how to comfort aries man?

my ex is sun aries ,moon aries ,mercury taurus ,venus aries , mars virgo. he is rugby player and got injured and needs operation now. I was mad at him but when heard about his trouble contacted him. what can I do to comfort and help him in trouble. will he appreciate that I step on my pride and texted him?

My advice would be to leave it alone.

If you have to say something, write him a "get well soon" message on Facebook or something.

If you are my ex then no need.. I don't need the support of anyone.

If we are in a relationship you should, unless you want me to break your heart and mind when i am out of from bed.

Posted by Libra82

Posted by ariesdaredevil
If you are my ex then no need.. I don't need the support of anyone.

If we are in a relationship you should, unless you want me to break your heart and mind when i am out of from bed.

Lol spoken like a true aries. 😆

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Posted by ariesdaredevil
If you are my ex then no need.. I don't need the support of anyone.

If we are in a relationship you should, unless you want me to break your heart and mind when i am out of from bed.

What about close opposite sex friends? Should she comfort or stay away?

Posted by P10

Posted by ariesdaredevil
If you are my ex then no need.. I don't need the support of anyone.

If we are in a relationship you should, unless you want me to break your heart and mind when i am out of from bed.

What about close opposite sex friends? Should she comfort or stay away?

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If he respect you, if you are really close like you said, you can always goto him. But make it casual. There is no need to comfort. We can heal ourselves. But if you spend your valuable time for us, then we will respect you more.

And personally i don't have anyone "close" in my life. Everyone is just someone to me. But in relationship, I am too clingy and I need all the attention from her. Because i know i deserve it, because i treat her in "so well" , the way no one else can treat her ever. So, i expect more from her.

To me EXs are like a broken bank. Trust and respect is lost there. It is closed chapter.

Friends are like public bank. We respect their vision and what they are.

Lover is like our own bank. We own it. We run it and the bank should be there to help me when i am broke. Not just there, it should reach there first. I am like a toddler to her.

@ariesdaredevil Thank you! That was a really awesome explanation! 🙂

Posted by P10
@ariesdaredevil Thank you! That was a really awesome explanation! 🙂

Happy to help 🙂

I told him that he is best and everything will be fine soon.he said that he knew that I was angry so why I was telling him such things. And told me not to worry about him