Niecey14
@Niecey14
13 Years
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If he shows no clear commitment and keeps you in a cycle of intimacy without future plans, it is healthier to move on. Loving someone who does not reciprocate your deeper feelings can lead to heartbreak. Focus on self-care and seek a partner who values emotional connection and stability to fulfill your needs.



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I have to say that 75% of the men I attract are Aries men, which I love! Something about their sexuality and outspoken personality. Well, this guy is divorced and has kids which we both have in common;
We hit it off good, and yes he started talking sexual after a few days. For the first meet He drove 45 mins away to meet me and we spoke for an hour at a park. The second meet he went to my relatives BBQ and we kissed and hugged the whole time. Well, the third time eventually ended in a motel room, but this was 3 months after meeting him. We get along great, we talk and share our kids moments. He lives with his mom since his paycheck basically goes on child support. So we made it a habit to go to the motel room about 2x a month.
So it's been 6 months already and everytime I ask him about going to the next level he freezes. He texted me goodnight and I luv you one night but right after he texted "I'm Drunk! LOL" ....well, after not getting a direct answer I tried to break it off, and told him I don't just want a sexual fling. He was surprised and responded by saying: that all he can offer is sex since he's financially unstable. That he's mad because I'm a good woman. He doesn't want to hold me back and he wanted one last time with me. I went one last time and it was the best!
He told me so. But we still hangout and talk because we're really good friends, I even gave him money for his kids Xmas gifts., and he said that meant a lot to him. After a few weeks we got back together intimately. I'm in love with him and I know he feels something strong for me but he won't confess. I even told him I'm willing to move in and we can financially help each other but he never answered me.
I'm confused! I rejected other men for him.... But I'm about to call it quits because I'm getting love sick and depressed. Some people take the risk and go for it but I'm not lucky with him. My question is... WHAT SHOULD I DO? Hang in there or move on?? By the way, he's 36 and I'm 34.
Sincerely,
A very love sick Pisces woman. 😢