How can I get my fire back after Pisces has destroyed my self esteem?

I’ve never had any issues with any guy I’ve been involved with, I am a very like able person and no one has ever had any complaints about me and love my personality. I’ve been dating him for 2 and a half months. We work together. But in different areas. At first when we first met he was very charismatic, sweet, and helpful. Always wanting to text and talk to me. Very talkative which I like. A lot of men were trying to get with me, I get a lot of attention from me and he said he felt honored that I chose him cause he isn’t the most physically attractive guy around. I didn’t care about that, I loved his personality. We decided to be bf and gf and that’s when things changed. Sex was great, he’s very dominant in bed like a whole different personality but I didn’t mind cause I’m submissive in bed. But then after I agreed to be in a relationship with him he started to be controlling, and accusing me of wanting other men. Started not liking how much attention I got from men. Complained about personality traits that I have always had even when he met me. It’s like everything I do and say is wrong. He always makes assumptions and takes everything done personally. He even blames me for our boss having a crush on me and allowing me to take time off when I had a injury but when he got injured he made him still come to work and he’s been working here way longer than me. I can’t help that he gives me special treatment! I don’t flirt with him or anything. He said he can’t believe I’m the type of woman to accept that type of treatment, using my looks to get whatever I want when he can’t do that.

Because he complains about me a lot I tried breaking up with him multiple times and offered to remain just friends or just be cordial at work. And he always begged for me to stay professing his love. And when we have makeup sex or makeup he acts the same again. It’s like he’s sweet one day and the next wants to be away from me and barely talks to me but eBays mr to remain loyal. He barley gives me attention now. And whenever I try to tell him him I feel he just says I’m so negative and he only needs positivity and basically saying I have a terrible personality. Then had the audacity to be shocked and mad that I didn’t want to have sex after that, saying I take words too seriously. We got into a big fight last night. And I called him a asshole and left. I feel so hurt and emotionally drained. I don’t even have the high self esteem I use to have. He blamed me for everything and said I’m the one with issues. But still what’s to be with me. Now he acting like he doesn’t care. How should I act around him? To make him think twice about what he did or what he’s missing? Should I ignore him or be cordial and pretend to be unfazed. I don’t know how to recover from this. I use to be so confident and I am beautiful but I don’t feel like it. Everything he liked about me he complains about.

Girl pick yourself up and pay that man dust, ignore him so hard he thinks he’s invisible. Do not contact him or acknowledge him. Then work on healing yourself, he was emotionally abusive to you. I’m sorry you experienced that, he’s crazy. protect yourself.

You'll never be able to make him happy. He's insecure and has issues you can't solve. Break up and be happy.

you should have blocked him when he expressed his self-pity about not being attractive.

you block him and sort your life out. don't try to make him miss you. you already miss yourself, so go find her again.

*negging backfires

*surprise pikachu face

so many manipulation techniques and he couldn't even use a lovebomb

remember, always ghost a mouth runner

You just need to pick yourself and get your mojo back. Don't put all your eggs in one basket. Do what ever you usually used to do, spend time with friends, go to the gym.

Who knows what goes on in his head, who cares! Do you really want a guy who is so emotionally pathetic and sad? Learn from my experience, stay away from Pieces, just let them cry in their car in the parking lot, all by themselves.. that's usually what they do.

no bueno

people come and go whether you love them or hate them. it sounds like this one can easily go.