Ok so I met this Aries guy a few weeks ago..he finally asked me to go out for some drinks tonight..I said cool and we made plans to meet up a local restaurant/bar..I talked to him right when I got out the shower and we decided on a time and where we were going to meet...I finish getting ready and I was about to head out the door...when I get a call from him saying im sorry..I just got a call from my sister and she is sick..she just had a baby last week and she needs me to come over since her husband is out of town on bussiness..he apologizes and says he is upset that he cant meet me I say fine we will go out another night and we got off the phone..I was kind of upset since I was looking forward to our date..do you think this was his way of blowing me off to do something else—? or is he being legit I kind of felt like he was lying about his sister being sick but I couldnt really tell..should I give him another chance—? if he dose ask me out again or should I blow him off and if we do plan another date should i make it seem like I am REALLY busy for the next few weeks so he thinks I am not just sitting around waiting on him
Hmmmm...what would you guys do—?...

(I'm Aries male )
Give him another chance is what i would say, since you can't reveal if he is telling the truth about his siter or not.
Eventually you can find out if he was telling the truth. But then again, look out. Ariens don't like suspicious people.
good luck
Give him another chance is what i would say, since you can't reveal if he is telling the truth about his siter or not.
Eventually you can find out if he was telling the truth. But then again, look out. Ariens don't like suspicious people.
good luck
yeah, give him a chance...I totally second what boyfromutrecht says.
And unless he's a pathological liar, why would he go out of his way to call you for a date and invent such a serious excuse to get off of it right after. If he calls again and you're available, I would accept his invitation. Don't self-sabotage by being overly suspicious until he gives you proof that he is not to be trusted...as it should be with everyone else.
And unless he's a pathological liar, why would he go out of his way to call you for a date and invent such a serious excuse to get off of it right after. If he calls again and you're available, I would accept his invitation. Don't self-sabotage by being overly suspicious until he gives you proof that he is not to be trusted...as it should be with everyone else.
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