mr. ram is blowing my mind!

oh my gosh! i met him about 3 weeks ago, i've only hung out with the guy once, we IM each other a little every now and then, and just last night he asked me if i wanna go to a KISS concert! he told me that the tix are $ 140 a pop (insane!) but he only agreed to buy one if he could get an extra one for free. so, if the cost was split, the ticket he's giving me cost him $ 70!

the crazy thing is that neither he nor i are huge KISS fans. he seriously wants to go for shits and giggles. he figured it would be one of those moments that we probably wouldn't have again being as the band members are pretty well aged. it's more or less like he wants to go purely for novelty purposes... which i think is even more awesome!

i'm still shocked that he asked me of all ppl. he knows so many more than i do. i'm not about to look a gift horse in the mouth, and i'm certainly not complaining, but i still can't comprehend it. if it were me i probably would have asked my closest friends first. i even made a sarcastic comment stating that no one else would go with him and he said that he didn't ask anyone else. wow!

is this really how fast aries work? i keep hearing things about them diving right in but it still took him a few weeks to really get moving. he's had my number the whole time and has never once called or texted. i thought it was just one of those many times where u meet someone one night, u hang out the entire time, then u go ur separate ways at the end and probably never see or talk to each other again. craziness!

I think this Aries digs you, congrats!

I mean he asked you to a concert for KISS, and he didn't ask anyone else, pretty cool.

I'm kind of jealous 😛.

Lucky duck, well, I hope you have fun and definitely keep us updated on this guy, it's sounds like you guys will have lots of fun together.


BTW, waiting to post your big "Voted Aries Favorite Leo" thread after the weekend. The weekend doesn't get as much hits as the weekday, and I want everyone to see it. 😄

yes, aries move fast.......... sometimes we are hard to keep up with, especially when we are excited about something/someone. In my experience, it has been my undoing............ I'm alot more cautious now. Figure who taught me that one!!!!

"is this really how fast aries work? i keep hearing things about them diving right in but it still took him a few weeks to really get moving. he's had my number the whole time and has never once called or texted. i thought it was just one of those many times where u meet someone one night, u hang out the entire time, then u go ur separate ways at the end and probably never see or talk to each other again. craziness!"

Ah yeah! When we are really interested. He chose you because he likes you. It's funny, one day we just kind of decide this and go for it. So, it doesn't surprise me that he's never called or texted. I say roll with it!

Awesome! Just remember to hold onto the cookie a long a possable!

OMG did i just say that? *blush* LOL

post concert update: i'm NOT going to pursue this any further 😢

mind u, it wasn't supposed to be a date. we were in a group setting of friends and i had only met the guy once. he kept grabbing at me and tried to kiss me twice! he also seemed to get jealous very easily. he wanted me to constantly stand next to him and smother him. he was definitely smothering me. jeez, even if i started to talk to one of the guys in the group he would become noticeably irked.

what was the scariest moment for me? ok... so we were all walking to the arena. it was a bit chilly outside and i happened to mention that my fingers were a little cold. he was walking next to me at the time. he then grabbed my hands, clasped them together, then stuck them inside his sleeve. it was an awfully sweet gesture but he continued to make us walk like that even after i protested. his best friend (who is female) turned around and commented on us walking like that. she said something along the lines of a wedding march... i dunno, she said something about us getting married. u know what he said? he said,"oh no, we're not there yet."

YET?! i really wish he hadn't responded with that. neither my mind, nor heart, is even remotely close to thinking along those lines with him. this same friend (she was really drunk most of the night) also put her foot in her mouth after the concert when we were at a resaturant. she started making rounds asking all of us how we were getting home. when she looked at aries and me she automatically claimed,"oh, we don't have to worry about u, ur spending the night at aries's place." i couldn't help but immediately start laughing and shot that comment down. i tried to think fast to help him save face by turning the tables around on her. basically, i thought my burst of laughter might offend him some so i made it seem like i was mostly laughing at the fact that she was trying to make an awkward moment for us. unfortunately it didn't work. a few of them got up to smoke outside and he became obviously stand-offish. even when they came back in to sit down that girl commented on the scowl on his face and asked him if he was ok. he claimed to just be "out of it", which i'm sure was partly true, but it didn't happen until after my outburst.

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Why do men have to ruin EVERYTHING!!!?? Not really, but damn! He sounds like a nob.
He sounds like a young-minded Aries. I would stay away from that mess.

all in all it was just too much. there were too many grandiose expectations from him. for the love of it all he even played music all the way back to my place that was obviously directed towards our situation. one song was about this guy talking about, kinda like giving himself a pep talk, trying to keep his cool over a girl he really liked who was always on his mind. aries even mentioned once, after i asked him if he was ok, that he was overanalyzing things. so i tried to probe his mind to see if he'd like to talk anything out but he just looked away and avoided the question.

i don't get it... i'm trying some of these guys out for size and it seems more and more apparent that the men within my age group and older (late 20's-early 30's) are coming off as almost immature emotionally. i'm thinking i'd rather stick with my taurus man, who is a few years younger than me, but is WAY more of a man and is stable in all sense of the word. everything just flows so naturally with him and it's nice.

btw, i'm not ragging on the aries species. the aforementioned ram is really a great guy and is sweet as hell! he's just not for me.

I'm not surprised you are finding this with these men...sounds like Taurus may be your best bet. What happened with him?

Oh, I know...you are fine. He would not be for me either! But, I can't do the Aries/Aries thing again...nightmare!

Posted by ramfishtwins
I'm not surprised you are finding this with these men...sounds like Taurus may be your best bet. What happened with him?

Oh, I know...you are fine. He would not be for me either! But, I can't do the Aries/Aries thing again...nightmare!

oh my taurus man! funny u bring him up cuz i was just gonna post something on the taurus board...

well well, m'dear, it seems that my taurus was feeling a lot more toward me than he let on! just this past saturday he was insinuating an upgrade in our status! i don't even know what to think about it. i'm elated but i'm not conclusive on what my action will be at this point. he is not one to verbally express his feelings but he told me that i was "so beautiful on the inside". that is HUGE for him!

he asked me to attend a party with him. it was a themed party of "heroes and villains". well, i didn't have a costume lying around for that so i just threw on this old home-coming dress i had in storage. i was gonna tell ppl that i was some seductress villain and make up a name 😛 when i arrived i texted him that i was outside changing (out of sneakers and into heels is all). i was sitting on the bottom of the stairwell when he came outside to meet me. i looked up and he was donning a full on tux. i was captivated... and a little taken aback. we didn't know how the other was gonna dress and we both ended up in really formal attire! talk about being in sync, eh?

we walked back to his car so i could throw my bag in. as i turned around to head back to the house he grabbed me and pulled me into a passionate kiss. he asked if i wanted to just go back to his place but instead i laughed and he agreed we should go inside.

we were pretty much alone together in a house full of ppl. he didn't seem interested in mingling. he wanted to sit and talk with me in the lounge area in the basement. he said that he wanted to make it official. by that he meant he wanted me to bear a mark that would resemble me being "his". so his possessive taurean side finally rears its head! of course, being the more eccentric person that he is, he asked me to get my nipple pierced. think of it as an unconventional promise ring. i'm down with the whole thing cuz i'm just as weird. i didn't give him a straight answer though. i was too in awe of the whole situation. he told me that he dropped the other 2 girls he was seeing for me. what's funny is t

grrr, mehates it when it gets cut off like that!

anyway... what's funny is that one of his friends at the party asked him if i was his gf. i didn't know how to answer it appropriately so instead i just giggled, stammered, and looked away. he immediately piped up,"we're working on it." wow!

stay tuned for more!

Aaaawwww..... me jealous.

You have a lot of romantic stories don't you. 🙂 I want to hear 🙂.

I always find that Leos tell the most interesting stories. I become the child with their chins resting on their hands and with my big goo-goo eyes staring up I'm always like "More!!" LOL.



As for the Aries men, they're overrated anyway, except for OVi of course 🙂. He's kind of cool 😛.

Posted by xtina
Aaaawwww..... me jealous.

You have a lot of romantic stories don't you. 🙂 I want to hear 🙂.

I always find that Leos tell the most interesting stories. I become the child with their chins resting on their hands and with my big goo-goo eyes staring up I'm always like "More!!" LOL.



As for the Aries men, they're overrated anyway, except for OVi of course 🙂. He's kind of cool 😛.

interestingly enough... i kinda do! i haven't even had many relationships but i do have some pretty heavy tales to tell in regards to the men in my life. don't even get me started on my tale with a cap man. i'm actually writing a screenplay about it. it was THAT significant!

trust me, there is nothing to be jealous of. just because i have stories doesn't mean it was all full of whimsy and unicorns... not all the time anyway 😉

"he is not one to verbally express his feelings but he told me that i was "so beautiful on the inside". that is HUGE for him!"

Ah yeah!! Take it and run with it. My bull has such trouble with "showing" his love so this is really great to hear (read)!! I'm so excited for you. I do love your stories...like I get to live vicariously through you 🙂

oh u aries are the sweetest! if my stories appeal to u that much i will make sure to post them along the way. i'll even post some of my old ones when i think of them. i know that stories are good way to escape the hum-drum of life and i love to write anyway. it's always a pleasure to tell those who are enthusiastic! i tend to withhold because i don't wanna come off sounding self-absorbed or boastful. i genuinely like to listen to others' tales as well 😛