does taurus mess up my aries

i have taurus mars but aries mercury, venus, and sun, so the mars says that i'm slow and afraid of change but the aries is quick so idk how taurus mars plays into my life if the rest of me is the opposite

Check the houses of your Aries placements, your Libra placements might 'cool' your fire down a bit, too. You're not as confrontational as most Aries, although, I don't find most Aries to be all that confrontational.