Dear Aries,tell me all your traits............

Aries,I want to know you guys and gals.Tell me all your traits,good and bad.Maybe you can include your experience with friends,family,co-workers or your lover.How you react to pressure?How to approach an aries?Too me aries looks active,youthful,have a plenty of energy and have great confidence as big as a mountain..............

I tend to look at the world as if anything is possible and/or that things are pure and innocent much of the time. I get so put off when something disillusions me, and all the faith I put in that the person or the idea of something, that when it gets shattered, I get very reactionary. Kind of like finding out santa clause isn't real right before you wake up early to see if he brought you that favorite toy you waited all year to get.

Because I am naive or behave naively people can end up treating me like an idiot and I have gotten sick of that. People such as bosses assume I am not capable of anything because I balance my work life with socializing or being fun, or relaxed, and they see that as lazy. I am usually a workaholic so that always confounds me.

I love the idea of things being wonderful so much that it is like a constant need, like it has to be there or my day is gonna be all boring and sad. I often feel a need to find cheerful or inspiring things in life each day, to keep up my sense of it all, I really must have everything wonderful and lively or fun, or something that makes me feel right in the world. I love the idea of that specialness in the world, that when we talk about chasing someone for love, watch out. I love talking up shy people, and getting dab center into their comfort zone, I almost want to push others to be as right there in the feel of things with me, but tend to go with the flow.

I love the idea of doing right by other people. If someone is hurt or in need, I MUST be there and actively helping or whatnot. People find that annoying but that is just a need I have.

Competitiveness and in any playful way, I eat it up. There is this creative switch that goes off at that time, and its like I am seeing everything in a new way and my mind is on fire.

Relating to others is shaky so often that I tend to assume that relating to others will be awkward usually. It doesn't cause me to shy away. Authority figures can't get through to me, unless they are speaking as if they are cooperatively showing me the right way in this world. Saying NO or DON'T is the signal to make me refuse what you are saying and do it as if out of spite for saying NO.

I get really hurt regarding respect. If I am in a disrespectful situation, that is the worst to me.

I don't forgive and forget so much as I just wake up the next day ready to take on life as if its the first day of the rest of my life (usually). Hard for me to hold some eternal grudge

Thanks for responding.I found your post is very interesting.No wonder,Its hard for me to find a depress aries.They always look cheerful,confidence and energetic.

So the words "NO" and "DONT" impact you so deeply?Because it looks like order and demanding?Because I know Aries love to lead and love to win.

I generally do whatever the hell I want at all times of the day. It's gotten me in trouble a few times, and I have been remorseful a small minority of times, but generally I don't give a crap if someone doesn't like it. When it comes to work, I tend to go by the phrase "on time, on budget, or done right."

Is it true aries are too direct and blunt?

Sometimes, ya.

We're not afraid to let you have it if you piss us off.

what about aries look younger than his age?do you look younger than your biological age?did someone comment you look younger than your original age?

I have sun, moon, mercury in Aries and yes, I can be blunt although it may seem odd that I hate confrontation. I also keep things inside a lot and have a problem asking others for help as I feel I should be able to handle things. But when it comes to injustice to other people, I have no problem doing what needs to be done.

I like pressure, actually need it to get things done as I can get lazy. Probably do some of my best work under pressure. And a master of fast decisions. While everyone sits around debating, I'm itching to do SOMETHING. Didn't say it was the best decision.

Approach an Aries cautiously....😛 No, we are very approachable and if asked for help, I will move mountains. Can't resist helping and really hate rude, distracted behavior. That bothers me a lot. Groups of people walking slowly on a sidewalk blocking everyone will cause me to make an exaggerated effort to go around them with the loudest gasp you've ever heard. Just hate distracted airiness. Not always so willing to be a leader but will if the response from others are lukewarm.

If I say something, I mean it. If I make plans, I'll be there & will cut you out of my life if you are flaky. I will be there for you so I'm looking for friends who will do the same. And won't ask for more than what I am willing to give.

My confidence can wane considerably. If it is a contest or something I want to win badly, it shakes me to the core, although you won't see it. We really hate to lose. Would rather not risk it if there is a good chance of losing. Winning is pretty much everything so although we can be competitive, I'm quite selective about it.

Acting younger or having younger energy could be Aries but looking younger has more to do with the descendant/ascendant. Having Pisces ascendant (virgo des) was the only thing that said you look younger & will get better with time. Which is sooo true 🙂

Is it true aries are too direct and blunt?

If something is bothering me I have to get it out, and say it, or else It make me go insane. Usually this is only when I feel someone has done a friend or family member wrong, or done me wrong.

If I think someone is cool or I like them, I say it, and I am very up front about my feelings.

Do we look or act younger?

I tend to hang out with people who happen to be younger than me, I am 32 and most of my friends back in NYC are 20-23.

I tend to love all things about fun and games, like I keep up with video games when I can, and enjoy comics and comedy etc.

Doesn't mean I don't like serious stuff, but I enjoy the lighter side of life.

I'll just add to the list for us Aries.

Looking sexy as hell 😛

you'll find a depressed one uder the catagory of virgo moon and cancer rising with first house in pisces maybe? i dunno, but generaly we easy to get along with, fun and ready to give a nice leo attention whenever he or she wants good or bad 🙂

Posted by AA
you'll find a depressed one uder the catagory of virgo moon and cancer rising with first house in pisces maybe? i dunno, but generaly we easy to get along with, fun and ready to give a nice leo attention whenever he or she wants good or bad 🙂

you'll find a depressed one under the catagory with a scorpio rising and pisces moon has well

Posted by LovelyMissAries

I'm being genuine 90% of the time and I expect the same back.

I'm uptight, so I like being around flexible people.

I don't like closed books. I'm an open book and I have nothing to hide, I suppose I expect to be trusted because I know I'd never betray someone even if given the reason/chance.
We're VERY loyal

I absolutely HATE being bossed around. I AM my own boss, you got it? Unless you're significantly older than me, I'm not going to listen to you try to tell me what to do. I'll figure it out on my own.

I'll figure it out on my own...

Everything has to be done NOW!

I like people who can be silly with me when I'm being silly, and who can play my games!

Work hard, play hard! for sure! And yes, why not trust us? we are always up front and ready to get to business on a topic so why should people mistrust us, I hate when people do that to the point I don't want to be around that person. Like I am gonna prove myself to someone, ha.

Posted by LovelyMissAries

I like being chased more than doing the chasing.

I enjoy "parenting" my friends.

I give good advice.

We must make good parents in life as we sure do our best with those we hang out with.

Posted by LovelyMissAries

Oh, and did I mention my BIG ego?

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Sometimes my ego disallows me from having sanity when it comes to balancing life/work/family. If only bosses would chill out, family would support us, friends would be ready to have fun, then life would be grand. I think we aries when we aren't tied up with everyone else's harping or whatnot would fix up the world, but alas ...

loyal (to a fault - but am trying to improve)
honest
no games/guessing etc. if I love/hate you, you will know (this is just practical - why can't everyone just be like this?)
won't betray a confidence

and naturally expect all these qualities in return or there will be trouble

yes, of course things must be done now - why weren't they done yesterday—!!

bit slow about learning things like just because I care about people, that does not necessarily mean they care about me, but as I said, trying to improve.


Obviously we are ALL sensational in the sack. And out of it.
Sometimes I think we can be a bit critical of ourselves. We are great people.If you have an Aries friend you are truly blessed.

dont you like capricorns— come on we are just like aries but maybe darker and colder 😆.

Posted by HappyCappy
dont you like capricorns— come on we are just like aries but maybe darker and colder 😆.

I do, well ... one of you anyway. Yes we are too much a like, apart from us thinking out loud, while you guys can be thinking and feeling all sort of things without saying a word. God ... does it drive us nuts? Yes. And yes you do love your space and so do we, we love our freedom. But when we want space we'll say it to your face, you guys on the other hand just vanish into thin air and appear from no where.

We tend to trust people easier, maybe because we are blunt and straight to the point. With capis you guys are secretive and hence assume everyone is the same, that they hiding something. I'll say it to you, if you ever go out with an Aries girl, please be kind and put your trust in her, we don't fall just for anyone, and when we give our heart we give all of it, no need to be suspecious or cautious around us, if anything changes we'd let you know.

Source: Aries girl madly in love with a Capi guy who drives her nuts and streches her patience to endless limits *sighs*

Aries women are like a FINE WINE, we become SEXIER with time! Father time is very kind to us Aries women lol. We are the FOUNTAIN OF YOUTH. Aries women are WILD FIRES!!!

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did you all know your suitable partner is gemini?have you guys ever met with gemini before?If do plz tell the experience =D