AHHHH!!!!! Aries! Please, let me know that its not all of you....but I have this one Aries frond who is ALWAYS braging and boasting about all the things she does thats great, and she acts like my friends and I are all INFERIOR to her, and AHHH! ANd she always gets everything she wants, but shes all-together not the *sweet nice* little person everyone thinks she is. She is totally ttwo-faced, and only her close friends, like me, know this and feel it. How can we make it STOP?!
Fumigating Taurean here!!!!
Hmmmm how can YOU make it stop? Not sure you can. Not sure that you can make anybody stop doing what they do. They must do it on their own. If one does not like or feel comfortable with a person, be thankful for the experience and move on to where YOU enjoy being. Eventually, your friend may wonder why her friends don't "stick" around and she may inquire about it...if she does, then express your feelings. Or, if you feel the need, express your feelings to her now. Maybe she is not aware of how she is and if she is....well then, she likes herself that way and then you must decide what you need to do. I hope that this helps. Remember, we all are here to learn about ourselves and others, what works for us and what does not. We also need to learn to accept the differences in others. We did not come here in "perfect" condition.
Best wishes...🙂
Best wishes...🙂
24, 187--I know this trait. Her boasting only menas one thing: She is a very insecure person. Trust me. It's usually the ones that bragg and put down others to make themselves feel better because deep down, they're not pleased with themselves.
But my advice to you is to avoid her. Yes, that's right. Cut off your association with her. I don't mean to sound harsh, but, she isn't going to change--most likely. And her behaviour is pissing you off--isn't it? Honey, life is too short to deal with types like her. If it were me, I'd bring her ego down then walk away--but that's just me.
But my advice to you is to avoid her. Yes, that's right. Cut off your association with her. I don't mean to sound harsh, but, she isn't going to change--most likely. And her behaviour is pissing you off--isn't it? Honey, life is too short to deal with types like her. If it were me, I'd bring her ego down then walk away--but that's just me.
I agree with both responses. As an aries, I know about insecurities. I also know of the mistakes I have made being a bragger or even trying to be "better" to fit in.
Life is a great teacher. And by that I mean, all the negative stuff I put out, came back to me later. I have learned a lot of valuable lessons about being "real and sincere". Karmically, it pays!
Anyway, back to your aries friend. It is a good idea to move on from her. You don't have to point your finger at her, or spread the word about her bad ways.. She will be alone one day (and life is like that) and will have the opportunity to reflect on herself. She may not like what she sees. But she has to be "down" so-to-speak to see this.
Although she (we) mean well, Aries learn the hardway,sometimes.:-)
If she's the type that will throw a temper tantrum, then thats too bad for her. Let her act like an a**. All of her lies and malipulation will be revealed. And that may be the lesson she needs to learn. Hopefully, she will come out a better person.
I hope it works out.
Life is a great teacher. And by that I mean, all the negative stuff I put out, came back to me later. I have learned a lot of valuable lessons about being "real and sincere". Karmically, it pays!
Anyway, back to your aries friend. It is a good idea to move on from her. You don't have to point your finger at her, or spread the word about her bad ways.. She will be alone one day (and life is like that) and will have the opportunity to reflect on herself. She may not like what she sees. But she has to be "down" so-to-speak to see this.
Although she (we) mean well, Aries learn the hardway,sometimes.:-)
If she's the type that will throw a temper tantrum, then thats too bad for her. Let her act like an a**. All of her lies and malipulation will be revealed. And that may be the lesson she needs to learn. Hopefully, she will come out a better person.
I hope it works out.
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