This might be long. So I'm a cancer women and I met this Aries man through a male ex co-worker who I'm friends with. I added him on facebook and he was happy I did and added my bestfriend as well. At the time my friend and I were heading over to the co-workers house and we invited Aries who was soo excited. I had told him we were going geocaching and building pillow forts. I also had asked for a ride on his motorcycle which he happily said yes. He invited everyone at the sleepover to go hiking and I in return invited him to go camping. He smiled and thanked me. Then I went hiking with him to day after. On the trail I fell and hit this rock because I didn't grab Aries' hand. And he pulled me up and thought he hurt me and I was like "no no. It's my fault." But as we were walking to me car he was like "you did pretty good most girls wouldn't do that. Your cool". And I'm like "its fun." Then we went back to my house and he fixed my computer. I was telling him about my friend's birthday which is the day after mine days and how she wanted me to go see her in Missouri and Aries' is like "we should road trip out there on my bike" and I'm like "yes! We should." He also mentioned how my friend should date his friend. When I showed him my room he complimented how he liked it and my house in general.And then I got a goodbye hug. I held out my arms and he hugged me and then said we'd find the caves tomorrow or next weekend when were free.The next day I jokingly text him that we should come keep my company at my school event even though it was almost over. He willingly came and asked lots of questions about the farm and horses. We then went are separate ways and he ended up coming back over with his friend my house to hang with me and my friend. We worked on decoding this puzzle which we couldn't do and gave up for the night. When they were all leaving I gestured for a hug and got one. The next day we all hungout again and this time we decoded the puzzle successfully. He again complimented my house and thanked me for helping decode. When all leaving this time he initiated the hug and only offered my friend a highfive. When texting him I was asking when he was done with classes and he said "Idk but I have to study for my test." I relied "haha true. Plus we've seen each other a lot." His reply "After Physics." Does this mean he's interested?
Is Aries man interested?
You have caught his eye. He is curious at this point in time. Just be you and see where it goes. No honesty = no Aries.
dont be clingy!!!
I love Aries Men! and I'm a cancer female myself. My hubby is an Aries with Venus Taurus 🙂 🙂. I agree with the above poster.. just be you. I honestly think Aries & Cancers make a good match. A lot of factors depend on both your charts too though.
Aries men are particular with who they choose to be with. Take it as a good sign that he thinks you're fun and cool to be around. When I ask my husband what he liked about me in the early stages of our "courtship", he always says "because you're a cool, fun chick to be around, down to do anything..." We were obviously friends in the beginning, but when I noticed he was interested in more as more than a friend, he became affectionate, protective, and just made it a point to "THRILL" me with his Aries ways... lol.
Aries men are particular with who they choose to be with. Take it as a good sign that he thinks you're fun and cool to be around. When I ask my husband what he liked about me in the early stages of our "courtship", he always says "because you're a cool, fun chick to be around, down to do anything..." We were obviously friends in the beginning, but when I noticed he was interested in more as more than a friend, he became affectionate, protective, and just made it a point to "THRILL" me with his Aries ways... lol.
I'm not sure how Aries like he acts. He's loyal for sure. And quite. He keeps himself busy on his surface. The interaction I've seen with girls and him is he's awkward, like he doesn't know what to do. My female got a little drunk. And when she's drunk she gets touchy. And so ran her hand all the way down Aries face and started petting his hair and trying to cuddle with him and he looked at me like OMG please help me now! So I coaxed her off him and he thanked me. He's not awkward with me though. Maybe I'm easy to talk to.
I'm pretty sure that was a turn off for him (what your friend did). Like I said, they're particular about who they choose as their partner. And they're certainly VERY loyal people. It's good he's comfortable with you if normally he is awkward around females. He may see you as "potential"... but of course, it's too soon to tell. the best thing to do is just be his friend, learn more about each other, and see where it goes!

everything everyone has said is true. One other thing with an Aries man that will win you brownie points, is to keep your mouth shut about what happens between the two of you. Don't tell everyone your business. Especially with people where it could possibly get back to him.
Aries likes to know that someone actually gets them, and understands them. It builds the trust. Definitely don't smoother him. Love him, and care for him. Be his friend (Which you are doing wonderfully at so far 😉 ) I'm honestly a huge fan of this sign. They are very intriguing people. VERY fun. Sagg's and Aries are my prince charmers! lol
Aries likes to know that someone actually gets them, and understands them. It builds the trust. Definitely don't smoother him. Love him, and care for him. Be his friend (Which you are doing wonderfully at so far 😉 ) I'm honestly a huge fan of this sign. They are very intriguing people. VERY fun. Sagg's and Aries are my prince charmers! lol
^^^ A very good point. For a bunch of "open" types, we can be surprisingly defensive about our privacy. Matter of fact, in more than one thread we Aries have told one another that we wear a "facade." The idea is that we tend to keep true selves hidden from the world. So:
1) If you get past the facade, then you know the real Aries
2) If you get past the facade, you must protect that trust. Don't be blabbing the "secrets" you find there all over the place.
1) If you get past the facade, then you know the real Aries
2) If you get past the facade, you must protect that trust. Don't be blabbing the "secrets" you find there all over the place.
^^^...our true selves..."
Sorry im new to this only found it tonight! Anyway,i'll say it all again, be very very careful. Im a cancerian and i know exactly what this could turn into. Listen very carefully to everything he says, just as hes listening very carefully to your every word. Do not send jokey texts to him and be very careful how you reply to his, he will hang on to your every word. Hes got his eyes on you. Only very recently i encountered and Arian who is exactly the same, nothing was too much trouble for him, so i know exactly what this could be. Hes complimented you on your house, thats typical, be very careful what he offers to do for you; initially he will be of great help to you, however, these seemingly simple friendly gestures are only stepping stones for his own benefit in the long run not yours. Be very careful what you say to him. Be direct and do not make a joke too much. Its hard for a cancerian to be this way, but believe me, if you are not headstrong and if you let him in too much, he will have your head in circles. Be careful.
you told him you added him on your facebook that will please him very much, now he feels a realy important part of your life. Be careful. Be direct, however, if you say something that he doesnt like the sound of when your being direct, his body language may change; he'll prob walk about back and forth not knowing what the hell to do with what you've just said, even though they like the direct attitude, if they dont like what you have just said, they will tell you and they wont like you for it, and the response will prob be something like, hmm, i carnt believe you just said that, hmm, i dont know what to say or think about that. The one of many alarm bells. They love the easy life and do not like complications.
Pink Libra, oh my god yes!!!!! Do you know this is getting scary.
OMG!! DO YOU KNOW THIS SITE IS SUCH A MASSIVE RELIEF TO ME IM SO GLAD I FOUND IT. I TYPED IN WHY ARE ARIENS SO SELFISH AND LOOK WHAT I FOUND. SO ITS NOT ME GOING LOOPY, AND I AM RIGHT!!! I CAME TO ALL THESE CONCLUSIONS MYSELF BEFORE I FOUND THIS, AND HERE THEY ALL ARE IN BLACK N WHITE!
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