AriesFireKnight
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Chill relationships without adrenaline are a thing for aries?
Memories. So what made you change your approach to this one?
Posted by kissmygritsI really don't know, she have a specific vibe, and I also come after a long period where I was alone and happy with it.
Memories. So what made you change your approach to this one?
I mean that I somehow developed an emotional independence and it's quite hard for me to catch feelings again. Something strange, because before I would fall in love like a rock on the bottom of the ocean (I was also very insecure in those times before).
I have to mention, is a long distance relationship. We've met only 2 times and now, the second time I met her, I kissed her, she seemed happy with it even if it wasn't the greatest performance (but I actually don't feel bad about myself, craked a few good jokes about that). The thing was that I didn't experienced butterflies or explosive passion or a release of tension in my side, but more of a chilling vibe so strong that let my mind empty for hours after that. I was lowkey stoned tho ??
The question is, chill relationships were a thing for you? How they worked up? How do you also recover from a long time of emotional independence to develop a relationship mood?
@AriesFireKnight broski you have Cancer Rising too ?! Do tell me how does it feel to be "Iron fists inside velvet gloves"— Do you handle anger well? Because I literally become different aggressive person when someone crosses the boundaries, mistakes kindness from weakness.
Back to your chill relationship, as long as she can keep you fed with excitements then it should be fine.
Back to your chill relationship, as long as she can keep you fed with excitements then it should be fine.
World upside down!
They are 18 and they are wondering?
Are you guys from Middle East? Or India?
Probably not or you would be chopped for a stew for having sex! Wow!
They are 18 and they are wondering?
Are you guys from Middle East? Or India?
Probably not or you would be chopped for a stew for having sex! Wow!
Posted by kissmygritsHow do they have long time relashionships at 18!??
Memories. So what made you change your approach to this one?
*follows this thread*
Posted by GemitatiEastern Europe, I have a lot of ocasions for superficial relationships but I'm really picky and I really like to build a connection first, sex and everything are so much better. But yeah, also I'm a little bit new in all this relationship field... This is my 2 nd serious thing, and 2 years have passed from the first one so I'm a little bit surprised of my mature approach and the fact that I build up feelings slowly.
World upside down!
They are 18 and they are wondering?
Are you guys from Middle East? Or India?
Probably not or you would be chopped for a stew for having sex! Wow!
I don't feel the rush and I really don't want sex right now... Is really strange, I have the feeling that it will come and it will be great but I dont need feel the urge for it like usually. I just wander if is normal for an aries ... I start to act more like a cancer xD
Posted by AriesFireKnightIf you don't want sex right now - you need to see sexologist or something!Posted by GemitatiEastern Europe, I have a lot of ocasions for superficial relationships but I'm really picky and I really like to build a connection first, sex and everything are so much better. But yeah, also I'm a little bit new in all this relationship field... This is my 2 nd serious thing, and 2 years have passed from the first one so I'm a little bit surprised of my mature approach and the fact that I build up feelings slowly.
World upside down!
They are 18 and they are wondering?
Are you guys from Middle East? Or India?
Probably not or you would be chopped for a stew for having sex! Wow!
I don't feel the rush and I really don't want sex right now... Is really strange, I have the feeling that it will come and it will be great but I dont need feel the urge for it like usually. I just wander if is normal for an aries ... I start to act more like a cancer xDclick to expand
Please do all us a favor because wending need you here in a few years acting like DonJohn! Not even mentioning P-Angel!
Get help!
Posted by Hp199xWell the cancer rising gave me a hard time too, but I found a few tricks to control it and make ir work in my favor. I think this is the place to share them.
@AriesFireKnight broski you have Cancer Rising too ?! Do tell me how does it feel to be "Iron fists inside velvet gloves"— Do you handle anger well? Because I literally become different aggressive person when someone crosses the boundaries, mistakes kindness from weakness.
Back to your chill relationship, as long as she can keep you fed with excitements then it should be fine.
1. If you have major cancer in your chart in an social environment you look exactly how you feel, so the trick is to act tough when you feel insecure. Say something selfish in your mind like ' I'm the boss here ' and boost your inner self in an aries way. This thing will reflect in your appearance, you will start to look confident and people will treat you with respect. So when you feel like something is wrong try going back in your shell making it look less insecure and shy and more badass.
2. Too much emotion is bad for an aries so to deal with things going to deep because of my cancer rising I use my aries focus. Lets be honest... We are simple people and our focus on something is really intense, but we aren't good at multitasking, so putting your focus on a project on something else more than over an emotion will make you forget all the bad feelings in a matter of hours. Just switch your focus then start fresh in the aries way and the cancer specific emotions won't bother you that much.
3. Use your aries will to generate self worth. Cancer rising have the tendency to doubt themselves so to counter that make sure that you use your aries fire to make a ton of cool stuff, like projects, art and any kind of achievement. Hit the damn gym, is the second home of any aries in my opinion. Then when the doubt kicks in make sure to scroll down the list of your achievements in your mind an you will feel better in a matter of seconds.
4. Know your biggest strength. Cancer rising gives you the ability to connect and vibe emotionally with other people (a thing that normal aries can't do) so you can literally infest everyone around you with optimism, power of will and happyness. That makes us the aries cancer rising one of the best leaders in the zodiac, able to create one of the best friendships in the world... The key is to find balance and power in yourself then use them to guid others.
Posted by AriesFireKnightAries men strange! I have one...on a leash...keep barking but goes to dog house every time o say Hi!Posted by GemitatiEastern Europe, I have a lot of ocasions for superficial relationships but I'm really picky and I really like to build a connection first, sex and everything are so much better. But yeah, also I'm a little bit new in all this relationship field... This is my 2 nd serious thing, and 2 years have passed from the first one so I'm a little bit surprised of my mature approach and the fact that I build up feelings slowly.
World upside down!
They are 18 and they are wondering?
Are you guys from Middle East? Or India?
Probably not or you would be chopped for a stew for having sex! Wow!
I don't feel the rush and I really don't want sex right now... Is really strange, I have the feeling that it will come and it will be great but I dont need feel the urge for it like usually. I just wander if is normal for an aries ... I start to act more like a cancer xDclick to expand
Posted by GemitatiPosted by AriesFireKnightIf you don't want sex right now - you need to see sexologist or something!Posted by GemitatiEastern Europe, I have a lot of ocasions for superficial relationships but I'm really picky and I really like to build a connection first, sex and everything are so much better. But yeah, also I'm a little bit new in all this relationship field... This is my 2 nd serious thing, and 2 years have passed from the first one so I'm a little bit surprised of my mature approach and the fact that I build up feelings slowly.
World upside down!
They are 18 and they are wondering?
Are you guys from Middle East? Or India?
Probably not or you would be chopped for a stew for having sex! Wow!
I don't feel the rush and I really don't want sex right now... Is really strange, I have the feeling that it will come and it will be great but I dont need feel the urge for it like usually. I just wander if is normal for an aries ... I start to act more like a cancer xD
Please do all us a favor because wending need you here in a few years acting like DonJohn! Not even mentioning P-Angel!
Get help!click to expand
For god sake, tbh I want sex right now but if I push it, it will be bad (or in the best case worst than if it comes naturally). Been there, done that.
Today we had the first kisses and honestly I didn't practiced a lot in 2 years and I was stoned too, so not the most passionate moment. 5/10 in my opinion, she seemed happy tough.
I'm a rational guy so the next time I see her (in a few weeks) I will make sure that we make out properly and I can leave a few marks on her neck and then she will start to think seriouly too about sex. In that moment I will really want to have sex, until then, not really.
Posted by AriesFireKnightIsn't it too early in age to not to wantbsex?Posted by GemitatiPosted by AriesFireKnightIf you don't want sex right now - you need to see sexologist or something!Posted by GemitatiEastern Europe, I have a lot of ocasions for superficial relationships but I'm really picky and I really like to build a connection first, sex and everything are so much better. But yeah, also I'm a little bit new in all this relationship field... This is my 2 nd serious thing, and 2 years have passed from the first one so I'm a little bit surprised of my mature approach and the fact that I build up feelings slowly.
World upside down!
They are 18 and they are wondering?
Are you guys from Middle East? Or India?
Probably not or you would be chopped for a stew for having sex! Wow!
I don't feel the rush and I really don't want sex right now... Is really strange, I have the feeling that it will come and it will be great but I dont need feel the urge for it like usually. I just wander if is normal for an aries ... I start to act more like a cancer xD
Please do all us a favor because wending need you here in a few years acting like DonJohn! Not even mentioning P-Angel!
Get help!
For god sake, tbh I want sex right now but if I push it, it will be bad (or in the best case worst than if it comes naturally). Been there, done that.
Today we had the first kisses and honestly I didn't practiced a lot in 2 years and I was stoned too, so not the most passionate moment. 5/10 in my opinion, she seemed happy tough.
I'm a rational guy so the next time I see her (in a few weeks) I will make sure that we make out properly and I can leave a few marks on her neck and then she will start to think seriouly too about sex. In that moment I will really want to have sex, until then, not really.click to expand
Maybe you need some supplements or another woman?
Posted by GemitatiOk, idk if this is teasing or smth else... For fucks sake, I want to have sex, I always do, but I have to control myself and don't rush the whole thing.Posted by AriesFireKnightIsn't it too early in age to not to wantbsex?Posted by GemitatiPosted by AriesFireKnightIf you don't want sex right now - you need to see sexologist or something!Posted by GemitatiEastern Europe, I have a lot of ocasions for superficial relationships but I'm really picky and I really like to build a connection first, sex and everything are so much better. But yeah, also I'm a little bit new in all this relationship field... This is my 2 nd serious thing, and 2 years have passed from the first one so I'm a little bit surprised of my mature approach and the fact that I build up feelings slowly.
World upside down!
They are 18 and they are wondering?
Are you guys from Middle East? Or India?
Probably not or you would be chopped for a stew for having sex! Wow!
I don't feel the rush and I really don't want sex right now... Is really strange, I have the feeling that it will come and it will be great but I dont need feel the urge for it like usually. I just wander if is normal for an aries ... I start to act more like a cancer xD
Please do all us a favor because wending need you here in a few years acting like DonJohn! Not even mentioning P-Angel!
Get help!
For god sake, tbh I want sex right now but if I push it, it will be bad (or in the best case worst than if it comes naturally). Been there, done that.
Today we had the first kisses and honestly I didn't practiced a lot in 2 years and I was stoned too, so not the most passionate moment. 5/10 in my opinion, she seemed happy tough.
I'm a rational guy so the next time I see her (in a few weeks) I will make sure that we make out properly and I can leave a few marks on her neck and then she will start to think seriouly too about sex. In that moment I will really want to have sex, until then, not really.
Maybe you need some supplements or another woman?click to expand
If I keep saying 'I want sex' in my mind I will go nuts, make somethimg stupid and scare of the girl. My ex was a damn aquarius (not easy to impress) and she said me that I really scared her off the first time we maked out. It was hot but scarry, so I have to keep the lust in check right now.
Posted by DivaCanLeoWell, she doesn't tease me at all and this might be the problem. She is sweet and I really like her but if she want passion she have to bite a little bit.
Lol at act more like a cancer. Dam I read your words and they let me down. I don't feel passion, no butterflies, etc etc.
Don't let the cancer read that
Reading what the damn gemini user have written a few minutes ago I realised that I have to be a little bit angry to get in mood. She must now what I'm talking about ??
Posted by AriesFireKnightAquas have a different approach to sex from Cancers.Posted by GemitatiOk, idk if this is teasing or smth else... For fucks sake, I want to have sex, I always do, but I have to control myself and don't rush the whole thing.Posted by AriesFireKnightIsn't it too early in age to not to wantbsex?Posted by GemitatiPosted by AriesFireKnightIf you don't want sex right now - you need to see sexologist or something!Posted by GemitatiEastern Europe, I have a lot of ocasions for superficial relationships but I'm really picky and I really like to build a connection first, sex and everything are so much better. But yeah, also I'm a little bit new in all this relationship field... This is my 2 nd serious thing, and 2 years have passed from the first one so I'm a little bit surprised of my mature approach and the fact that I build up feelings slowly.
World upside down!
They are 18 and they are wondering?
Are you guys from Middle East? Or India?
Probably not or you would be chopped for a stew for having sex! Wow!
I don't feel the rush and I really don't want sex right now... Is really strange, I have the feeling that it will come and it will be great but I dont need feel the urge for it like usually. I just wander if is normal for an aries ... I start to act more like a cancer xD
Please do all us a favor because wending need you here in a few years acting like DonJohn! Not even mentioning P-Angel!
Get help!
For god sake, tbh I want sex right now but if I push it, it will be bad (or in the best case worst than if it comes naturally). Been there, done that.
Today we had the first kisses and honestly I didn't practiced a lot in 2 years and I was stoned too, so not the most passionate moment. 5/10 in my opinion, she seemed happy tough.
I'm a rational guy so the next time I see her (in a few weeks) I will make sure that we make out properly and I can leave a few marks on her neck and then she will start to think seriouly too about sex. In that moment I will really want to have sex, until then, not really.
Maybe you need some supplements or another woman?
If I keep saying 'I want sex' in my mind I will go nuts, make somethimg stupid and scare of the girl. My ex was a damn aquarius (not easy to impress) and she said me that I really scared her off the first time we maked out. It was hot but scarry, so I have to keep the lust in check right now.
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If sex is on your mind then tell your Cancer. I'm not saying force her to bump uglies with you, but you can open doors by simply talking about it and negotiating over when is the right time.
Don't suppress your thoughts.
Posted by AriesFireKnightI think she doesn't tease you cos she's not sure where your boundaries are.Posted by DivaCanLeoWell, she doesn't tease me at all and this might be the problem. She is sweet and I really like her but if she want passion she have to bite a little bit.
Lol at act more like a cancer. Dam I read your words and they let me down. I don't feel passion, no butterflies, etc etc.
Don't let the cancer read that
Reading what the damn gemini user have written a few minutes ago I realised that I have to be a little bit angry to get in mood. She must now what I'm talking about ??click to expand
If you want her to tease and taunt you, then you initiate it.
@aliensusedourbogroll
Posted by Ram416Ok, it might be the same for me, I don't really know how to tease her because I fave the feeling that she will take the things seriously and think I'm rude (happened before with an aries sun cancer rising girl). Also took literally some of my teasing jokes and I had to explain them in a sarcastic way then we both laughed. This rise the question:Posted by AriesFireKnightI think she doesn't tease you cos she's not sure where your boundaries are.Posted by DivaCanLeoWell, she doesn't tease me at all and this might be the problem. She is sweet and I really like her but if she want passion she have to bite a little bit.
Lol at act more like a cancer. Dam I read your words and they let me down. I don't feel passion, no butterflies, etc etc.
Don't let the cancer read that
Reading what the damn gemini user have written a few minutes ago I realised that I have to be a little bit angry to get in mood. She must now what I'm talking about ??
If you want her to tease and taunt you, then you initiate it.
@aliensusedourbogrollclick to expand
How do you tease a cancer girl? ??
Can someone with a cancer partner give me some advice?
Posted by AriesFireKnightHaha I dated an Aries guy and he never rushed for sex either... I think I calmed in a way.Posted by GemitatiEastern Europe, I have a lot of ocasions for superficial relationships but I'm really picky and I really like to build a connection first, sex and everything are so much better. But yeah, also I'm a little bit new in all this relationship field... This is my 2 nd serious thing, and 2 years have passed from the first one so I'm a little bit surprised of my mature approach and the fact that I build up feelings slowly.
World upside down!
They are 18 and they are wondering?
Are you guys from Middle East? Or India?
Probably not or you would be chopped for a stew for having sex! Wow!
I don't feel the rush and I really don't want sex right now... Is really strange, I have the feeling that it will come and it will be great but I dont need feel the urge for it like usually. I just wander if is normal for an aries ... I start to act more like a cancer xDclick to expand
Posted by AriesFireKnightWhat is it exactly you trying to accomplish?Posted by Ram416Ok, it might be the same for me, I don't really know how to tease her because I fave the feeling that she will take the things seriously and think I'm rude (happened before with an aries sun cancer rising girl). Also took literally some of my teasing jokes and I had to explain them in a sarcastic way then we both laughed. This rise the question:Posted by AriesFireKnightI think she doesn't tease you cos she's not sure where your boundaries are.Posted by DivaCanLeoWell, she doesn't tease me at all and this might be the problem. She is sweet and I really like her but if she want passion she have to bite a little bit.
Lol at act more like a cancer. Dam I read your words and they let me down. I don't feel passion, no butterflies, etc etc.
Don't let the cancer read that
Reading what the damn gemini user have written a few minutes ago I realised that I have to be a little bit angry to get in mood. She must now what I'm talking about ??
If you want her to tease and taunt you, then you initiate it.
@aliensusedourbogroll
How do you tease a cancer girl? ??
Can someone with a cancer partner give me some advice?
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Posted by MoonbutterIt's cos we're scared of getting pinched to death.Posted by AriesFireKnightHaha I dated an Aries guy and he never rushed for sex either... I think I calmed in a way.Posted by GemitatiEastern Europe, I have a lot of ocasions for superficial relationships but I'm really picky and I really like to build a connection first, sex and everything are so much better. But yeah, also I'm a little bit new in all this relationship field... This is my 2 nd serious thing, and 2 years have passed from the first one so I'm a little bit surprised of my mature approach and the fact that I build up feelings slowly.
World upside down!
They are 18 and they are wondering?
Are you guys from Middle East? Or India?
Probably not or you would be chopped for a stew for having sex! Wow!
I don't feel the rush and I really don't want sex right now... Is really strange, I have the feeling that it will come and it will be great but I dont need feel the urge for it like usually. I just wander if is normal for an aries ... I start to act more like a cancer xDclick to expand
Posted by GemitatiAs a fellow Aries with Cancer Rising, I can relate to AriesFireKnight about this issue. I always feel like sex is much more better with love and I wouldn't have sex just for the sake of having sex.Posted by AriesFireKnightAries men strange! I have one...on a leash...keep barking but goes to dog house every time o say Hi!Posted by GemitatiEastern Europe, I have a lot of ocasions for superficial relationships but I'm really picky and I really like to build a connection first, sex and everything are so much better. But yeah, also I'm a little bit new in all this relationship field... This is my 2 nd serious thing, and 2 years have passed from the first one so I'm a little bit surprised of my mature approach and the fact that I build up feelings slowly.
World upside down!
They are 18 and they are wondering?
Are you guys from Middle East? Or India?
Probably not or you would be chopped for a stew for having sex! Wow!
I don't feel the rush and I really don't want sex right now... Is really strange, I have the feeling that it will come and it will be great but I dont need feel the urge for it like usually. I just wander if is normal for an aries ... I start to act more like a cancer xDclick to expand
Posted by MoonbutterI want to understand the issue with this relationship and why I don't feel the drive I felt before... and I figured it out. After I started this thread I realized that this cancer girl is too sweet and never teases me... I really need that in order to have passion.Posted by AriesFireKnightWhat is it exactly you trying to accomplish?Posted by Ram416Ok, it might be the same for me, I don't really know how to tease her because I fave the feeling that she will take the things seriously and think I'm rude (happened before with an aries sun cancer rising girl). Also took literally some of my teasing jokes and I had to explain them in a sarcastic way then we both laughed. This rise the question:Posted by AriesFireKnightI think she doesn't tease you cos she's not sure where your boundaries are.Posted by DivaCanLeoWell, she doesn't tease me at all and this might be the problem. She is sweet and I really like her but if she want passion she have to bite a little bit.
Lol at act more like a cancer. Dam I read your words and they let me down. I don't feel passion, no butterflies, etc etc.
Don't let the cancer read that
Reading what the damn gemini user have written a few minutes ago I realised that I have to be a little bit angry to get in mood. She must now what I'm talking about ??
If you want her to tease and taunt you, then you initiate it.
@aliensusedourbogroll
How do you tease a cancer girl? ??
Can someone with a cancer partner give me some advice?
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My ex did that naturally so I didn't notice the importance of this thing until now. Even when I kissed her she didn't do much stuff, just stood there, and it was a bit strange for me because in my head the girl is supposed to fight back or smth. Tbh without a little bit of challenge to drive me I act just like a confused kid =)))
I just pictured her teasing me in my head a little bit and damn just the thought of this swept me off my feet xD I guess that I have to teach her how to handle an aries next time I see her.
My Aries, is VERY chill, I'd say i'm the one who keeps the relationship more varied and bring spontaneity to it. Could be due to his Mars in Taurus? I'm not sure? He has the other 4 planets in Aries so he is very much one lol.
He mentally exerts himself at work though, he put's in ALOT of hours so this may explain it.
He mentally exerts himself at work though, he put's in ALOT of hours so this may explain it.
Posted by LibraLovesHimI was with an Aries with Mars in Taurus 🙂
My Aries, is VERY chill, I'd say i'm the one who keeps the relationship more varied and bring spontaneity to it. Could be due to his Mars in Taurus? I'm not sure? He has the other 4 planets in Aries so he is very much one lol.
He mentally exerts himself at work though, he put's in ALOT of hours so this may explain it.
He was full on......as much as me.....we were like dynamite
I think Aries men pursue women hard, even when they are with them
The two i was with did
Posted by AriesFireKnightThey say when you meet a kindred you don't get the butterflies yet you are calm and have a sense of knowing and trust. Yeah it was like that with me. Usually I had to set boundaries. I screwed it up by my insecurities. Just keep taking your time. Don't rush. And be honest and keep communication going.Posted by kissmygritsI really don't know, she have a specific vibe, and I also come after a long period where I was alone and happy with it.
Memories. So what made you change your approach to this one?
I mean that I somehow developed an emotional independence and it's quite hard for me to catch feelings again. Something strange, because before I would fall in love like a rock on the bottom of the ocean (I was also very insecure in those times before).
I have to mention, is a long distance relationship. We've met only 2 times and now, the second time I met her, I kissed her, she seemed happy with it even if it wasn't the greatest performance (but I actually don't feel bad about myself, craked a few good jokes about that). The thing was that I didn't experienced butterflies or explosive passion or a release of tension in my side, but more of a chilling vibe so strong that let my mind empty for hours after that. I was lowkey stoned tho ??
The question is, chill relationships were a thing for you? How they worked up? How do you also recover from a long time of emotional independence to develop a relationship mood?click to expand
**They say when you meet a kindred you don't get the butterflies yet you are calm and have a sense of knowing and trust**.
I was told this too...interesting hey?
Many times i have been shown a man waiting for me....who will be significant. We wont jump into bed quickly and there wont be the rush, but he and i will be very passionate and stable with each other
Makes sense...maybe the reason so many couples have problems is because of the rush and the quick burn....in some cases....s l o w l y....does it
I was told this too...interesting hey?
Many times i have been shown a man waiting for me....who will be significant. We wont jump into bed quickly and there wont be the rush, but he and i will be very passionate and stable with each other
Makes sense...maybe the reason so many couples have problems is because of the rush and the quick burn....in some cases....s l o w l y....does it
Posted by AreyoumytwinflameThat makes total sense. The Aries energy needs to be excited and stimulated by the partner...if not they get bored or lazy or like you......move on
As an Aries I think to create passion we need someone who will play tennis with us. Who will reciprocate and transfer the energy back to us. Not soccer where they are the goal and they let us do all the work until we get a goal.
Silly analogy but I think it gets the point across? It's just a preference.
I briefly dated a libra dude who was expecting me to play soccer and I wanted to play tennis. I'd hit the ball in his court and he'd look at me with dead eyes. I'd hit another ball...dead eyes. So, I got bored and moved on but he would try to hang out all the time and I'm like why? I want someone to play tennis with...not someone who considers themselves the goal post.
Posted by AriesFireKnightPosted by MoonbutterI want to understand the issue with this relationship and why I don't feel the drive I felt before... and I figured it out. After I started this thread I realized that this cancer girl is too sweet and never teases me... I really need that in order to have passion.Posted by AriesFireKnightWhat is it exactly you trying to accomplish?Posted by Ram416Ok, it might be the same for me, I don't really know how to tease her because I fave the feeling that she will take the things seriously and think I'm rude (happened before with an aries sun cancer rising girl). Also took literally some of my teasing jokes and I had to explain them in a sarcastic way then we both laughed. This rise the question:Posted by AriesFireKnightI think she doesn't tease you cos she's not sure where your boundaries are.Posted by DivaCanLeoWell, she doesn't tease me at all and this might be the problem. She is sweet and I really like her but if she want passion she have to bite a little bit.
Lol at act more like a cancer. Dam I read your words and they let me down. I don't feel passion, no butterflies, etc etc.
Don't let the cancer read that
Reading what the damn gemini user have written a few minutes ago I realised that I have to be a little bit angry to get in mood. She must now what I'm talking about ??
If you want her to tease and taunt you, then you initiate it.
@aliensusedourbogroll
How do you tease a cancer girl? ??
Can someone with a cancer partner give me some advice?
My ex did that naturally so I didn't notice the importance of this thing until now. Even when I kissed her she didn't do much stuff, just stood there, and it was a bit strange for me because in my head the girl is supposed to fight back or smth. Tbh without a little bit of challenge to drive me I act just like a confused kid =)))
I just pictured her teasing me in my head a little bit and damn just the thought of this swept me off my feet xD I guess that I have to teach her how to handle an aries next time I see her.
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Oh yeah, gotta have the tease factor... I love to tease and be playful ?
Posted by MyStarsShineHey guys, I really like her, she is different from all the girls I've known until now... And I really like the chill vibe too... It just did the kissing a little bit awkward because I was used to have passion and drive before so in this kind of situation I didn't really know how to act. I don't really know how to handle good girls so I think I must start writing in the cancer forums by now xDPosted by AreyoumytwinflameThat makes total sense. The Aries energy needs to be excited and stimulated by the partner...if not they get bored or lazy or like you......move on
As an Aries I think to create passion we need someone who will play tennis with us. Who will reciprocate and transfer the energy back to us. Not soccer where they are the goal and they let us do all the work until we get a goal.
Silly analogy but I think it gets the point across? It's just a preference.
I briefly dated a libra dude who was expecting me to play soccer and I wanted to play tennis. I'd hit the ball in his court and he'd look at me with dead eyes. I'd hit another ball...dead eyes. So, I got bored and moved on but he would try to hang out all the time and I'm like why? I want someone to play tennis with...not someone who considers themselves the goal post.
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Posted by MyStarsShineI absolutely love it. My only thinking about it is I don't want him to get bored of me, he wants to be around me constantly lol! So i'm trying to keep a healthy balance and encourage him to do things with friends also as I do-even though there can be a bit of pouting at abandoning him for a while lol!Posted by LibraLovesHimI was with an Aries with Mars in Taurus 🙂
My Aries, is VERY chill, I'd say i'm the one who keeps the relationship more varied and bring spontaneity to it. Could be due to his Mars in Taurus? I'm not sure? He has the other 4 planets in Aries so he is very much one lol.
He mentally exerts himself at work though, he put's in ALOT of hours so this may explain it.
He was full on......as much as me.....we were like dynamite
I think Aries men pursue women hard, even when they are with them
The two i was with did
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it's your cancer rising...
Posted by LibraLovesHimWhere is his Venus and ascendant @LibraLovesHim? Do you live together?Posted by MyStarsShineI absolutely love it. My only thinking about it is I don't want him to get bored of me, he wants to be around me constantly lol! So i'm trying to keep a healthy balance and encourage him to do things with friends also as I do-even though there can be a bit of pouting at abandoning him for a while lol!Posted by LibraLovesHimI was with an Aries with Mars in Taurus 🙂
My Aries, is VERY chill, I'd say i'm the one who keeps the relationship more varied and bring spontaneity to it. Could be due to his Mars in Taurus? I'm not sure? He has the other 4 planets in Aries so he is very much one lol.
He mentally exerts himself at work though, he put's in ALOT of hours so this may explain it.
He was full on......as much as me.....we were like dynamite
I think Aries men pursue women hard, even when they are with them
The two i was with did
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Posted by MyStarsShineVenus is in Aries. Im not sure what time he was born for ascendant sign but he's 21st March, which maybe Pisces cusp?Posted by LibraLovesHimWhere is his Venus and ascendant @LibraLovesHim? Do you live together?Posted by MyStarsShineI absolutely love it. My only thinking about it is I don't want him to get bored of me, he wants to be around me constantly lol! So i'm trying to keep a healthy balance and encourage him to do things with friends also as I do-even though there can be a bit of pouting at abandoning him for a while lol!Posted by LibraLovesHimI was with an Aries with Mars in Taurus 🙂
My Aries, is VERY chill, I'd say i'm the one who keeps the relationship more varied and bring spontaneity to it. Could be due to his Mars in Taurus? I'm not sure? He has the other 4 planets in Aries so he is very much one lol.
He mentally exerts himself at work though, he put's in ALOT of hours so this may explain it.
He was full on......as much as me.....we were like dynamite
I think Aries men pursue women hard, even when they are with them
The two i was with did
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I still have my own place but he's recently gave me the spare key to his, we've spent every night together since we came back from a trip to my homecountry a few weeks ago.
Posted by MyStarsShineActually i'm guilt tripping a little today, I was a bit dramatic last night after a few drinks and wanted to go out, then I didn't want to sleep and he went a bit mad and went through to other bedroom to get peace. I came through and told him come back to bed and I settled. Maybe with the lil bit of drama I throw in the mix now and then does us good lol! He's been v loving and understanding with me today despite this. Came through to the bed and hugged me for longer than usual before going off to work-I think he knew I was feeling awful for my behaviour.Posted by LibraLovesHimWhere is his Venus and ascendant @LibraLovesHim? Do you live together?Posted by MyStarsShineI absolutely love it. My only thinking about it is I don't want him to get bored of me, he wants to be around me constantly lol! So i'm trying to keep a healthy balance and encourage him to do things with friends also as I do-even though there can be a bit of pouting at abandoning him for a while lol!Posted by LibraLovesHimI was with an Aries with Mars in Taurus 🙂
My Aries, is VERY chill, I'd say i'm the one who keeps the relationship more varied and bring spontaneity to it. Could be due to his Mars in Taurus? I'm not sure? He has the other 4 planets in Aries so he is very much one lol.
He mentally exerts himself at work though, he put's in ALOT of hours so this may explain it.
He was full on......as much as me.....we were like dynamite
I think Aries men pursue women hard, even when they are with them
The two i was with did
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Posted by LibraLovesHimDepends which year he was born Libra...check the ephemaris for that year...Posted by MyStarsShineVenus is in Aries. Im not sure what time he was born for ascendant sign but he's 21st March, which maybe Pisces cusp?Posted by LibraLovesHimWhere is his Venus and ascendant @LibraLovesHim? Do you live together?Posted by MyStarsShineI absolutely love it. My only thinking about it is I don't want him to get bored of me, he wants to be around me constantly lol! So i'm trying to keep a healthy balance and encourage him to do things with friends also as I do-even though there can be a bit of pouting at abandoning him for a while lol!Posted by LibraLovesHimI was with an Aries with Mars in Taurus 🙂
My Aries, is VERY chill, I'd say i'm the one who keeps the relationship more varied and bring spontaneity to it. Could be due to his Mars in Taurus? I'm not sure? He has the other 4 planets in Aries so he is very much one lol.
He mentally exerts himself at work though, he put's in ALOT of hours so this may explain it.
He was full on......as much as me.....we were like dynamite
I think Aries men pursue women hard, even when they are with them
The two i was with did
I still have my own place but he's recently gave me the spare key to his, we've spent every night together since we came back from a trip to my homecountry a few weeks ago.click to expand
Keep your own place!! The dynamic can change, not always for the better when you share a house
Posted by LibraLovesHimAt least you made up 🙂Posted by MyStarsShineActually i'm guilt tripping a little today, I was a bit dramatic last night after a few drinks and wanted to go out, then I didn't want to sleep and he went a bit mad and went through to other bedroom to get peace. I came through and told him come back to bed and I settled. Maybe with the lil bit of drama I throw in the mix now and then does us good lol! He's been v loving and understanding with me today despite this. Came through to the bed and hugged me for longer than usual before going off to work-I think he knew I was feeling awful for my behaviour.Posted by LibraLovesHimWhere is his Venus and ascendant @LibraLovesHim? Do you live together?Posted by MyStarsShineI absolutely love it. My only thinking about it is I don't want him to get bored of me, he wants to be around me constantly lol! So i'm trying to keep a healthy balance and encourage him to do things with friends also as I do-even though there can be a bit of pouting at abandoning him for a while lol!Posted by LibraLovesHimI was with an Aries with Mars in Taurus 🙂
My Aries, is VERY chill, I'd say i'm the one who keeps the relationship more varied and bring spontaneity to it. Could be due to his Mars in Taurus? I'm not sure? He has the other 4 planets in Aries so he is very much one lol.
He mentally exerts himself at work though, he put's in ALOT of hours so this may explain it.
He was full on......as much as me.....we were like dynamite
I think Aries men pursue women hard, even when they are with them
The two i was with did
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Posted by MyStarsShineHe was born in 1985, as was I. Yes for sure very much, I have no intention of losing anything which has allowed me my independence and gotten me thus far in 10 years from a relationship that isn't even a year old. I think its unfair for any man to expect that from a woman. We are expats and he is talking about "our" next move which should come in around a year and a half when he should choose where he wants to go next-if we are together then we can cross that bridge when it comes 🙂Posted by LibraLovesHimDepends which year he was born Libra...check the ephemaris for that year...Posted by MyStarsShineVenus is in Aries. Im not sure what time he was born for ascendant sign but he's 21st March, which maybe Pisces cusp?Posted by LibraLovesHimWhere is his Venus and ascendant @LibraLovesHim? Do you live together?Posted by MyStarsShineI absolutely love it. My only thinking about it is I don't want him to get bored of me, he wants to be around me constantly lol! So i'm trying to keep a healthy balance and encourage him to do things with friends also as I do-even though there can be a bit of pouting at abandoning him for a while lol!Posted by LibraLovesHimI was with an Aries with Mars in Taurus 🙂
My Aries, is VERY chill, I'd say i'm the one who keeps the relationship more varied and bring spontaneity to it. Could be due to his Mars in Taurus? I'm not sure? He has the other 4 planets in Aries so he is very much one lol.
He mentally exerts himself at work though, he put's in ALOT of hours so this may explain it.
He was full on......as much as me.....we were like dynamite
I think Aries men pursue women hard, even when they are with them
The two i was with did
I still have my own place but he's recently gave me the spare key to his, we've spent every night together since we came back from a trip to my homecountry a few weeks ago.
Keep your own place!! The dynamic can change, not always for the better when you share a house
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Posted by LibraLovesHimSensible lady 🙂 @LibraLovesHimPosted by MyStarsShineHe was born in 1985, as was I. Yes for sure very much, I have no intention of losing anything which has allowed me my independence and gotten me thus far in 10 years from a relationship that isn't even a year old. I think its unfair for any man to expect that from a woman. We are expats and he is talking about "our" next move which should come in around a year and a half when he should choose where he wants to go next-if we are together then we can cross that bridge when it comes 🙂Posted by LibraLovesHimDepends which year he was born Libra...check the ephemaris for that year...Posted by MyStarsShineVenus is in Aries. Im not sure what time he was born for ascendant sign but he's 21st March, which maybe Pisces cusp?Posted by LibraLovesHimWhere is his Venus and ascendant @LibraLovesHim? Do you live together?Posted by MyStarsShineI absolutely love it. My only thinking about it is I don't want him to get bored of me, he wants to be around me constantly lol! So i'm trying to keep a healthy balance and encourage him to do things with friends also as I do-even though there can be a bit of pouting at abandoning him for a while lol!Posted by LibraLovesHimI was with an Aries with Mars in Taurus 🙂
My Aries, is VERY chill, I'd say i'm the one who keeps the relationship more varied and bring spontaneity to it. Could be due to his Mars in Taurus? I'm not sure? He has the other 4 planets in Aries so he is very much one lol.
He mentally exerts himself at work though, he put's in ALOT of hours so this may explain it.
He was full on......as much as me.....we were like dynamite
I think Aries men pursue women hard, even when they are with them
The two i was with did
I still have my own place but he's recently gave me the spare key to his, we've spent every night together since we came back from a trip to my homecountry a few weeks ago.
Keep your own place!! The dynamic can change, not always for the better when you share a house
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You are wise to see how it goes....maybe i should have done that in the past, instead of losing myself in them
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