@MeMeMe
14 Years
I was Hote204..hello again!
Did this help you understand your situation?
dxpnet has hosted real conversations like this since 2000. If you value independent communities, you can support the site below.
Every contribution helps keep dxpnet independent and ad-light.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →
Hello!
I was on here as Hote204 but i decided to delete my account and start again to get rid of all the past posts. The reason for this was there was a lot of stuff about my aquapath ex on there which was pretty damn awful. I have had a pretty awful time with him and if any of you remember reading my posts, i was really upset. I didnt want a reminder of it all.
I did go to counselling and he was pretty amazed at what had gone on. He confirmed what i thought, he is a danger to me and him self. so it has been an enlightinging few weeks and i just wanted to tell people that i did take their advice. blueribbons and tiki33 were a great help to me (and also doubted that i would do it). well i have!!
I havent heard from the aquapath for 2 weeks and all is calm. I am happy and even managed to force myself on a date. This reinforced that i am not ready for that (and he was boring) but im glad i went.
Im back on FB (aquapath is blocked) and i really do feel happy happy happy!
I did get a call from the girl that he was messaging/flirting/her trying to hook up with him saying she was sorry. she didnt know i existed (ha i was with him for 3 years) but i imagine she was just worried in case i told her husband.
But apart from that...smiling all the way!