mzkhaylin
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Reunited with an Aries man
I'm an Aries man.
Personally, I hate being ignored or given the cold shoulder, and if It happens to me, i'll chase the other person until they give in. It is during this time that I show my true care and emotion. Once I get the girl, and she starts showing high amounts of care and emotion to me, I still care highly for her, but because I don't have to fight for her anymore, I become complacent and ease off the accelerator in terms of effort and conveyed passion since i believe that i "won" the battle.
Note that even when i ease off, i still care deeply for her, but as an Aries I tend to expect her to make more of an effort since I'm the one that initiated everything and expect the same to be given back to me.
Giving an Aries space can go one of two ways; they either will run back to you and act crazy in love to get you back to what it was like before, or (if its a long enough time span) they will quickly move on and forget about you either by them thinking that you don't care, or that they think they need to move on.
Personally as an Aries, I like being chased, but not too much. If it becomes too much i'll lose interest because i think they're needy. In all honesty, I like resolving everything on the spot rather than letting something drag on. Call him and talk to him, otherwise you're both sending each other the wrong messages by acting this way.
Hope this helps.
Personally, I hate being ignored or given the cold shoulder, and if It happens to me, i'll chase the other person until they give in. It is during this time that I show my true care and emotion. Once I get the girl, and she starts showing high amounts of care and emotion to me, I still care highly for her, but because I don't have to fight for her anymore, I become complacent and ease off the accelerator in terms of effort and conveyed passion since i believe that i "won" the battle.
Note that even when i ease off, i still care deeply for her, but as an Aries I tend to expect her to make more of an effort since I'm the one that initiated everything and expect the same to be given back to me.
Giving an Aries space can go one of two ways; they either will run back to you and act crazy in love to get you back to what it was like before, or (if its a long enough time span) they will quickly move on and forget about you either by them thinking that you don't care, or that they think they need to move on.
Personally as an Aries, I like being chased, but not too much. If it becomes too much i'll lose interest because i think they're needy. In all honesty, I like resolving everything on the spot rather than letting something drag on. Call him and talk to him, otherwise you're both sending each other the wrong messages by acting this way.
Hope this helps.
Which sign are you, maybe relevant?
I think if you weren't texting everyday before then that might not change, if he won you over by not texting everyday then he will stick to the routine, because he'll think you're comfortable with it, doesn't want to push too hard. But you can adopt the same mentality, if it worked before, maybe you don't need to do anything different, what did you do before?
Did he arrange another meetup, or did he indicate another meetup at the end of the first date?
I think what you're doing is fine for now, he may be busy. Aries like to be the ones to ask the lady out, it's the man's role to do that, he needs to work for you. You need to decide how interested he actually is. So wait and see how much work he does to get you now, when will he ask you out? And by the weekend, if he hasn't done anything, and you are interested, then be as honest as hell and ask him why the eff didn't he message you. And be annoyed/angry about it, it shows you were interested but he hasn't done anything about it. Be strong and be hard, like fire, come down hard. This will be a challenge to him, and make him feel he missed something. Think about that scene in goodfellas, where he stands up the lady, and he's with his mates, isn't that interested. Then she comes fighting upset and tells him he should have never done that and how dare him do that. He sees her fire and he's in love with her. Think that. Let him do his guy thing. So I think wait and see what happens, if nothing happens by weekend then you have that option to tell him wtf.
I think if you weren't texting everyday before then that might not change, if he won you over by not texting everyday then he will stick to the routine, because he'll think you're comfortable with it, doesn't want to push too hard. But you can adopt the same mentality, if it worked before, maybe you don't need to do anything different, what did you do before?
Did he arrange another meetup, or did he indicate another meetup at the end of the first date?
I think what you're doing is fine for now, he may be busy. Aries like to be the ones to ask the lady out, it's the man's role to do that, he needs to work for you. You need to decide how interested he actually is. So wait and see how much work he does to get you now, when will he ask you out? And by the weekend, if he hasn't done anything, and you are interested, then be as honest as hell and ask him why the eff didn't he message you. And be annoyed/angry about it, it shows you were interested but he hasn't done anything about it. Be strong and be hard, like fire, come down hard. This will be a challenge to him, and make him feel he missed something. Think about that scene in goodfellas, where he stands up the lady, and he's with his mates, isn't that interested. Then she comes fighting upset and tells him he should have never done that and how dare him do that. He sees her fire and he's in love with her. Think that. Let him do his guy thing. So I think wait and see what happens, if nothing happens by weekend then you have that option to tell him wtf.
Hi Emkay,
Thank you so much for taking the time to read and respond to my post. I definitely would not want to be that person that overwhelms this Aries guy because I don't want to lose him by being so clingy. I feel like backing away from it for a little while and sending him text messages here and there would not hurt. what do you think? At the same token I do want him to feel like I am very much interested in him.
Thank you so much for taking the time to read and respond to my post. I definitely would not want to be that person that overwhelms this Aries guy because I don't want to lose him by being so clingy. I feel like backing away from it for a little while and sending him text messages here and there would not hurt. what do you think? At the same token I do want him to feel like I am very much interested in him.
Hi AriesJo,
Thank you for reading my post and taking your time to respond.
To answer your question, I am a Sagittarius. I know we are both fire signs and I have not checked any compatibility as of now.
I also think that whatever I am doing is okay for now but I definitely don't want him to lose interest by me not giving him so much attention. In my case, I just don't want to be that clingy girl that have to text him every day as I know he is busy ( he's a doctor ). I will play it by ear and see how it goes. He did ask me to come down to LA more often and to even consider moving back. We also talked about checking out another museum but just depends on when I have free time to travel to LA.
Thank you for reading my post and taking your time to respond.
To answer your question, I am a Sagittarius. I know we are both fire signs and I have not checked any compatibility as of now.
I also think that whatever I am doing is okay for now but I definitely don't want him to lose interest by me not giving him so much attention. In my case, I just don't want to be that clingy girl that have to text him every day as I know he is busy ( he's a doctor ). I will play it by ear and see how it goes. He did ask me to come down to LA more often and to even consider moving back. We also talked about checking out another museum but just depends on when I have free time to travel to LA.
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