gemini_82grl
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Have you ever cheated on your partner?
Understanding Why People Cheat and Can They Change
Cheating often stems from emotional dissatisfaction, opportunity, or personal issues. Whether someone can change depends on their intentions and circumstances. Astrology suggests that certain signs may be more prone to infidelity, but personal growth is possible for everyone. Reflecting on your motivations can help determine if change is achievable.
No, I have not cheated on any of my partners. I could have and had plenty of opportunities to but why ask for another problem when the situation i was in was a problem? I prefer to focus and deal with one problem at a time - either fix it or close the door and move on. If I am in a relationship and it is not going anywhere, I will end it before getting involved with someone else.
"Do you belive that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways?"
I suppose anyone can change if their desire is strong enough for them to - some cheaters thrive off of the drama and excitement that it brings into their lives - it is what makes them feel ALIVE - ego boosters. Some are also known as sex addicts.
anything is possible 😉
"Do you belive that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways?"
I suppose anyone can change if their desire is strong enough for them to - some cheaters thrive off of the drama and excitement that it brings into their lives - it is what makes them feel ALIVE - ego boosters. Some are also known as sex addicts.
anything is possible 😉
I've never cheated before, but damn i've been close as hell a few times before. I couldn't actually go through with it I don't think though. It's just way too wrong, and I couldn't imagine if that ever happened to me, you know? I "mind cheat" all the time though, I seriously can't help it.
im not sure if thats cheating but it comes pretty close or maybe it was cheating and im fooling my self
years ago, when i was just starting to date this girl ( i end up with her for 5 years) but it was so early in our relationship that if my memory serves me right we didnt eve had sex yet, we just made out a lot and it was driving me insane lol . so anyhow this other girl that i had past with showed up on my doorsteps and one thing led to another and we hooked up that day, that was the only one time i did that and felt so bad but still werent sure if it was cheating since i didnt seal the deal with the girl i was starting to date at the time.
after that i fell deeply in love with the girl i was starting to date and it (cheating) never even crossed my mind, i did look and fantasized about other girls but i knew the difference between fantasy and acting on it. looking and fantasizing is a normal for a guy, any guy that denies it isnt honest with him self and this is the type that will cheat first.
besides im a bad lier when it comes to things like that and i would never get away with it,
years ago, when i was just starting to date this girl ( i end up with her for 5 years) but it was so early in our relationship that if my memory serves me right we didnt eve had sex yet, we just made out a lot and it was driving me insane lol . so anyhow this other girl that i had past with showed up on my doorsteps and one thing led to another and we hooked up that day, that was the only one time i did that and felt so bad but still werent sure if it was cheating since i didnt seal the deal with the girl i was starting to date at the time.
after that i fell deeply in love with the girl i was starting to date and it (cheating) never even crossed my mind, i did look and fantasized about other girls but i knew the difference between fantasy and acting on it. looking and fantasizing is a normal for a guy, any guy that denies it isnt honest with him self and this is the type that will cheat first.
besides im a bad lier when it comes to things like that and i would never get away with it,
Have you ever cheated?
yes- once, well a few times but on the same boyfriend with one guy. i was very young and that was my 1st relationship. i stayed with a guy i cheated with for a few years after.
Why do you think you cheated?
at a time i was in love with the guy i cheated with. need to experience. knew that boyfriend at the time wasn't the one and wanted to get out
Do you belive that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways?
not at all. that was the only time when i cheated on anyone. hated it while was doing it.
Do you still cheat now?
nope. i'll do everything not to cheat
yes- once, well a few times but on the same boyfriend with one guy. i was very young and that was my 1st relationship. i stayed with a guy i cheated with for a few years after.
Why do you think you cheated?
at a time i was in love with the guy i cheated with. need to experience. knew that boyfriend at the time wasn't the one and wanted to get out
Do you belive that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways?
not at all. that was the only time when i cheated on anyone. hated it while was doing it.
Do you still cheat now?
nope. i'll do everything not to cheat
Have you ever cheated?
yes- once, well a few times but on the same boyfriend with one guy. i was very young and that was my 1st relationship. i stayed with a guy i cheated with for a few years after.
Why do you think you cheated?
at a time i was in love with the guy i cheated with. need to experience. knew that boyfriend at the time wasn't the one and wanted to get out
Do you belive that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways?
not at all. that was the only time when i cheated on anyone. hated it while was doing it.
Do you still cheat now?
nope. i'll do everything not to cheat
yes- once, well a few times but on the same boyfriend with one guy. i was very young and that was my 1st relationship. i stayed with a guy i cheated with for a few years after.
Why do you think you cheated?
at a time i was in love with the guy i cheated with. need to experience. knew that boyfriend at the time wasn't the one and wanted to get out
Do you belive that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways?
not at all. that was the only time when i cheated on anyone. hated it while was doing it.
Do you still cheat now?
nope. i'll do everything not to cheat
I like what class-act-aries said about the fantasizing part, because that is so true. LOL I can't help but do it all the time. ESPECIALLY if a sexy Sag, Aquarius or Scorpio girl happens to be around!
i dont like aquas anymore
she changed her number and i cant even call her anymore 😢
she has gotten weird quick, as soon as i told her i dont want to share her with anyone....stupid bitch
she changed her number and i cant even call her anymore 😢
she has gotten weird quick, as soon as i told her i dont want to share her with anyone....stupid bitch
Class act if she did that she is not worth it....
Keep searvhing you will find someone good enough to give your love to.
Happy hunting.
Keep searvhing you will find someone good enough to give your love to.
Happy hunting.
No, never cheated. But I'm very talented in the art of pushing people beyond their breaking points. As a result, I've only been the dumper one time and that's because dude was an abusive druggie. Woo!
The leo Im seeing right now is like that he has everything I have been wanting and looking for. I really hope he sticks around for a long time.
So geminifox I know how you feel about if you have it all why go elsewhere. Leo man is quite the catch Im imperested with myself... Now I have to figure out to keep him. But whatever Im doing now seems to keep him calling and wanting to see me.
So geminifox I know how you feel about if you have it all why go elsewhere. Leo man is quite the catch Im imperested with myself... Now I have to figure out to keep him. But whatever Im doing now seems to keep him calling and wanting to see me.
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Have you ever cheated?
Why do you think you cheated?
Do you belive that once a cheater always a cheater or can a person change his/her ways?
Do you still cheat now?