Should I reach out? Do I let him chase?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Cappylol on Tuesday, December 19, 2017 and has 6 replies.

Should I reach out or let him chase in a Gemini Aries connection

In a Gemini Aries pairing, it is often best to let the other person take the lead and show interest. If he has not responded, giving him space may encourage him to pursue you. Trust your intuition and wait for genuine effort before reaching out again.

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@Cappylol
8 Years

So.. a friend of mine reached out to me saying she thinks I’d be a great match with this guy. We both are from the same city and both currently living in Chicago. I told her to give him my number. He texted me and we chatted for a few days, and he was very excited to take me to dinner. I met him and it was an instant connection. His friends were in town that day so I met all of them. He said they were very excited to meet me. They certainly were! Then we two went to dinner. We got along great, he told me his family is happy he’s going on a date with a girl from the same city. He kissed me that night and expressed he wants to see me again. We were texting for about a week after that bc he went on a work trip. Even FaceTimed me when he was drunk...

2 days ago he texted me to have a date night Tuesday. I responded please pick any other day as I have to be at a work event that night.. no response for 2 days.. should I reach out? Wtf? Everything was going smooth I thought?

His venue is Gemini, sun is Aries, Moon is Gemini and mars is cancer

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@Cappylol
8 Years

Posted by oneday
Reach out why not? Sounds like he has been chasing anyway wont hurt to put in effort on your side

Just texted him.. lol let’s wait and see!! Yikes I’m nervous I’m not sure why

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@Cappylol
8 Years

Posted by oneday

Posted by Cappylol

Posted by oneday
Reach out why not? Sounds like he has been chasing anyway wont hurt to put in effort on your side

Just texted him.. lol let’s wait and see!! Yikes I’m nervous I’m not sure why

Let me know how it goes 🙂

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He responded now.. 10 hours later after I texted him and apologized saying work has been very crazy. Lol I’m not sure when I should reply and how

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@Aries18
8 Years

Hold your horses!!

He is a Aries sun, Gemini moon and Venus!!!

That's me too :O the Aries..

oooooh

I am talking to a Capricorn as well and i felt the connection when we both first talked (he talked to me). This is online steam gaming community we are both apart of and LD. We are in the same country, in Canada just 1 hr timezone apart.