Aries. Sex. Stress.

So I just found out some disturbing news and it has me all stressed out. A guy that I'm cool with wanted to come over but I knew he wanted to have sex so I brushed him off. I cannot have sex when I'm notin a good place mentally. Do any of you haven't same problem? Some people I know use sex as a stress reliever but I can't even think of doing it when I'm stressed out.

I can and can't.

I had a lot of stressful stuff going on this last week and oddly enough, I woke up one day thinking about the ex- solely for sex. I was like wtf, but then figured it was the stress and all the bs going on.

I've yet to act out on such urges yet. There are other routes anyway.

yes im very moody so if im not in the mood for sex i get all like the singer pink and im just like "sorry buddy it's you and your hand tonight lol"

Posted by desireejb112
yes im very moody so if im not in the mood for sex i get all like the singer pink and im just like "sorry buddy it's you and your hand tonight lol"

lol!

I can, but prefer not to be stressed out. It is just not the same when your mind is not completely there.

Posted by feby16aqua
To be honest with my friends here, I haven't met an aries who has a relaxed mind....seems to always be something going on in there 🙂 It's not a bad thing, just busy.

Do you think that this is true?

As an aqua I can always use sex to relax. I just disengage and go into another mode. Are you able to ever do this? How do you do it?

You def have a point there. My wheels are always turning. lol If my partner is around though, I get all hot and bothered and I want to pounce on him. It's different though when I'm upset or stressed. I don't even liked to be touched really. I just want to be in my thoughts or talk about it.
The only way that I can disengage as you say is if I am drunk. lol! Then I'm game.

I just realized how horribly typed my original messages was. smh. I hate typing on cellphones. I sound friggin stupid.

Ah, sex as a stress reliever, I wish.

When I'm stressed I just want to cuddle and feel protected in his arms. Would probably lead to sex, and probably won't be good cause mind is on stressful issues, playing with moods. Get turned off easily, don't get turned on easily.

I guess it depends on the person and how they handle you.

I just sleep it off.

Posted by feby16aqua
To be honest with my friends here, I haven't met an aries who has a relaxed mind....seems to always be something going on in there 🙂 It's not a bad thing, just busy.

Do you think that this is true?

As an aqua I can always use sex to relax. I just disengage and go into another mode. Are you able to ever do this? How do you do it?

—Are you able to ever do this— Truthfully I am rarely stressed but if I am I sometimes distract my mind so I won't think about it. Sex can definitely be used as one of them.
—How do you do it—I can let go of all issues to cater to my lovers need and bring forth passion and intensity so we both become enthralled in the experience.

Although I was able to go into another mode to have sex, sadly it was only a temporary solution. But once all of this is over I can't help but to be in that state of mind again until I figure out an answer.

@LilyTree That's a great point. This guy is not someone I would really turn to in a time of need. He's just a "fun friend" and at that moment, I didn't want to have fun. Had he been a guy that I was connected to emotionally, I would have accepted his affection but I'm still not able to perform. lol For me sex is mental AND physical. I wish I was able to just be physical.