Unintentional flirting

Hey all you Aries...
Do you ever find that you are just being your ever-loving friendly engaging Aries self, but people take it as flirting? I don't think I'm trying to flirt, but my personality just comes off that way. I thrive off personal connections and humor. I love friendly people who have great conversation, but that doesn't always mean I want to eff you!

Any others run into this?

aries woman are just naturally attractive.....and some do take it the wrong way.

Sometimes I just my nice little bubbly self..and people just naturally love me...my gem cant stand it though

but it is what it is....I just want to be happy and want everyone elses to be happy 🙂

Posted by DewDrops
Even if you are flirting, if the other party understands that you dont mean anything serious by it, then it should be OK. The problem occurs I think when you dont make it clear that it isn't anything serious. Or complain that someone doesn't take you seriously.

Yes, but I think some men tend to think "oh, she wants me!" and I'm just being friendly. So, how would they understand the difference. I think this is where the problem lies. I'm not sure how to make that clear without being mean.

Posted by ariessun
^^hey juan...
that's because you probably don't even realize it...i never did, until it was pointed out to me again, and again, and again...it just comes naturally. and i don't consider it flirting at all either. it is what it is...

Makes sense AS...I'm not trying to get into your pants, I'm just being my fabulous self!

I know...it's ridiculous!

What's your moon Juan?

Posted by ariessun
juan strange thing is...i have ZERO problem unleashing the filthy temper in regards to emotions..it's the soft, gooey stuff i gots problems with...

Wow AS...me too!

Posted by ariessun
i hear ya rft...sux doesn't it. when ex scorp asked me if i loved him...i had that "deer caught in the headlights" look...((sighs)) and ya know what i was thinking.."god please ANYTHING but this right now...me no want to have serious talk about ((gulp gulp)) FEELINGS..."

God, I would love to know why we have issues with that. We are so forth coming you'd think it would come naturally. I don't have an issue with bringing up major stuff to others, but when they come at me...my walls are 4 feet thick!

Posted by Juan Moore-Beer2
i don't have the soft, gooey stuff! 😄 [gem moon, cap asc., taurus mars & venus.]

Ah...I'm Gem moon too!! It's difficult to allow the soft gooey stuff. It feels very odd to me!

"i have no idea how to react to people who cry in my presence whether it's in private or public."

I think Aries in general have issues with this. I had a guy cry to me once and I felt so bad cause I really didn't know what to say or do. I just sat there like a dumbass.
Thank god my Taurus husband pretty much never cries. When he does, I'm like shit...now what—!! LOL!

Same with me Dew...I'd trade my Gem moon for just about anything!

Yeah, All the time LOL
if i like someone is just comes out naturally so its not intentional in that way either. alot of the time it seems my other aries mate is flirting but she's really not. just really open, no shame ha, i love it! But i do have a habit of flirting with girls the same way i would with a guy without notice :S idk.

Did I run into this?
All the time, my fellow Arians, all the f**king time....

Feels good to know I'm not alone on this one!

Guilty as charged here!

That's when I run into the problem of guys liking me and thinking I like them 😛... but if unintentionally flirting justifies as means to liking someone than I guess I'm a lesbo 😄.