Hate To Love Aries

Why do i still love Aries after all the hurtful texts he sent me. I have to admit it and i hate it. Does anyone else still love Aries when theyve said hurtful things? And it isnt the first time he's said hurtful things.

no,cancer

I was going to ask if you were a Cancer. You guys would be gluttons for this type of bs.

i gotta agree with the others. cancer women are too forgiving and nice sometimes. you don't have to put up with crap.
a true aries man will admire a woman with an iron will and strength, someone who can put him in his place when he crosses a line, so don't be afraid to stand up to him. he'll probably find it sexy lol
what's your history like with this guy? are you two dating?

Posted by elaine67
Why do i still love Aries after all the hurtful texts he sent me. I have to admit it and i hate it. Does anyone else still love Aries when theyve said hurtful things? And it isnt the first time he's said hurtful things.

We start making room in the heart kept in a safe place for the beloved not expecting hurt in any way..

thanks rocky nice of you

right starlover and thanks for that have i realy been that stupid it was obvious and easy for him

its a long history and no we arnt now.

i have stood up to him not seen or heard a thing since.

What was he saying to you?

That i would spend the rest of my life alone because my 2 wouldnt come to visit me, and that what about wen my son started to bring girlfriends home i wouldnt like it, he said i definately wouldnt want that, and that i should remember that he (aries) and my daughter have had lots of conversations and she had said alot that i wouldnt give her time for, and that my late mother would have said that i should have married him. a date was set, 2 years ago.

so now why carnt i get him out my head. i dont feel so much anger any more but i havent forgot what he said and i never will and thats my problem, he says, that i never forget things and i should move on.

what do mean not that bad? i do still love him thats whats crazy i must have text him 100 times or more past few weeks. and what do you mean you prob read it wrong? what else do think it could mean?

This is going to sound utterly crazy to everyone, but i have actually blocked his number so he carnt. So why the hell am i texting then??!!! I am texting him to say things to him that i want to say but without him being able to text me back with his usual hurtful comments. Fair enough, i have said some pretty harsh things too, but only towards him, not his late mother, he has sent me texts about my family and that made me realy mad. How could he be so cruel. So to stop him hurting me anymore i blocked his number. Now when he tries to ring he carnt get through, it shows on my phone as a 'red x' before his number, thats how i know hes tried to call and yes he has tried to call quite a few times and thats what i wanted him to do, but i wondered what he was calling me for?I didnt want to hear his voice, so it was best that i did what i did. I text him that he would never get through. But yet i still wanted to see him in passing!!!!! This is all dam crazy i know. He pulled up at the side of me only 3 weeks ago but he never ever gets out his van, he just sits there, watching me and i know hes always waited till i go to him, only this time i didnt. Since then hes not tried to call, but i dam well wish he would. I know it seems that i am completely crazy, i am not, maybe just crazy about him...... why......... does anyone understand..........

i just dont want him to hurt me anymore and this way, he carnt.

Thank you for that starlover, thats realy on a par with my innermost feelings and my god they do hurt, today im the closet to tears ive been in a long time. I dont have any friends to cry on at all like i used to do, i dont even talk to neighbours and family are very thin on the ground so theres no one. I just have to try and find my own dutch courage from somewhere and it is so hard. I changed my mobile num once because i couldnt stand the texts he sent me, i text him once saying this is the last text from this number as i am changing the sim card so you cannot hurt me anymore, then i felt so much better knowing he couldnt text me anymore,,,,, but guess what, somehow he found my number. I was mad. I was just thinking of doing the same thing again, because then i know he couldnt even try to ring, but would it solve anything in the long run?

Posted by elaine67
Why do i still love Aries after all the hurtful texts he sent me. I have to admit it and i hate it. Does anyone else still love Aries when theyve said hurtful things? And it isnt the first time he's said hurtful things.

Yeah, just noticed this was a while ago.

This isn't as much as a Cancer thing, but a psychological thing.
I've seen many women under all star signs fall victim and prey
To cruel men.

Although, as a Cancer woman, personally I've never put up with mistreatment for
The other sex, or anyone. It just shows a lack of respect. You have to learn to love YOURSELF
Enough not to put up with emotional abuse.

I think of it this way,
If you don't love me, why should I love you?


But, back to astrology to bring back some relevance.
Cancer does have a tendency to cling to a dead horse, (relationship)

Just putting that out there...

Thank god for this site!! It makes me see sense.