Aries has hired me as her handyman

LOL! 😛 You just love throwing yourself into the shit, dontcha

So, after I left on Monday night, the husband (who I now know is a freaking scorp) went crazy on her ... kept her up most of the night yelling at her. Supposedly his outburst had nothing to do with me, but I'm sure he could tell that I was more familiar with his wife than he was about me.

The aries almost backed out on having me over again last night, and I almost back out on going (should have) ... I was tired anyway, she was clearly still upset and not much fun. So, we just smoked and drank and watched funny stuff on TV and kept on pretending that we're just friends hanging out.

lol, I was wishing the gay cock-block dude was there, he was more fun

she still wore tiny night wear, but seemed more self-conscious about it ... and it's weird, there was zero chemistry between us last night. I wasn't even feeling attracted to her. ...part of it was I felt guilty parking down the street and sneaking into her house like that. .... geeeze, how long before a neighbor notices and tips off the husband!

15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by Gandalf

Posted by DMV
just get your money dude.

lol. I love the simplicity of this statement.

click to expand

that's the other weird thing in my life right now ... i soooo don't need the money. I only agreed to do that shit as an excuse to spend time with her ... she knows that.

she's in a bad place right now

...and i'm caught between wanting her and not wanting to be a selfish ass who helps fuck up her family ... should I just tell her that straight up? or y'all think she already knows?

@DMV

i can relate to the OP on some level as needing intensity and drama in his relationships. but in this case, your cruising for a bruising.

15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

Posted by jru2

...and i'm caught between wanting her and not wanting to be a selfish ass who helps fuck up her family ... should I just tell her that straight up? or y'all think she already knows?

I wouldn't tell her that. That's just piling more drama on top of drama.

If you just wanna be that guy who helps a married woman feel good about herself, then carry on.

Personally I think you should just bail from the whole situation.

@DMV

Posted by jru2

Posted by Gandalf

Posted by DMV
just get your money dude.

lol. I love the simplicity of this statement.

that's the other weird thing in my life right now ... i soooo don't need the money. I only agreed to do that shit as an excuse to spend time with her ... she knows that.

she's in a bad place right now

...and i'm caught between wanting her and not wanting to be a selfish ass who helps fuck up her family ... should I just tell her that straight up? or y'all think she already knows?

click to expand

she's getting mindfucked by 2 scorponic people, so on some level she likes whats going on. you know what i would do, i ask her of she wants a 3some with you and her hubby.

sheesh where is the aqua when you need her?

Posted by Wynter

Posted by jru2

...and i'm caught between wanting her and not wanting to be a selfish ass who helps fuck up her family ... should I just tell her that straight up? or y'all think she already knows?

I wouldn't tell her that. That's just piling more drama on top of drama.

If you just wanna be that guy who helps a married woman feel good about herself, then carry on.

Personally I think you should just bail from the whole situation.

click to expand

Hey, keep in mind I've had a thing for this girl for almost a decade now ... it's not as simple as just bailing. I don't believe in past lives, but it feels like me and her have some unresolved business from one

lol DMV, the aqua called the other day ... her cousin couldn't stand to live with her either and is bailing (that's mean of me to say it like that, but damn, she kinda deserves it)

she's got this friend from HS that she's dating now and he and his daughter are moving in with the aqua for supposedly only a month until he can find a house. I had to hold back the laughter, poor guy.

Posted by ellessque
*facepalm*

you don't want to mess with a scorpio's wife.

it is no match for your venus.

this is going to turn out really horrible for you.

As soon as she told me that he was scorpio ... me, talking to aries: oh crap, he's got the house bugged; I just want to go on record and say that we are just friends and we've never done ANYTHING, right?

she looked at me kinda funny, but then agreed

So, I was thinking today, what if she divorces? What if she wanted to marry me; would I even want that?

answer = no

why = she's not willing to let anyone in, she's not willing to let anyone really love her, and she's not willing to be vulnerable or to become "one" with anyone.

Still, just walking away is gonna be hard. I do actually have another iron in the fire at least, so that may help. Embarrassed to say, but I got desperate enough to put a profile on okcupid. it would be good for me to have a distraction from the aries right now.

Hopefully your "iron in the fire" doesn't have another male attached on it. 🙂

@saggurl88

13 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Gandalf
Dude you don't seem like saggitarius ...........

I agree........ I think he is the Aries and she is the sag..... too much drama that he is having fun with. Aries men love drama and creating new scenarios to get caught up in more drama.