy doing everything you haveent done cause ur parents were watching u too much, thats why in a away its good cause u didnt turn gay, just a naked creep on computer, anyway, if i say something its usually not retarded i suggest u reread carefully
okay janet sorry thought yuou meant something else
generalizations are statements based on specific cases, so majority of the time im right, in some cases im always right, and stop being childish about your avatar i only stated what i saw
dayum, i couldnt imagine going to private schools all my life, public school is where its at i love that shit. HAHA @ animalistic, thats so true is ridiculous, but thats just part of growin up, if you're smart youll learn from it and and survive hell on earth, in the end you will be stronger.TOUGH MEEEAT
Sorry about all the miss spelling in my prior responce i was replying from my touch screen phone it has some retardation lol but any ways everyone needs to remember life is life we all bleed red and we all live breath to breath.
honestly i have a hard time picturing a 24 year old man saying the shit you say to other people, yous a bitch. simple as that. i actually put myself in your position and now i know what it feels like to be a spiteful bitch with a dick. shit was so not cash.
And Im older than you both 😄 so respect me you bitches!! lol
But in all seriousness, I partially agree with Dazed on his last post because it hasnt always been easy for me either since I left the nest, etc.
thats the type of response youd get from a bitch that wont admit shes on her period. you speak of respect like yours means something, shut the fuck up. you're just as immature as you claim others to be and thats the truth, i expect nothing less and nothing more than some spiteful response to the truth,because until you open your eyes and you yourself grow up you wont see it. hopefully you notice somethings wrong when a 17 year old is telling you to grow up. long kiss goodnight bitch.
oh someone quoted dazedscorp who i blocked, well, as for a retarded 19 year old, i wont even consider you in my argument because i dont talk to people that are stupid or not intelligent, moving on, NIGHTS, its written on your face, yeah there could be a lot of reasons why u could be naked infront of your computer lets not go into that, but its from your face and hair style that i see that ur a weirdo, and actually fish shoulders that go down 45 degrees and a big head, as much as i can tell if a guy is attractive - you arent at all, so i can assume you lost your virginity to a fat (obese) chick or some dude in a public restroom or still a virgin, anyway, it wasnt even serious, what i was serious about - was the drinking and parenting stuff, so dont try to switch topic to something i barely mentioned and then brag how much smarter you are than me by defending that ur not a pedophile.. come on, less defensive ok?
ah another quote, nobody wants to put themselves in your stinky shoes, we have our own shoes and we are intelligent enough to hell dancing
lol i mean to go through hell dancing**
scorpshlt, let me tell you, everyone has their own experiences, yours - made you a bragging douche, nobody here brags about their experiences, if you want to share your miserable life then get a psychiatrist because thats the only person may be able to help, not us, we can care less..
nightpedophile22, whatever you say romeo
this is what im talking about when i said you're a spiteful bitch with a dick DS,if you read someones comment just waiting to attack them and you dont see anything wrong with it, well then god damn i just dont even know how to help you see...another thing im not dr phil and i dont give a fuck what you've been through, and i dont know, like you dont know what ive been through, and i can tell you ive been through alot more than you went through at 17 because your immaturity still shows and your 7 years older than me. another thing is, everyone who is living has been through rough shit in their life so as for trying to show off what you've been through and trying to use it as some form of respect, doesnt mean shit to me. my main point i want to leave with before i go to bed is that you are such a douche over the most insignificant things, thats why your respect-to me- is nothing more than a scheming bitch, because no MAN does that.
but i will endulge your game. on a unserious note i laughed at the 45 dg and big head part and for the most part hes a good kid.
when i put my serious face on-he doesnt know what hes talking about and still managed to get his point across.
Posted by DazedScorp
Westside, I'm just going to stick with my knowledge of knowing that someone your age, isn't mentally developed enough to comprehend our world or society yet. And yes, I can back that shit up.
i dont have your college degrees on psychology class, but understanding society is second nature to revolutionaries, its always progressing and in turn we constantly learn from it, its about as simple as that, but not really. id have 50x harder time understanding algebra or science than understanding why people do what they do. i dont doubt you have more knowledge tho. night.
im taking psych as my second major, its all bullshit, if you are not a natural psychologist its hard to read people by the book, things we learned in psychology thus far was mainly names of behaviors..
lol poor westside cant go to sleep stop bothering him good night!!
annabella go on facebook
Posted by Prince_Pisces
What? Being anyone from Indiana would suck LOL! Theres a reason that place is never mentioned unless its on an episode of 'Cops' LOL
LOL Be nice PP. I'm from Indiana, so is IanFishy and mrpopular, elle ( transplant ) so you...juss behave der now. 😄
hey hey we have more here than amish corn feilds and drug bust's lol and vb lets party hooker!!!!
I found some of the views expressed here about age surprisingly funny, considering I am quite possibly the youngest member of dxpnet. Though they're still valid if they were intended to be sweeping generalizations. Hopefully it wasn't prejudice (which I doubt so). 🙂
Posted by Prince_Pisces
oh vb you know i would never say anything bad about you or ellesque . . .just everyone else 😛
LOL I know. 🙂 😛
Posted by mrpopular
hey hey we have more here than amish corn feilds and drug bust's lol and vb lets party hooker!!!!
Bring it Prostitot!
ok when ? i down for bar hop'n and man hunting lol maybe even a little hog'n haha
LMAO EWWWWW ewie ewwwww! GUH, when do I get a day off? Hmmm. You sure you don't want to suit up in blaze orange, blast a few Bambi pies and tip a few cows?
sure what the hell ill have to borrow a few things from your stash lmao
what if it wasn't two gay men kissing but it was a black couple kissing?
would that gross you out?
Even though I can see that you were just trying to make a point, that was still offensive to read. I know that you date black men so I know that you couldn't be racist. Why would you use that kind of example? Why would it even come to mind that somebody might think that it is gross to see a black couple kissing? You could have directed a question like that toward lesbian kissing.
I think I understand what westside said. "If you(assuming you are male) don't find two guys kissing gross(or not to your liking) then you might be gay(comfortable with another man as your partner).
The intent of the choice of words at face value is anything but helpful but I think he really meant to be insightful.
Hm. Very interesting
Then this may makes me Bi-curious. I do not feel repulsed at all or attracted to men. But I also do not find two men expressing loving affection toward each other disgusting. I think its really uplifting actually and I find joy in any heartfelt love.
Looks like I have some experimenting to do.
Posted by mrpopular
sure what the hell ill have to borrow a few things from your stash lmao
LMAO Well I sure as HELL won't be wearing my ---------- t!
Posted by venusianbull
LMAO EWWWWW ewie ewwwww! GUH, when do I get a day off? Hmmm. You sure you don't want to suit up in blaze orange, blast a few Bambi pies and tip a few cows?I dont get it LOL!
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Ahhh, Indiana PP. The only state where you need thermal underwear AND a swimsuit in the trunk of your vehicle. Case in point: It was 50?? a couple of days ago. Today it was close to 90??. Wheeee!
You're thinking of Bella PP 🙂
I think if the world 'evolved' to be like amethyst2002 it would die the next day, lol.
Posted by Amandus
I think I understand what westside said. "If you(assuming you are male) don't find two guys kissing gross(or not to your liking) then you might be gay(comfortable with another man as your partner).The intent of the choice of words at face value is anything but helpful but I think he really meant to be insightful.
Hm. Very interesting
Then this may makes me Bi-curious. I do not feel repulsed at all or attracted to men. But I also do not find two men expressing loving affection toward each other disgusting. I think its really uplifting actually and I find joy in any heartfelt love.
Looks like I have some experimenting to do.
Yes, so true. Even though there's nothing wrong about a straight guy finding the idea of two men kissing repulsive (it's quite common), it does not mean a supposed straight guy has to be gay if they don't think the act of two men kissing is disgusting. I'm sure there's actual straight guys out there who are more tolerant and exposed to gay culture (perhaps even have many gay friends) who don't find it disgusting, but they're just not attracted to men.
And I thought this wouldn't be worth adding, but I'll do it for the lulz. If a man does not think the idea of two men kissing is disgusting, it doesn't mean he is necessarily gay; he could be bisexual.
There are people who don't accept bisexuality even more so than just homosexuality. Its like bisexuality is "the worst of the worst".
And then there are people who have the "You can only be straight or gay--no in between" mindset.
Posted by venusianbull
You're thinking of Bella PP 🙂who, me?
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No Shug, another of the Bulls. 🙂
Maybe some understanding is needed before everyone swoops down and gang up on one person about how terrible they are because he says ewww when he see 2 men kiss ...
That's not what he said, you are the one misunderstanding, tiki
He didn't state an impartial view on gay people ... he made a direct derogatory accusation that DazedScorp must be gay, if it doesn't gross him out.
The Gemini was talking directly to another person making this insinuation ... it's pretty clear, and I'm unsure why it escaped you? Usually, you're pretty smart.
I'm assuming that it's because you have an issue with Elle, and since she's friends with DazedScorp, you decided to take a position based on emotions, rather than facts ... and that is so unlike you.
What happened to you? Why would you actively participate in making a fool out of yourself?
what if it wasn't two gay men kissing but it was a black couple kissing?
would that gross you out?
Even though I can see that you were just trying to make a point, that was still offensive to read. I know that you date black men so I know that you couldn't be racist. Why would you use that kind of example? Why would it even come to mind that somebody might think that it is gross to see a black couple kissing? You could have directed a question like that toward lesbian kissing.
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Of course it was offensive, dumbass .....
You prance around here posting after me trying to make me look stupid and then you write this?
The picture will become clear to people now ..... you really are an idiot if you can only emotionally react to what Elle said, without having the ability to reason out the point.
Gemini's are double-standard ..... is this a news flash to all of you?
Posted by Prince_Pisces
omg nobody truly really thinks two men kissing is gross. they're just faking cause they think thats what they have to believe LOL!
I have gay friends and I didn't befriend them just because I wanted to have gay friends. I did it because I like each one for their different personalities. I still don't look when they kiss their boyfriends. I was raised in the church to believe that homosexuality is a sin. I still believe it, to be honest. But I don't make homosexuals feel bad about their sexuality or partake in bashing them. I don't even mention that I was raised to believe that it is a sin. Even two women kissing is gross to look at.
what if it wasn't two gay men kissing but it was a black couple kissing?
would that gross you out?
Even though I can see that you were just trying to make a point, that was still offensive to read. I know that you date black men so I know that you couldn't be racist. Why would you use that kind of example? Why would it even come to mind that somebody might think that it is gross to see a black couple kissing? You could have directed a question like that toward lesbian kissing.
I wanted it to be uncomfortable to read. that was the whole point.
100 years ago a black couple could not walk down the streets in america hand in hand.
50 years I wouldn't have been able to walk down the streets in america with anyone of color, hand in hand.
today, if I were a lesbian, I could not walk down the streets in america hand in hand.
Do you see it?
We are all people.
These topics aren't supposed to be comfortable and polite.
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Actually, being a lesbian is a little more acceptable in America. I see women holding hands even if they are just friends.
As far as you wanting to make your statement uncomfortable to read, you made that point. It was more than uncomfortable. It was highly offensive. NOW, you add "other" examples to add to the list after the fact. It's okay. I see.
why do you care if people accept it or not...you are still going to be gay regardless.
thats what make me mad about gay people....you sooooo want to be accepted....face it everyone is not going to accept it! so why not hang around people that are into that kind of thing. believe me there are plenty...quit trying to throw it in everyone face...
most people believe that a union should be between a man and a woman...you cant changed that. Dont get mad about it..try to understand thats the way it is.
Come to atlanta...its the gay mecca!
what if it wasn't two gay men kissing but it was a black couple kissing?
would that gross you out?
Even though I can see that you were just trying to make a point, that was still offensive to read. I know that you date black men so I know that you couldn't be racist. Why would you use that kind of example? Why would it even come to mind that somebody might think that it is gross to see a black couple kissing? You could have directed a question like that toward lesbian kissing.
Of course it was offensive, dumbass .....
You prance around here posting after me trying to make me look stupid and then you write this?
The picture will become clear to people now ..... you really are an idiot if you can only emotionally react to what Elle said, without having the ability to reason out the point.
yea that was some dumb shiz to say...
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Im trying figure out how a black couple and gay couple is even put in the same category?
Posted by dward417
Im trying figure out how a black couple and gay couple is even put in the same category?
That's the whole point right there, dward ^^^^^^
To you, you obviously found the comment to wrong ... just as a homosexual would find what West said to be wrong.
Because you aren't a gay man, you can easily bypass what was said and it would never cross your mind to think it was a horrible thing to say ... but, now if someone said it about black people suddenly that makes it different because now you can relate to it personally to say ..... why is this being said?
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Posted by dward417
why do you care if people accept it or not...you are still going to be gay regardless.thats what make me mad about gay people....you sooooo want to be accepted....face it everyone is not going to accept it! so why not hang around people that are into that kind of thing. believe me there are plenty...quit trying to throw it in everyone face...
most people believe that a union should be between a man and a woman...you cant changed that. Dont get mad about it..try to understand thats the way it is.
Come to atlanta...its the gay mecca!
I agree with that, also.
Why be dependent upon other acceptance? The OP makes the insinuation that you are dependent upon other people and their acceptance of you, in order for you to be happy.
It also puts the suggestion in the readers psyche that YOU aren't out of the closet yet, and blaming it on other people not being out ............. for you
Posted by mrpopular
JUst so everyone knows pda grosses me out as well gay or staight I do appriciate the support that u sre sharing . And yes I have had a few hate crimes commited against me my car has been vandalised a few times my brakes were cut once my garage door has been spray painted and my house has also been vandalised a few times I even had someone burn fag in my yard ive been to places on dates where we were asked to leave because it bothered the customers around us because we held hands . Thats just a taste of what I have been through since I came outI dont think its so much he needs to be accepted its that he's rather not put up with all this harrasment^
I'm sure if someones continued to put burning crosses in dwards yard she wouldnt like it very much in the Atl anymore.
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thats was stupid and irrelevant
Posted by mrpopular
JUst so everyone knows pda grosses me out as well gay or staight I do appriciate the support that u sre sharing . And yes I have had a few hate crimes commited against me my car has been vandalised a few times my brakes were cut once my garage door has been spray painted and my house has also been vandalised a few times I even had someone burn fag in my yard ive been to places on dates where we were asked to leave because it bothered the customers around us because we held hands . Thats just a taste of what I have been through since I came outI dont think its so much he needs to be accepted its that he's rather not put up with all this harrasment^
I'm sure if someones continued to put burning crosses in dwards yard she wouldnt like it very much in the Atl anymore.
thats was stupid and irrelevant
No at all. You insinuated that he needs to be accepted when all he wants is to stop being harassed by dumb fucks.
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well I dont need to be accepted to be black...fake all you that think I do.
im still trying to figure why you jackasses are putting gay people and black people in the same category....it has nothing to do with one or the other
what if it wasn't two gay men kissing but it was a black couple kissing?
would that gross you out?
Even though I can see that you were just trying to make a point, that was still offensive to read. I know that you date black men so I know that you couldn't be racist. Why would you use that kind of example? Why would it even come to mind that somebody might think that it is gross to see a black couple kissing? You could have directed a question like that toward lesbian kissing.
Of course it was offensive, dumbass .....
I know that it was offensive dumba $ $ ....that is why I said that it was offensive. Did you get that? Good job!!!
You prance around here posting after me trying to make me look stupid and then you write this?
The picture will become clear to people now ..... you really are an idiot if you can only emotionally react to what Elle said, without having the ability to reason out the point.
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I don't "try" to make you look stupid. I help because YOU ALREADY make yourself look stupid. Time and time again. And yes I DID only react to what she said. AND??
And once again, dxp is not running a popularity contest so why do YOU ALWAYS CARE ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE EXCEPT YOURSELF?
well he mentioned his house to be vandalized so i can safely say its suppression to an extent, and dont correct me, i hate to repeat myself and say that im always right -_- lol
douchescorp, im not arguing anymore whatever u say is nonsense, im just putting u down for fun, and you with your childish comebacks are so funny
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well yeah it may be degrading but come to nyc if urnot already here and enter any public highschool, they have metal detectors thats how idiotic the kids are