How important are Birthdays to you girls?

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Hi, so my GF's birthday is coming up on April 5. I was wondering how important are birthdays to you girls? Since she's overseas its kind of expensive for me to get her gifts and was wondering if Anniversaries are more important? However if Birthdays ARE SUPER important to you girls, I was thinking of getting her about 3 dozen roses/ 150 small roses and a cake? Is that enough or do I need to also get a present from Amazon.com or something? Thank you!
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Posted by MidasDelima
Hi, so my GF's birthday is coming up on April 5. I was wondering how important are birthdays to you girls? Since she's overseas its kind of expensive for me to get her gifts and was wondering if Anniversaries are more important? However if Birthdays ARE SUPER important to you girls, I was thinking of getting her about 3 dozen roses/ 150 small roses and a cake? Is that enough or do I need to also get a present from Amazon.com or something? Thank you!
This is in the US fyi.
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Posted by RamOfPeace
Uh, both are very important? Why choose just 1? If she's into you, she will remember your birthday and anniversary.
Haha you sold me with your response, ordered flowers and cakes for both occasion. Sorry we Taurus are known to be thrifty and I was kind of looking to cut a deal, like maybe just send flowers on the anniversary and cake on the birthday as to not be too much πŸ˜›
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Posted by RumiL
Show her this thread.

It will be a gift.

Personally, my birthday is just another day. I do feel special about it...but I don't like celebrating or making fuss.

Its just another occasion to feel happy.. Its very personal actually.. I just like being with parents..listen to songs...eat πŸ™‚
Awwwww, I kinda don't want her to know that I read/ believe in the horoscopes much, since she isn't very superstitious and likes to roll her eyes when I talk about it :S.
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Posted by RumiL
Show her this thread.

It will be a gift.

Personally, my birthday is just another day. I do feel special about it...but I don't like celebrating or making fuss.

Its just another occasion to feel happy.. Its very personal actually.. I just like being with parents..listen to songs...eat πŸ™‚
Awwwww, I kinda don't want her to know that I read/ believe in the horoscopes much, since she isn't very superstitious and likes to roll her eyes when I talk about it :S.
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You are a Taurus?? =D ..my best friend, an Aries is with Taurus! I think Taurus are good for us(besides Capricorn and Cancers)

Anyway πŸ™‚

Dont worryyy πŸ˜„ ..let her roll her eyes. I dont think it will affect her impression on you πŸ™‚

Its so nice you are thinking 1 month ahead for her birthday haha! ~ if she gets to know you are posting here like this - it will be the biggest gift for her!

Best wishes!

One can make Aries very easily happy! Dont think much =D any simple heartfelt gesture will do.. πŸ™‚
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Posted by RumiL
Posted by MidasDelima
Posted by RumiL
Show her this thread.

It will be a gift.

Personally, my birthday is just another day. I do feel special about it...but I don't like celebrating or making fuss.

Its just another occasion to feel happy.. Its very personal actually.. I just like being with parents..listen to songs...eat πŸ™‚
Awwwww, I kinda don't want her to know that I read/ believe in the horoscopes much, since she isn't very superstitious and likes to roll her eyes when I talk about it :S.
You are a Taurus?? =D ..my best friend, an Aries is with Taurus! I think Taurus are good for us(besides Capricorn and Cancers)

Anyway πŸ™‚

Dont worryyy πŸ˜„ ..let her roll her eyes. I dont think it will affect her impression on you πŸ™‚

Its so nice you are thinking 1 month ahead for her birthday haha! ~ if she gets to know you are posting here like this - it will be the biggest gift for her!

Best wishes!

One can make Aries very easily happy! Dont think much =D any simple heartfelt gesture will do.. πŸ™‚
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Hehehe thank you, its been working very well! I joked with her that a Taurus and Aries dating will be like having the bull and the ram lock horns and then be inevitably stuck with each other for better or worst. She liked the idea of being stuck with me, but hated the fact that we'll probably be arguing about everything while we're stuck.
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Posted by MidasDelima
Hi, so my GF's birthday is coming up on April 5. I was wondering how important are birthdays to you girls? Since she's overseas its kind of expensive for me to get her gifts and was wondering if Anniversaries are more important? However if Birthdays ARE SUPER important to you girls, I was thinking of getting her about 3 dozen roses/ 150 small roses and a cake? Is that enough or do I need to also get a present from Amazon.com or something? Thank you!
Aw you suck! If you like her you should feel like you want to be extra attentive, as oppose to "however if it's THAT important".. lmao!
Booo @ the Bull game. Just when I thought you peeps couldn't get more lazy! πŸ˜›


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Posted by MidasDelima
Hi, so my GF's birthday is coming up on April 5. I was wondering how important are birthdays to you girls? Since she's overseas its kind of expensive for me to get her gifts and was wondering if Anniversaries are more important? However if Birthdays ARE SUPER important to you girls, I was thinking of getting her about 3 dozen roses/ 150 small roses and a cake? Is that enough or do I need to also get a present from Amazon.com or something? Thank you!
Aw you suck! If you like her you should feel like you want to be extra attentive, as oppose to "however if it's THAT important".. lmao!
Booo @ the Bull game. Just when I thought you peeps couldn't get more lazy! πŸ˜›


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I ordered I ordered Enfant_Terrible!

Don't get mad at me and all the other "Lazy" Taurus guys, we always pull through and end up being super romantic, I promise!

for Anniversary

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Yellow to brighten up her house because its so cold now in the US!! Brrrrr...

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I chose the strawberry cheesecake from The Cheesecake Factory because I baked that for her ALL the time before LDR and I thought the colour scheme of the second flowers is so HER and Aries like, FIERY HOT SEXY.

Thank you so much girls for your input and comments, you really pushed me to give a full effort, because I know you girls are worth it! Hehehe and I owe her so much for pulling me out of my depression and back on track with my life, with her cheerful personality!! Thats why whenever she apologises for being stubborn, oblivious or too self-absorbed, I told her don't apologise because I like that very much (forces me to focus on how amazing she is, than waste time dwelling on insecurities or doubting myself). Love love love Aries women right now hehe... But yes you guys can be a handful and super childish sometimes T.T.
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Posted by xtina
Daaawww... How special is she to you? If she's very special buy her the roses and cake. Yes, we Aries are low maintenance but we find great satisfaction in being loved and appreciated πŸ™‚
Super special! But its so difficult to express my love and gratitude for you girls, since you girls are TOO SIMPLE? Hahaha its really hard to be sweet when poetry writing, sweet letters and grand gestures synonymous to the Taurus is brushed off... Sooo I've been focusing more on anticipating her needs i.e. subscribing her to her favourite magazine/ music streaming service.
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Posted by AriesIntrovert16
My birthday isn't that important to me. A small gift to show that it hasn't slipped your mind is fine.

I'm sure she'll love your presents - they're beautiful!
Ahhh, hmmm might I ask what Aries women generally finds most important? I mean I know you girls love guys who are practical and chivalrous, fortunately I am like that by default. What else can I do to be a better boyfriend for her? We're doing LDR sooo it kind of frustrates me on what kind of things I can do to express my love since she's very physical/ face-to-face kind of person and I'm trying my best to always be patient, excited, supportive and maintain connection... But need tips and help please!
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I thought it is quite important to Aries.

Try not giving any single gift. I bet she will remember you forever. Bad listed probably.

So at least give her something.

Beside roses, they like jewellery? Necklace, ear rings, yup, and diamond (can't afford for now).

I am even thinking about her birthday gift from February onwards.

She did hint about G-shock watch of a different colour but same pattern with the new G-shock she is wearing. Said for clothing matching but doesn't want to use her own money and so on. ..

Yet never tell me how did she get the new G-shock (her own money or a gift from any guy) --> important to me but not to her. (can ignore this anyway)

May I ask if I should buy her that for her birthday?

Will it be too late cause when she hinted, the feeling of her (want & needs are the same to Aries probably), I should have bought it?

Cause probably she doesn't want that anymore after few months later. (new trend is up and so on)

Any Aries here can share her opinion?
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Posted by Capricorn180189_GS
I thought it is quite important to Aries.

Try not giving any single gift. I bet she will remember you forever. Bad listed probably.

So at least give her something.

Beside roses, they like jewellery? Necklace, ear rings, yup, and diamond (can't afford for now).

I am even thinking about her birthday gift from February onwards.

She did hint about G-shock watch of a different colour but same pattern with the new G-shock she is wearing. Said for clothing matching but doesn't want to use her own money and so on. ..

Yet never tell me how did she get the new G-shock (her own money or a gift from any guy) --> important to me but not to her. (can ignore this anyway)

May I ask if I should buy her that for her birthday?

Will it be too late cause when she hinted, the feeling of her (want & needs are the same to Aries probably), I should have bought it?

Cause probably she doesn't want that anymore after few months later. (new trend is up and so on)

Any Aries here can share her opinion?
I think you might have to get closer/ know her better before buying gifts, because Aries aren't nearly as materialistic as Capricorn or Taurus women.
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Daaawww... How special is she to you? If she's very special buy her the roses and cake. Yes, we Aries are low maintenance but we find great satisfaction in being loved and appreciated πŸ™‚
Super special! But its so difficult to express my love and gratitude for you girls, since you girls are TOO SIMPLE? Hahaha its really hard to be sweet when poetry writing, sweet letters and grand gestures synonymous to the Taurus is brushed off... Sooo I've been focusing more on anticipating her needs i.e. subscribing her to her favourite magazine/ music streaming service.
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You know I don't know if she is the same as me but I have trouble expressing my feelings sometimes. But my Cancer ex (who is a Taurus moon, Mars, and Venus placements) sent me a huge box of goodies for Vday. Very romantic stuff like flowers, chocolates, wine, candles, movies, hand made card with his own poem of why I deserved each thing. Best thing I've ever gotten hands down. And I loved it so much. it meant so much to me and made me feel so special. I'm not one to gush in person but I did tell him it was the best thing I had ever gotten.

You don't have to go all out but anything to show you care would be much appreciated
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Posted by MidasDelima
Posted by xtina
Daaawww... How special is she to you? If she's very special buy her the roses and cake. Yes, we Aries are low maintenance but we find great satisfaction in being loved and appreciated πŸ™‚
Super special! But its so difficult to express my love and gratitude for you girls, since you girls are TOO SIMPLE? Hahaha its really hard to be sweet when poetry writing, sweet letters and grand gestures synonymous to the Taurus is brushed off... Sooo I've been focusing more on anticipating her needs i.e. subscribing her to her favourite magazine/ music streaming service.
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You know I don't know if she is the same as me but I have trouble expressing my feelings sometimes. But my Cancer ex (who is a Taurus moon, Mars, and Venus placements) sent me a huge box of goodies for Vday. Very romantic stuff like flowers, chocolates, wine, candles, movies, hand made card with his own poem of why I deserved each thing. Best thing I've ever gotten hands down. And I loved it so much. it meant so much to me and made me feel so special. I'm not one to gush in person but I did tell him it was the best thing I had ever gotten.

You don't have to go all out but anything to show you care would be much appreciated

"I'm not one to gush in person" < 😒 we Taurus's love instant gratification and the way your face lights up when we do something right hehehe. But so far I have no complaint, my GF has more than expressed her gratitude (not through words though) Aries women aren't very eloquent, but through smiling and general happier mood? but never gushing or blushing yet!
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Posted by RumiL
Show her this thread.

It will be a gift.

Personally, my birthday is just another day. I do feel special about it...but I don't like celebrating or making fuss.

Its just another occasion to feel happy.. Its very personal actually.. I just like being with parents..listen to songs...eat πŸ™‚
I took your advice πŸ™‚!
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OMG. You showed her this thread? : D

What did she say what did she say?