FWB or Monogamy?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 on Sunday, December 7, 2014 and has 7 replies.

Understanding the Differences Between Friends with Benefits and Monogamy

Choosing between friends with benefits and monogamy depends on personal values and emotional needs. Monogamy offers emotional intimacy and stability, while friends with benefits may prioritize casual connections. Recognizing your comfort level with emotional vulnerability and commitment helps determine what suits you best.

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@Flavia
17 Years500+ Posts

Is this still about debating having a FWB? If you are and want to with that Aries then just do it and live with the issues that occur as they come. This person is around your family all the time if it is the same story.

Is it worth what it will cost? If it is then make that decision. If you are hesitant then let it go and date someone who just doesn't want sex.

You were still in a position of healing back then so if you haven't moved forward getting into anything may not be the best move for you right now, but only you can know if it is one way or the other.

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

So the fuck what... I figure I post something in Aries since I did all the other 11 signs.. This is for amusement and has nothing to do with anything really. Simple ass fucking questions that's it really. Really nothing more or less.

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@Flavia
17 Years500+ Posts

Maybe I confused you with someone else....

Ok I'll play:

Monogamy cause STIs are scary and people are unclean when they jump around

No, Im too neutral most of the time, makes it easy to understand but easy to be misinterpreted

My heart is joked about because I am so blunt...

Yes I am a one woman man if a man, but I am not so I cant and I wont

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Personally, it depends on me, what's going on in life, etc. I have no issue with either and obviously would prefer monogamy. However, if nothing serious is going on with anyone else, it's a dry spell, and there's a willing party and I feel like bothering, then the fwb option is there.

After saying I didn't want to bother with that bs anymore, one popped up within the last year. Was kinda meh about it, but with everything going on, I just didn't have the time/energy to invest in a new relationship, should one come along. :/