Can Scorpio Male and Leo Female work...

Or is it really that bad?

perhaps you should ask a scorpio that has dated a leo.

... or a leo that has dated a scorp.

i have dated a leo. in fact, my first girlfriend. we broke up eventually, because at that early age teens don't think about mating for life. bad timing 😢
it can work out as long as you (both of you) can overcome your "dignity" issue and stop holding back thoughts and feelings.

Wow lizard scorpio, you are all over the zodiac...and you are a boy...erm...sorry...man, of course

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correction, if i may: a gentleman, of course!

where are you from?

me, all over the zodiac——
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i guess, "Leo Female and Scorpio Male" is certainly to be given a chance... i would

Why would you?

Ok, so you guys decided to bring your love affair over here?

sir, yes sir, ... or sheriff is it?

sheriff, it's me not us. i'm the one to blame really...........

truthseeker, why?

well, it's tempting and a certain experience tells me it looks promising. i'd definitely give it a go!!! and see what happens....

so, who is this scorp guy you're interested in? or is he interested in you and you can't make up your mind just yet? or was it just a hypothetical question?

did you notice the swap?

Yeah, I noticed the swap...hahahaha! I'm not interested in the guy anymore. I think I was interested in him for the wrong reasons. But the attraction was there, so I was just curious. Why aren't you married to your g-friend? You know, I was with this guy, and being w/ him made me realize how bad I want to be in a relationship. I'm not desperate, and although I certainly don't "need anyone" it would be nice to have someone.

noooo it wouldn't be just nice to have someone it would be fukcing amazing, you'd be a whole new person! but you're right. it MUST! be for the right reasons, it has to be someone who's really special to you, not just a relationship.

"Why aren't you married to your g-friend?"
i need some time to answer that, maybe a lot of time, it's complicated.
it's to do with me though...

and you did notice the swap, great, that's really nice... can you imagine that this little thing means so much to me.... that's crazy... no seriously, you'd get a lot of these things from me, i shoot them off not really expecting anyone to notice, somehow i thought you would....

This brings me back to the whole soulmate question. I am a hopeless romantic. I don't need the white horse or the knight in shining armor, but the knight...the knight would be great. A man who is strong, but sensitive. Powerful, but not dominating. Loving, but not naive. Someone who can put me in my place when I start whining for attention, but knows better than to try and control me. I want an equal, and I feel like I'm asking for too much. Also, I'm borderline obsessed with the idea. I'm not out looking for Mr. Right, don't care for Mr. Right Now, I just want to be found.

you can always get a Doberman Pinscher

what exactly brings you back to the whole soulmate question?

truthseeker-

What you described above, is not what I consider a soul-mate. As a matter of fact, just sounds like a personal fantasy. Nice if you're looking for a boyfriend... however seems too generic if you want a "soul mate".

My theory is, a soul mate (or any mate), is not just the sum of the attributes of what you look for in a partner... more-so, someone who understands you- and the two of you can relate to on several emotional, mental, and spiritual levels (keep in mind when I say "spiritual"-- I do not mean religion- or God.. persay).

This person...this "soul mate" may or may not be loving OR powerful OR sensitive.. however you can see past that because the "person" is what interests you- not their surface personality.

I think it takes time to find such a person- months.. years..they may never become a "lover", but the are, at the very least, an eternal friend.

I agree, STD. To further that, I believe that soul mates compliment who you are. They can fill in w/ strengths where you are lacking. I know that soul mates can be disguised as friends, family members, whomever. If that truly is the case, I have been fortunate to have two. But my stress is that I won't find a lover who is also a soul mate. I know that beggers can't be choosers, but anything less would be uneventful. I met this guy, and he was great. There was that connection and I learned so much from him, about myself (a lot of good things, too). It didn't work out. Maybe it wasn't meant to be, and that's fine. Since he really hurt me, and thus, I can't allow myself to see past his surface personality, does that mean he was never a soul mate? I want the connection that we had. I want someone who can open my mind and extend my happiness. I want to be able to see past the surface personality. I'm afraid it will never happen...that's the scary part. So then what?

BTW, the guy I'm refferring to, I thought he was my soul mate. I've only felt that way for one other person, and that was years ago. I don't get all lovey dovey whenever someone new comes into the picture. In fact, rarely does anyone new come into the picture (as far as love is concerened)

It'll happen.

Age and experience always opens new doors of opportunities. The problem is that most people are not patient (myself included).

yup...patience. The planet Saturn is apparently in my sign for the next 2 years. If there is anything it will teach, it will be patience. I am too impatient to practice the art of patience.

great..

now unless you and lizard scorpio plan to spend the next 3 or 4 posts telling me how wonderful, smart and pretty Aries women are... kindly take your love affair to the leo or scorpio board... 😛

I'm joking of course... 🙂

Aries woman are extremely beautiful, in so many different ways. I admire you all...so strong. What's best, you don't take shit from anyone. I only aspire to be like you one day, STD.

There, I hope that covers payment of fees for usage of space here. In the meantime, shall we go elsewhere, lizard?

I dunno..

I think I need to hear it again--

and you gotta say it like you mean it..
(you too lizard)

...actually, I may need a lap dance from lizard to be fully convinced.

Aries woman are extremely beautiful, in so many different ways. I admire you all...so strong. What's best, you don't take butter from anyone. I only aspire to be like you one day, STD.

AWESOME!!

(I'm such a compliment whore)

sorry ladies, i was absent... you must have noticed...

and i'm glad i wasn't there/here. STD you said things to truthseeker, that i never could have. seems she can relate to what you're saying 🙂 that's great! in other words right now you seem to be more important for her than me.... maybe i would've spoiled the magic of the moment.

truthseeker, let's get away! pets forum, fairyland

wait!! Where's my payment for rental use of the Aries board Mr. Lizard?

you're great. i mean it!!!

🙂

Hint for truthseeker:

Unless you will act not like what you really are, you will not get anywhere. Believe me that way it works. You have to be compatible not only with your good sides, but bad sides too. And never supress yourself on your bad sides. Whatever they good or bad, they are yours. You can't deny them. Just show them. You may learn about them alot of things..

Truthseeker:

People aren't that hard as you take them..

Thanks, haffo. I've been trying to realize that "People aren't that hard as you take them.." People act a certain way for a certain reason. Whether it be fear, love, etc. Either way, I can't hold that against someone, and I'm really trying to learn not to hold grudges against folks who make mistakes. Especially since I make mistakes, too. Your posting meant a lot. I appreciate it!