I messed up please help. I have fallen for a Taurus girl

This topic was created in the Taurus forum by Godmode on Saturday, December 3, 2016 and has 12 replies.

Understanding Taurus Girls and How to Rebuild Trust

Taurus women can be guarded and take time to trust others. Respect her space and show genuine remorse. Focus on consistent, respectful communication and give her time to heal before reaching out again. Patience and sincerity are key to rebuilding trust with a Taurus girl.

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@Godmode
9 Years

I'm a Aries guy and I have fallen for a lovely Taurus girl. Speaking to her for a few months and we met only twice.

I don't know if Taurus girls are gaurded bt she sure was gaurded, she wanted to remain friends.

But I wanted more, so I was being a jerk about it and regretfully text her some horrible comments in the heat of the moment.

2 months later I emailed her an apology email and I didn't hear back. So a week later I fb message her apologizing and she blatantly refused to talk to me and ask me not to contact her again. She hasn't blocked me on fb though.

Does she need more time need advice.

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@Aries_Luminary
9 Years500+ Posts

Let it go. Aries men have a way about them that can turn a Taurus female off. Yes I am an Aries woman but I'm more of a Taurus when in relationships. And I've dated Aries men. They get in their own way with the negative aspects of an Aries males personality traits. Your childish ways can take over when you're having your fits. Thus becoming undesirable to a Taurus woman or any other woman who doesn't have low self esteem

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Godmode
I'm a Aries guy and I have fallen for a lovely Taurus girl. Speaking to her for a few months and we met only twice.

I don't know if Taurus girls are gaurded bt she sure was gaurded, she wanted to remain friends.

But I wanted more, so I was being a jerk about it and regretfully text her some horrible comments in the heat of the moment.

2 months later I emailed her an apology email and I didn't hear back. So a week later I fb message her apologizing and she blatantly refused to talk to me and ask me not to contact her again. She hasn't blocked me on fb though.

Does she need more time need advice.

What did you say to her btw?

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

We are definitely open when we do like someone it usually is quite opposite attract between earth and fire. Alot of struggle but forgiving. Alot of compromise on both but if Taurus is into you. We won't detach to much but enough to caught up. Male sure you are consistent in actions and words. But people mirror off each other sometimes so if she saw anger busts, then she will too or talk to you like why are you getting angry for let's work it out.

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@Ram416
10 Years10,000+ Posts

Dude, you blew it.

She wanted to remain friends and you forced your expectations on to her. Taurus in general doesn't like being pushed into anything they're not ready for or not interested in.

Pick up your hurt ego and move on.

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@Season
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by JohnTheBaptist100

Posted by Godmode
I'm a Aries guy and I have fallen for a lovely Taurus girl. Speaking to her for a few months and we met only twice.

I don't know if Taurus girls are gaurded bt she sure was gaurded, she wanted to remain friends.

But I wanted more, so I was being a jerk about it and regretfully text her some horrible comments in the heat of the moment.

2 months later I emailed her an apology email and I didn't hear back. So a week later I fb message her apologizing and she blatantly refused to talk to me and ask me not to contact her again. She hasn't blocked me on fb though.

Does she need more time need advice.

Sorry but a Taurus will forgive most things but "disrespect"... Nah. You killed it off with your childish "mean" words before it had a chance to develop. Emotional shit does not work with a Taurus either. Next time keep your emotional rants in your damn head... But then again I have an Aries merc so I know how impulsive I can be but I never disrespect a person by calling them mean names just because I can't get what I want at the time..

You showed your true colours and the Taurus is so done with you.. As for fb. If she had blocked you that may have been a sign ie a reaction but she shows she can't even be bother to use her energy to block you.

You sound so childish.. Not sure of your age but act your age and not your shoe size.

Move on... The Taurus sure has and good riddance with that...

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Ditto. She doesn't need more time. She's finished. Taurus women hate disrespectful men and sadly you made that error. She's moved on and so must you. You can take this as a lesson learned and that's about all. Sorry. Aries men "can" be overwhelming to bullettes. They move really fast when they want something. Say things they later regret, while Taurus progressing slowly in a relationship.

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@PrettyTaurusLove
9 Years

She MEAN everything she have said. You cannot have her. So just stay away.

After all you've done to her, you can't even stay friends with her. Really mean but just being honest, sugar coating isn't her thing.

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@VenusStar
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Everyone's right , you messed up your chances when you said those mean things to her. Her self worth would never let her continue any kind if relationship with her. Take this as a lesson.