Querstion about aries

So After i told my aries ex we cannot be friends anymore, she tried to msg me couple of times but i ignored as i was clear i cannot be friends with my exs, she was always used to me to come back and always reply but this time, i am doing the total opposite, I received a big degree last week and everyone congratulated including her sister except her...what is weird is that since last week she started to show up at places i go to a lot recently she started to become nice to my sister who she disliked before and whenever she see her she kiss her and hug her, even send her msgs about stuff and add her on instagram on the spot and was even dancing with her that night at that club....whenever i see her though, i totally ignore her, no hi no bye, no even eye contacts but i am sure she is looking at me all the time....that night at the club, my friend was there waiting for me, she asked him about me, and he told her that am coming....another incident that night at the club when my friend was kidding and told her about a girl that she is my friend, she gave her dirty looks....she goes out with a new group of people these days and there is a guy who she is with recently a lot but i am not even sure if she is into him or not because one day i see her sitting next to him and the other i see her sitting infront of him....whenever i look at her though she seem sad as not happy or pretending to be smiling or whatever or most of the time on the phone, and she still look who i am sitting with and all the girls around me and stuff...

can anyone explains what is going on?

I would say she just showing you there is no hard feelings between you to. She may still care but will continue to live her life as though nothing happened.

Posted by kingo
So After i told my aries ex we cannot be friends anymore, she tried to msg me couple of times but i ignored as i was clear i cannot be friends with my exs, she was always used to me to come back and always reply but this time, i am doing the total opposite, I received a big degree last week and everyone congratulated including her sister except her...what is weird is that since last week she started to show up at places i go to a lot recently she started to become nice to my sister who she disliked before and whenever she see her she kiss her and hug her, even send her msgs about stuff and add her on instagram on the spot and was even dancing with her that night at that club....whenever i see her though, i totally ignore her, no hi no bye, no even eye contacts but i am sure she is looking at me all the time....that night at the club, my friend was there waiting for me, she asked him about me, and he told her that am coming....another incident that night at the club when my friend was kidding and told her about a girl that she is my friend, she gave her dirty looks....she goes out with a new group of people these days and there is a guy who she is with recently a lot but i am not even sure if she is into him or not because one day i see her sitting next to him and the other i see her sitting infront of him....whenever i look at her though she seem sad as not happy or pretending to be smiling or whatever or most of the time on the phone, and she still look who i am sitting with and all the girls around me and stuff...

can anyone explains what is going on?

WHY DO YOU CARE? Sounds like you want a reaction. She looks sad?!?! and you want it to be because of you? You sound immature, move on like you said you would.

For breaking up with her, and swearing you cannot be friends with exes, you sure are interested to see if she's still interested.

She's just trying to remain friendly, it seems. She could be struggling with the post break up emotions, but is doing her best to keep things "normal" between you two.

I had to do something similar after my ex and I split. I let time go by afterward, and then tried a few times to keep in touch just to say hi. He acted a fool, so I left him alone and left it at just when we'd see eachother around.

I'm sure the idiot thought I was trying to get back with him or whatever, but I was just trying to keep things friendly and smooth. At the time, I wouldn't have minded being friends eventually, and two, we have a lot of mutual friends, so I was trying to keep things smooth for the sake of things not being awkward in group settings.

He just acted like an obvious idiot and proceeded to make things awkward for everyone. Seems like you are, too.

If you cannot be friends, fine. But you should be able to at least be cordial. Ignoring her and being outright rude just shows how immature you are. There is nothing wrong with saying hi, bye, and being civil. You're making a bigger deal about the post break up than she is, it seems.

Posted by kingo
So After i told my aries ex we cannot be friends anymore, she tried to msg me couple of times but i ignored as i was clear i cannot be friends with my exs, she was always used to me to come back and always reply but this time, i am doing the total opposite, I received a big degree last week and everyone congratulated including her sister except her...what is weird is that since last week she started to show up at places i go to a lot recently she started to become nice to my sister who she disliked before and whenever she see her she kiss her and hug her, even send her msgs about stuff and add her on instagram on the spot and was even dancing with her that night at that club....whenever i see her though, i totally ignore her, no hi no bye, no even eye contacts but i am sure she is looking at me all the time....that night at the club, my friend was there waiting for me, she asked him about me, and he told her that am coming....another incident that night at the club when my friend was kidding and told her about a girl that she is my friend, she gave her dirty looks....she goes out with a new group of people these days and there is a guy who she is with recently a lot but i am not even sure if she is into him or not because one day i see her sitting next to him and the other i see her sitting infront of him....whenever i look at her though she seem sad as not happy or pretending to be smiling or whatever or most of the time on the phone, and she still look who i am sitting with and all the girls around me and stuff...

can anyone explains what is going on?

Jesus, Kingo....you're asking this? Really—??

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by kingo
So After i told my aries ex we cannot be friends anymore, she tried to msg me couple of times but i ignored as i was clear i cannot be friends with my exs, she was always used to me to come back and always reply but this time, i am doing the total opposite, I received a big degree last week and everyone congratulated including her sister except her...what is weird is that since last week she started to show up at places i go to a lot recently she started to become nice to my sister who she disliked before and whenever she see her she kiss her and hug her, even send her msgs about stuff and add her on instagram on the spot and was even dancing with her that night at that club....whenever i see her though, i totally ignore her, no hi no bye, no even eye contacts but i am sure she is looking at me all the time....that night at the club, my friend was there waiting for me, she asked him about me, and he told her that am coming....another incident that night at the club when my friend was kidding and told her about a girl that she is my friend, she gave her dirty looks....she goes out with a new group of people these days and there is a guy who she is with recently a lot but i am not even sure if she is into him or not because one day i see her sitting next to him and the other i see her sitting infront of him....whenever i look at her though she seem sad as not happy or pretending to be smiling or whatever or most of the time on the phone, and she still look who i am sitting with and all the girls around me and stuff...

can anyone explains what is going on?

WHY DO YOU CARE? Sounds like you want a reaction. She looks sad?!?! and you want it to be because of you? You sound immature, move on like you said you would.

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^ Spoken like a true sun Aries... Though the rest :/