hmm....

so the aries i was "seeing" for the past 8 months may be having a kid with another woman. i'm not positive but i was on his FB the other day and a friend of his had written on his wall saying "you having a kid" ... then when i checked his page again the next day the message was gone. we just hung out last wednesday but i haven't heard from him since. this is not surprising though.. we hang out for sporadically and it wouldn't surprise me if he was seeing other women as well. i guess i don't really have a question. we weren't committed to each other just very casually hanging out/having sex. i guess i just think this is really shady.. do you guys think aries men tend to be shady and dishonest? if he really is having a kid thats pretty messed up bc we hooked up just last week. i'm not really upset but it wouldn't be right to continue contacting him. but if he talks to me, how should i approach the situation? thanks🙂

from my experience with aries men....my dad is an aries and my best guyfriend in high school + (for almost 10yrs), also dating one now.... it's weird.... aries are so open, but also shady in the sense that THEY know they are not doing anything wrong but it might seem wrong to YOU....therefore they seem a bit dishonest. like, all three aries men i knew/know closely.... they will tell you the truth AFTER the fact, but make up a story DURING because they know themselves and how far to take something. Could be seen as dishonest....could be seen as childish.

i would just ask him. few aries don't respond well to direct questions, on a more positive note.

xoj

i agree, thanks to both of you. i know if i ask him he will respond (whether he responds honestly is another question) but i guess i feel kinda stupid asking b/c i don't want to jump to conclusions over one fb wall post and then make things awkward if its not true.. i guess i'll wait to see if i find out anything else and take it from there.

many of them will also lead a double life while expecting you to be innocent all the while