How patience is Aries girl?

Hey, I made a post on the Gemini place too, but thought I would see some opinions here. How patient is an Aries girl? My girl is Aries and my ex girlfriend who is a Gemini is trying to talk to me again. She sent my girl this facebook message saying I was just using her and wanted to marry her and all this bullshit. She believes me when I say this girl is a liar and a hoe, but I'm scared she will stop being patient if this girl keeps trying to get at me. She is classy and fun and we can talk about deep stuff. I feel like she understands me and wants me to succeed whereas my ex girl was all about getting her hair and her nails done and didn't give a shit about me or my goals. I don't want to lose my girl, so just wanted some opinions on how patient an Aries will be when her man's ex is trying to start shit.

ummmmm - not very to be quiet honest. We won't stand for the ex getting in the way, we won't stand for you not addressing the situation immediately with your ex and resolving the problem, i.e., getting rid of the problem. Be honest and upfront immediately with your Aries, in fact, you could just print out what you just posted and read it to her verbatim.

Hope this helps.

I have tried addressing the situation with my ex but she keeps escalating. It's like she wants me to get to the point where I beat the shit out of her and that's not the kind of man I am. I changed my cell once and somebody gave her the new one, I blocked her on my space and my facebook, I just erase her texts now and don't pick up her calls.

Me and my girl have talked about this but maybe we should talk again just to be on the safe side. I appreciate the advice, thank you.

I actually think you are doing quite well. She may not be patient, but she won't stand to be second in your eyes. As long as you can assure her that in a very sincere (actions) way...as you have been doing (blocking ex, changing cell, etc)...she will feel like you are moving in the right direction.

At the same time, she is a woman of open confrontation so she isn't likely to respect a guy who can't do the same. You have mentioned that you are not that type, so that is the only point of dissension. In the name of transparency, you have to help her understand who you are and what you aren't and are willing to do. Without addressing this issue openly...she will continue to confuse your non-confrontational style as weakness or indecision...together you should be able to talk it through

Thanks, that's a good idea to call her in front of my girl and tell her to fall back, tho on the Gemini board they say just cut her off because if I try to get in touch, she might take it as me wanting to get back together with her.

I called my girl at lunch to tell her I was thinking about her and she didn't pick up. 😢 I know she's busy, but it makes me feel some type of way. Thanks for the advice.

Depending on her maturity..... she is so gone!!!! Never put anyone in front of an Aries woman.

what is your sign tentwenty?

let the aries girl talk to her.....if you were my man and she kept bothering you I would get rid of her...believe me!

I agree with Xonsie... of course, she is my twin 😛.

We have little patience and if you're beating around the bush about this problem, it WILL make you look weak in her eyes. We Aries girls can't stand that, we want a partner that is our equal if not stronger. We want a man. But if you're not the confrontational type cutting the Gem off completely sounds like a good plan B. We will have more patience if you show her that you're a man that can handle this problem. God, I love manly men. I dated this Virguy once and he had the same problem with an ex and when she called once he would hang up and explain the story (short and simple). Sorry going off a tangent. The point is if you're honest about it there should be no problems, just don't dwell on it... than there might be some problems. Get it fixed, and quick! Good luck!

Hey, thanks, this is real good advice.

Dward, I'm a Scorpio, 10.29.82

It's funny you should mention me letting my girl talk to her because she suggested that once my ex tried to clown her on Facebook. She was just like "Yo, what's her address? I can have a talk with her woman to woman and get it straightened out." She said it wouldn't be drama, just two girls talking and maybe working stuff out, but I was like, nah, babe, then it might get even more out of hand because I don't trust this girl not to go off and have a knife or something. Maybe not that bad, but this girl was always talking about wanting to stick other girls and all that shit and I wasn't going to put my baby in harms way.

Jojo, I hope you're wrong. She actually just called me, she was having lunch with her girlfriends when I called her earlier, which she told me about yesterday. I'd just forgot about it, so that was kinda a relief right there, lol.

^^^^ ROFL! I love it!

TenTwentyNineEightyTwo

don't bother counting how many times she contacts you or you contact her...the core issue remains on how you are going to handle your ex. all this talk is just lip-service...it makes you look like someone who can't handle himself (not the man she envisions herself to be with)...and the longer you postpone confronting the ex...the more impatient she will be...until she just cuts you off.

if you are even entertaining the idea of having her talk to the gem directly, she will write you off as a wimp. she has no respect for wimps. she may take you up on the offer to talk to the gem, but that is just to satisfy her own ego...at that point your relationship is already dead in her eyes. she is a strong woman, she needs you to be a strong man.

OMG ... TenTwentyNineEightyTwo ... Make kicking ur ex to the curb a priority ...
in front of ur aries babygirl is an excellent idea ... but get it done !!!

Aries don't back track ... we don't come back !!!

Best of Luck !!!!!!!

Ha, umm I highly doubt and aries would put up with stupid shit like that..

^^^^ ROFLLL

Hahaha you write just like me. Is it an Aries trait to go off tangents and speak of their own experience? I notice I do that ALL the time.

Yous a hot-head coverdinscars. 😛

102982, hello!

From an aries female perspective with a very close Gemini gf... I know Gem's can be quite conniving when they have something to follow...

My brother had a virgo gf that was exactly as you describe... don't change your number as that won't help --- gemini, pisces, virgos are mutable signs that can get a lot of information they want from anyone...

I would ignore --- if you ignore, she'll get the message EVENTUALLY, geminis like attention, sooner or later, she'll get the message...

Worse comes to worse, threaten restraining order, let someone else deal with her... or do what cloversd says...

How patience is Aries girl?
is that a trick question?
aries female will be taking notes of how you're responding and judging based on that. If not sufficient, she'll lose patience, don't hide anything though, she'll know. You don't have to handle it the way she'll approve of, but you gotta handle it so that this Gem's gone...
By the way, she won't really be able to handle this for you, I have never known an Aries female to fight to keep a guy 🙂


Personally, I would just open a new interest group on facebook listing her as a crazy stalker 😉
I had a gemini guy stalker once 🙂 I thought he was funny! ignoring worked a little

As long as ur chic knows u got her back and are on her side ur good. Being an Aries she'll fight tooth and nail for you. And let the aries and gemini deal it ouT with eachother. No worries.