Older Aries Male/Younger Sag Female?

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by mauicountry on Friday, July 14, 2006 and has 11 replies.

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@mauicountry
20 Years

Aloha,

I am an Aries Male/36 and I have a crush on a Sag Female/20.
She is very mature for her age and I am young at heart.
I hear Sags are very compatible with Aries but would love some advice
on whether this would be worth pursuing.
It's a bit tricky since she is the sister of really great friends but my gut tells me she is interested in me as well.

Any advice, comments are appreciated.

Mahalo,

Mauicountry

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@sweethearts_1969
20 Years500+ Posts

Sag and Aries are compatible but, she is only 20, you can't even take her out for a drink. When I was twenty, I was definately not ready to settle down. If you are looking for some fun adventure then yes, go for it but, if you are looking for something serious then I wouldn't even try it. Also, you could mess up your friendship with your friends.

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@sexy sag
20 Years

hi i am a sag female 24 and i was in a long term relationship, 7 yrs, with an older aries man, when it was good it was really good but then things started going down hill fast.I have like many sag's a very strong personality and like to do what i like when i like, when my ex started asking where id been, who with, and basically getting jealous and paranoid i was quickly looking for the exit door, haha. Dont pin the girl down, let her come and go as she pleases and you should both be just fine oh and by the way the sex is great if you have'nt already, hahaha.

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@mauicountry
20 Years

aloha & mahalo for your valuable feedback.
I know there are more details to this story and you have read in to them correctly.
the sag is very intelligent, very mature. I understand about the independence because I also am the same way. I only wish to find someone that can keep up with me. My life is full of excitement and always on the go. What worries me is whether I should let her come to me or I should go to her and find out. Her brothers are great friends of mine and its a bit dodgy. Her mom is in the picture now, and she told me the other day that her daughter thinks the world of me, that she loves my independent and carefree attitude and exciting life style . This is her mom we are talking about. How am I suppose to take this. Her mom also hinted at her being my mother-in-law.....hmmm....don't get me thinking especially something like this full of obstacles......
more feedback, please.

aloha & mahalo,
mauicountry

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@sexy sag
20 Years

aloha mauicountry, ssag back again!! let her come to you, and she will hahaha my aries did they cant help falling for the care free attitude, but be carefull this relationship could go the distance without a doubt but are you ready for it? because if it all goes wrong her family are going to expect answers!! Also my aries took me for granted after a couple of years watch out for that 1 other than that not everyone is the same if you feel she is a like minded soul, then go for it and enjoy!!

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@mauicountry
20 Years

aloha Sexy Sag,
Great feedback but did u know I am an aries and she is a sag or did I read your message wrong. Anyways, I also feel she will come to me if and when I make myself available. And I will. And yes I am very ready for long term. And I have already learned my lessons in relationship do's and don'ts...this girl is so great, I will cherish for ever if it pans out. Please get back to me about whether you know that I am the aries and she is the sag becuz your comment, "let her come to you, and she will hahaha". i truely feel it.

Mahalo for the feedback.

Mauicountry

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@aries2006
19 Years

aries and sag is a second best pair...sag girl doesn't seem to stick longterm with aries but they will make good pair in the shortterm....best pair for aries guy is leo

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@Ezzyway1
14 Years

Haha I say go for it but don't be to aggressive or controlling let her b free and do what she likes we like older guys but shes still young mite not want sumtin serious but y can ask don't wait to long she will be over u and don't bore her of b clingy if u can do this u will be a happy man ;D