Hmmmm...what would you guys do—?...

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kaykay1983
@kaykay1983
19 Years

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Ok so I met this Aries guy a few weeks ago..he finally asked me to go out for some drinks tonight..I said cool and we made plans to meet up a local restaurant/bar..I talked to him right when I got out the shower and we decided on a time and where we were going to meet...I finish getting ready and I was about to head out the door...when I get a call from him saying im sorry..I just got a call from my sister and she is sick..she just had a baby last week and she needs me to come over since her husband is out of town on bussiness..he apologizes and says he is upset that he cant meet me I say fine we will go out another night and we got off the phone..I was kind of upset since I was looking forward to our date..do you think this was his way of blowing me off to do something else—? or is he being legit I kind of felt like he was lying about his sister being sick but I couldnt really tell..should I give him another chance—? if he dose ask me out again or should I blow him off and if we do plan another date should i make it seem like I am REALLY busy for the next few weeks so he thinks I am not just sitting around waiting on him
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maia
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yeah, give him a chance...I totally second what boyfromutrecht says.
And unless he's a pathological liar, why would he go out of his way to call you for a date and invent such a serious excuse to get off of it right after. If he calls again and you're available, I would accept his invitation. Don't self-sabotage by being overly suspicious until he gives you proof that he is not to be trusted...as it should be with everyone else.