In love with Aries man-help!

I need help all. I'm a gemini lady in love with an aries man who I've been friends with for about a year. He goes back and forth... he flirts and then backs away. We text all day long. We went out last night and it felt like I was with my soulmate. We talked for hours and couldn't keep our eyes off eachother. But, he hasn't made a move. What do I do? He listens to me, gives me advice, walked me home. I just want to grant and kiss him but know that's a major no no. Advice?

You've been friends for a year, but how long have you been romantically involved?

I guess you could just wait it out, or maybe ask him where your relationship is heading.

I guess we are not romantically involved yet. He's told people in the past that he liked me. New years we held hands and flirted big time. From what I know about Aries though, I should let him take the lead?

Yes, it would be advisable to let him put in the leg work needed. But, there's nothing wrong with outlining where you two stand. That way you won't be standing around waiting and wondering what if.

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
Yes, it would be advisable to let him put in the leg work needed. But, there's nothing wrong with outlining where you two stand. That way you won't be standing around waiting and wondering what if.

Agreed with what she advised and dont show him that you're too desperate and if he likes you then a single hint is enough for an aries

Posted by Ladyaqua
I can feel your pain. I'm an aqua that has been playing the push and pull game with an Aries man for years. I hated it at first but now it's actually amusing. I have a gem asc so I understand how your mind might go into overdrive... Do you know what his other signs are? Mine is an Aries sun/Virgo moon/Taurus Venus.. He moved as slow as molasses.
Once I stopped trying to push him along or take the lead, he ended up coming for me, but I ended up in a relationship with someone else -you snooze you lose right? Long story short, after a few years, he's pursuing me like crazy when I became single. Be a challenge and don't take his crap. He'll respect you and want you because you'll be unique compared to the women that throw themselves at him.

I like so much what you said , when you said you ended up in a relationship with other one =)) that is the best treatment for an Aries , really ! Then he will be like crazy after you ...

For the poster here, I can tell you that Aries don't make the move , you must take the initiative, so simple kiss him if you want. The reaction will not be bad from him . From my experience with Aries man, he was waiting this so much from me and he called me "his queen " and he was very submissive , but if you abuse him to much, in a way or other, he will need his space and a quarrel is inevitable with him at this point.