What does the Aries' want with me?

She invited me over again last night to drink wine and chill at her place. Husband was out of town of course. I think ok, well since we're "just friends", I'll ask if she minds if I also invite this girl i'm trying to hook up with. Aries texts back, "no, i'm funny about having strangers in my house." ... so that's understandable, but in my hopeful mind I let myself interpret that as she wants it to be just me and her ... then after I'm committed to going, she texts me and says that she also invited another guy, her gay friend and that he was coming too.

I got there 1st and she was wearing this tiny little lounge-wear kind of thing, but it wasn't overtly sexy. Gay dude shows up a few minutes later, we all had fun laughing, getting high, watching funny shit on TV ... then i'm sitting in the living room and she's bringing me some snack from the kitchen and the light is behind her ... that outfit was totally see-through ... geez!!! I'm sitting there the rest of the night just wishing the gay dude would leave, but by the time he did it was pretty late so I excused myself too.

god she drives me crazy

she definitely doesnt want another female in the house competing for your attention. thats any girl.

Posted by sewdope
Oooh this girl is scandalous. LOL! Inviting men over when the hubby is away.

hahaha. i forgot she was a married women.

Posted by DMV
she definitely doesnt want another female in the house competing for your attention. thats any girl.

yeah and than she wants to dangle herself in front of you. Probably gets her off

Feb16Aqua ... honestly asking to invite the other girl was probably a weak attempt on my part to make the Aries jealous ... and if by some far out chance she was ok with having the other girl over ... and if the other girl came over ... how bad could that be? me getting high and drunk with 2 hot chics? haha, yes, I was dreaming ... seemed like a good plan at the time.

ya, and i'm a sucker for it 😛

yeah, the whole marriage part is what makes it all suck. Her husband almost left her not long ago, but I guess they are on the mend now ... I don't know.

She told a story last night about many years ago, right before her parents moved to the states, her mom's lover had been waiting at the house to say goodbye. She said her dad hadn't been home in months, but came home that day and found the other guy. She says her dad never talked about that day, but at the time he was throwing shit everywhere and being mean ... duh, right? So anyway, either the way she acts just runs in the family or her mom really set a bad example.

I need to find a new gf before I get sucked in too deep with her again. uck, don't really want a gf right now tho

It sounds like she's using you to feel good about herself, and spice up her sex life between her and her hubby.

The gay chaperone was the cock block

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Posted by Wynter
It sounds like she's using you to feel good about herself, and spice up her sex life between her and her hubby.

The gay chaperone was the cock block

LOL. yes! good perspective 🙂

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lol, I took it that way too

ha, but the cruel and unusual punishment was the outfit she wore ... and she got high as a kite. I think I did pretty good just pretending we were all friends and it was just a normal evening of hanging out having good time. ...even tho i was cringing inside the whole wanting to grab her and set her down in my lap 😛

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Posted by feb16aqua

Posted by Wynter
It sounds like she's using you to feel good about herself, and spice up her sex life between her and her hubby.

The gay chaperone was the cock block

LOL. yes! good perspective 🙂

lol, I took it that way too

ha, but the cruel and unusual punishment was the outfit she wore ... and she got high as a kite. I think I did pretty good just pretending we were all friends and it was just a normal evening of hanging out having good time. ...even tho i was cringing inside the whole wanting to grab her and set her down in my lap 😛

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It was cruel and unusual ;P

you do realize intercourse can happen in the nether regions of your brain...lol.
aka mindfucking.
delicious.

Posted by jru2

Posted by feb16aqua

Posted by Wynter
It sounds like she's using you to feel good about herself, and spice up her sex life between her and her hubby.

The gay chaperone was the cock block

LOL. yes! good perspective 🙂

lol, I took it that way too

ha, but the cruel and unusual punishment was the outfit she wore ... and she got high as a kite. I think I did pretty good just pretending we were all friends and it was just a normal evening of hanging out having good time. ...even tho i was cringing inside the whole wanting to grab her and set her down in my lap 😛

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Hahaha! you should get a medal 😛

We are pretty vain like that... we will dress to kill all in the name of becoming someone's object of desire. I am a woman who will sexually objectify myself to get mens' cocks hard. To know we drive them wild is an enormous kick for us. We don't need to have them. we just need to know that they want us. Especially if we've committed ourselves to a ball and chain for the rest of our lives...
Agreed... she didn't want the other girl there... she wanted your full attention, and gay guy was there for her to hide behind a shield of we're all just friends having a great time. I bet she had the greatest time of you all knowing you were desiring her. And we know when we've accomplished our mission like that.
It's a tease... to keep her feeling good about herself. especially if she's married. doesn't mean she's gonna cheat though.
Don't get a girlfriend if you don't want one... just get a distraction for a while! haha

I'm sorry, jru...

although I write legends of huuuuuge long text, I have ultra short patience reading lately. So without reading.... let me say please

Aries is your friend.

Aries is devoted to her husband, boyfriend, whoever.. no doubt in my mind.

She can be utterly fun, outgoing, be a guy with a guy.. but outside her relationship... she will be your friend.

My advice is.. don't make a fool of yourself if you think she is into something more.

She trusts you as the friend for the being, so just act like one.

And trust me when I say... Aries is so amazingly vibrant... opinionated... and all the fast moving stuff that it can give out a wrong impression on someone who is her friend.

ok.. lotuslili explained it in a different way than I did but it seems the only way goes to Roma (Rome!).

Sexy beast Aries... you fool you, jru! LOL

Take a deep breath and keep your cools. You still will get zero out of your acrobacy.