I am a completely reformed cheater! My boyfriend has been on the east coast for almost 8 months. In that time, I have only thought of him! I have turned down any dates and wear a ring on my finger to discourage anyone from even asking. My previous relationship lasted for three years, and I never cheated on him either, even though he cheated on me! I had cheated on the boyfriend before that, and he moved out the day he found out! So that was my lesson learned! Don't cheat. Just break up. Then you're free to do whatever you want!