Has anyone noticed this patter with Aries?

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A lot of the Aries I know tend to crush on someone, pull away but always give you enough attention for you not to forget them. I feel like they are impulsive with communicating. I'll go months without talking to my friend but then she'll pop up out of no where and start where we left off like its no big deal. To me they get really obsessed if you reject them even in the slightest form.
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A lot of the Aries I know tend to crush on someone, pull away but always give you enough attention for you not to forget them. I feel like they are impulsive with communicating. I'll go months without talking to my friend but then she'll pop up out of no where and start where we left off like its no big deal. To me they get really obsessed if you reject them even in the slightest form.
Sounds like me when I have a crush. It depends on the communicating part. I regularly communicate with friends but I'll also go some time without & start where we left off. Yes, I can't stand most forms of rejection. If it's slight, I'll let it pass.
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Posted by libralotus
A lot of the Aries I know tend to crush on someone, pull away but always give you enough attention for you not to forget them. I feel like they are impulsive with communicating. I'll go months without talking to my friend but then she'll pop up out of no where and start where we left off like its no big deal. To me they get really obsessed if you reject them even in the slightest form.
Ugh, it's a blessing and a curse. When I am interacting with someone, not to sound conceited, but I am very charming. I am invested in that moment of interaction, and my attention is on that person as though they are all I can see, and then when it's over, it's over. Done. I need to go away. I am happy and I wish you all the best, but I don't really wonder if I'll see you again, and I'm probably hoping I don't because the interaction exhausted me. I may see a guy, think he's cute, crush for a fleeting nanosecond as he walks by and says 'hi,' then I'm over it. There are squirrel butts that need my admiration and cats that need cuddling.

If I'm rejected, I don't care as long as I can rationalize why, and I often do after some thought. But I keep to myself (i.e. I don't put myself in a position to be rejected because I'm not trying to connect) so take that with a grain of salt.

I'll tell you this, when I had applied to a job last year, and they said they'd call me back but didn't, and then I went down there to personally follow-up, and they took my information and told me they'd contact me but didn't - I thought about that for weeks and talked about it for days. :/

I once went for a hug from my boyfriend and he pushed me away (I was being a brat, and was climbing on him, biting him, tugging at his ears and his hair and he was focused on his work and did so absentmindedly), I swear I moped for a good 5 minutes until he had a moment's break, looked up, and then pulled me over to him. Yeah. I can mope when I don't get attention when I want it. I can pout like the best of them.