Is it hard for you to express your....

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Firegurl on Wednesday, October 20, 2010 and has 12 replies.

Why It Can Be Difficult to Express Emotions in Relationships

Many people find it challenging to verbalize feelings like love due to fear of vulnerability or discomfort. Astrology suggests that signs like Aquarius may struggle with expressing emotions openly, preferring actions over words. Understanding your zodiac traits can help you navigate emotional expression more comfortably.

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@Firegurl
16 Years

emotions and to say the "L" word?? It is EXTREMELY hard for me. I just can't say the "L" word unless my guy says it 1st. My Aqua man says he feels that i just repeat the "L" word after he says it? Which is NOT true....I just feel awkward & weird saying it. I can't explain it. It feels unnatural and I feel like pulling my hair out!

I feel if I'm with you it's OBVIOUSLY because I

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@AA
15 Years5,000+ Posts

i could understand those couples who constantly say i love you all the time and damand their partner to say it, and if they don't they get all upset? it's just stupid and pointless. anyone can say i love you surely

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@Firegurl
16 Years

I secretly wish I could be like other girls. But I was born this way and there's nothing I can do about it. I hate being misunderstood. And why do HUMANS need to hear that they are loved?? I say humans because I sometimes feel like a martian or something. I pray that one day I will find a man who says babe, I know u love me u don't even need to say it becuz I know?

Also do you guys show u love some1 by giving them mind blowing sex?? I think that's the only way I can express my feelings for my partner physically. I know that for some this is not not enough but, it is what it is for this Aries.

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@Xfactor
15 YearsAries

Posted by AA
do you reckon us being aries we show it better than saying it?

I think so. Sometimes when someone says the —L?? word to quickly I don't think they mean it. In fact I know they don't.

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@heroic_guy
16 Years500+ PostsAries

Hot and fast, then low on steam for whatever reason, is a difficult life to maintain a relationship with someone. I for sure enjoy an engaging love relationship where it is more dynamic than saying I love you back and forth and go back to the couch.

Sex for sure is where we all shine at showing we care, I mean, mind-blowing sex is quite a gift of love hehe.

As far as saying the L word is difficult on account of how we size up the relationships in our life constantly. Or maybe that is just me.

I like how AA said that we might be better at showing it than saying it. And I guess when it comes to when we do say the L word we have come to a point from our romantic heart and the summation of what we have shared with that person to say it with meaning.

I have said it too fast before, and then when I did the quick rebound thing, I for sure felt like a classic Arian love-em-then-move-on-quickly kinda person (but I think that is cuz we can be uncomfortable out of love).

I wouldn't focus on anything we don't feel comfortable about ourselves, we for sure have to find solace in how we operate well in this world rather than get down on ourselves.

We definitely should be humble and know our faults but I hope you understand not being able to say the L word as quick as another person isn't a bad thing.

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@Firegurl
16 Years

I sometimes feel I am DOOMED to be alone!!!! And I am such a good person I really am. I'm just not affectionate. I can't be all lovey dovey. = (

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@ellishamaria
13 Years

Firegurl,
We r same. It is hard for me to say ILOVU,but i miss u is much easier.
May be the way my parents upbringing had shaped me like this.
But we can learn to better ourselves.
I am sagie, so we r fire sign.

No, yo will not be alone. Your soulmate is somewhere in d corner...hehehe...

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@Ariess
14 YearsAries

I switch all the time. Sometimes I'm all hey... Guy frrrrriend. Yeah. Um, high five bud. Lets wrestle and drink beers. Chest pound.

To ... Me wrapping around him, kissing, staring into each others eyes until cartoon hearts float around our bodies. It's really sickening haha.

Sometimes I'm my Aries sun and others, my Cancer moon.