Aries' husband wants out

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by jru2 on Thursday, March 14, 2013 and has 18 replies.

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wow, but at the same time, no brainer. He told her last weekend that she has been an awful wife for the last year, the damage was done and if she wanted to just leave, he would take care of their kid. He said it would be better if she were having an affair, because then everything would make sense.

So, this is why my advice to anyone who is in a "committed" relationship should be nosy if they suspect infidelity ... not knowing drives you crazier than knowing.

the aries' has, at least for now, broken off the affair, and she's trying to do better with her husband. But, she's not about to 'fess up or really do what it would take to save their relationship. She's addicted to the game she's playing.

...meanwhile, I can't resist hanging out with her because I can't seem to get a date anywhere else ... what a sucky dry spell.

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but, yeah, i did feel little bit guilty going over to her house for lunch today. I didn't want to, but I can't resist her -- haha, behold the power of "not" giving it up to a guy.

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I could tell her what she needs to do to save her marriage, but I doubt she would give it an honest attempt. As the shit is hitting the fan, I see in her the same attitudes the now ex-aqua had. She's too independent and too immature and not self-aware enough to change enough this fast.

She's been so friendly to me lately because it's a way for her to move away from the real affair, yet keep her little games and secrets going. She's got to do a lot more than just stop having the real affair if she wants to keep her husband though.

Poor husband though ... he makes me feel better (about getting cheated on last year by my ex) because he's been a great husband to the aries. Bad women are just bad, but I haven't met a good woman that's any good in bed ... so my strategy is to learn to put up with the bad girls better. lol, not sure how that's gonna work out for me.

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Posted by jru2
I could tell her what she needs to do to save her marriage, but I doubt she would give it an honest attempt. As the shit is hitting the fan, I see in her the same attitudes the now ex-aqua had. She's too independent and too immature and not self-aware enough to change enough this fast.

She's been so friendly to me lately because it's a way for her to move away from the real affair, yet keep her little games and secrets going. She's got to do a lot more than just stop having the real affair if she wants to keep her husband though.

Poor husband though ... he makes me feel better (about getting cheated on last year by my ex) because he's been a great husband to the aries. Bad women are just bad, but I haven't met a good woman that's any good in bed ... so my strategy is to learn to put up with the bad girls better. lol, not sure how that's gonna work out for me.

Teach the good girl to be "bad" in bed 😉 Worked for me

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Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by jru2
I could tell her what she needs to do to save her marriage, but I doubt she would give it an honest attempt. As the shit is hitting the fan, I see in her the same attitudes the now ex-aqua had. She's too independent and too immature and not self-aware enough to change enough this fast.

She's been so friendly to me lately because it's a way for her to move away from the real affair, yet keep her little games and secrets going. She's got to do a lot more than just stop having the real affair if she wants to keep her husband though.

Poor husband though ... he makes me feel better (about getting cheated on last year by my ex) because he's been a great husband to the aries. Bad women are just bad, but I haven't met a good woman that's any good in bed ... so my strategy is to learn to put up with the bad girls better. lol, not sure how that's gonna work out for me.

Teach the good girl to be "bad" in bed 😉 Worked for me

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