Posted by LillyBlossom
I didn't go into work today despite my manager calling me, leaving me a message, and also texting me. Why? Because I fell I'll the day before yesterday and got a lecture text about how she was going to write me up. No "I hope you feel better" or anything despite giving her notice. So, I made up my mind I wasn't going today not thinking (or caring) about the consequence. She once called me uncompromising, and she is wrong. As long as you approach me logically and fair, I WILL do my best to work with you as long as it's what I wish to do.
My virgo loved my stubbornness but I think it also frustrated him at times. Wanting to be good to him, I tried to be less stubborn, and I ended up leaning to far in either direction without balance. I then became frustrated because I felt I wasn't being true to myself, and he became frustrated because he wanted me to be true to myself. The art of compromise is truly an art that I haven't quite mastered yet.
Good question. I wonder if we'll find am answer.
Posted by sixshadesofhell
I also get "stubborn" with people who think they could control or lead me through pushiness and fake dominance (when in truth it is just condescension and manipulation).
Posted by biosynthesisPosted by LillyBlossom
I didn't go into work today despite my manager calling me, leaving me a message, and also texting me. Why? Because I fell I'll the day before yesterday and got a lecture text about how she was going to write me up. No "I hope you feel better" or anything despite giving her notice. So, I made up my mind I wasn't going today not thinking (or caring) about the consequence. She once called me uncompromising, and she is wrong. As long as you approach me logically and fair, I WILL do my best to work with you as long as it's what I wish to do.
My virgo loved my stubbornness but I think it also frustrated him at times. Wanting to be good to him, I tried to be less stubborn, and I ended up leaning to far in either direction without balance. I then became frustrated because I felt I wasn't being true to myself, and he became frustrated because he wanted me to be true to myself. The art of compromise is truly an art that I haven't quite mastered yet.
Good question. I wonder if we'll find am answer.
Our type of stubborn is different than other signs I notice...like we irritate people. I think when we're calm, we're the most stubborn. It's a weird phenomenon...click to expand
Posted by biosynthesisPosted by sixshadesofhell
I also get "stubborn" with people who think they could control or lead me through pushiness and fake dominance (when in truth it is just condescension and manipulation).
omg THIS. Yes, it irks me when ppl think just because we have a "youthful" spirit that we can be pushed around and you can be condescending towards me. I hate that shitclick to expand
Posted by VenusAquarius
I'm not stubborn. No one has ever used that adjective to describe me. I'm a mutable dominant Aries; one fixed placement.
However, I've recently discovered my assistant is an Aries. She actually asked me my sign and then told me she is an Aries too.
She is stubborn.
I believe she is a little older than me. She is highly professional and polished.
Posted by Damnata
^Brought the action/reaction angle because it factors a lot into stubborness.
Now prove you're not stubborn fuckers and head my wisdom!
Posted by AL4813
stubborn indeed but the good thing is not as stubborn as a fixed sign
Posted by Gobshite
Hard headed nature... Could I test that out with a hammer?
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