So you've fallen in love with an Aries?

When I first told the person i'm currently dating (a Virgo) that I was an Aries, the response was something like (Oh hell no! This isn't gonna work! You are all selfish, and cocky). To which I replied, yes, this is true, on the surface. What you need to know is, Aries usually have a very hard exterior, but our inside layer is full of cotton candy and fun stuff like that! We are generally your most dependable friend/family member. We have a hero complex, so we collect black sheep everywhere trying to help them with everything that we have. But don't cross us, our words can cut like [insert something really sharp here] and sometimes we won't think twice about how we've reduced you to tears.

But now you've fallen in love with one of us feral creatures. The wild seemingly untamable Aries has probably not even noticed you yet, but you have finally made yourself known and his eye is upon you. Play hard to get for a bit. He will hate this but it will make him try EVEN HARDER (assuming he likes you). Once he finally wins you, he will initially take a dive and not feel quite satisfied. So what do you do? You distance yourself a bit and play hard to get a little more. Each time you do this, do it for a shorter and shorter period of time until he fall in love with you. No more hard to get at this point as he will grow bored. Do not! I repeat do not! get comfortable. Make sure you are keeping up the way you look. Though he is more concerned with himself being the hottest at the party, you had better be the second hottest, at least to him. If he tells you he doesn't like what you are wearing, and you wear it anyways, he won't make a big deal out of it, but expect his eyes to wander all night. We know what we like in the very moment that we like it, but that may chance from day to day, hour to hour, minute to minute. We are fickle creatures.

Challenge us!

There is nothing worse than a boring relationship where you do everything we want! I personally would like to come home and have a plate thrown @ my head at least once a weak (i've been practicing my dodging skills.) With that said, you should still do nice things for us. We are extremely caring even to a fault so we will do lots of things for you, returning the favor from time to time will surprise us and make us fall madly in love as we are used to being the doers.

Be Spontaneous!

Remember that we are all just kids at heart! We love adventures! Take me on a hike in the middle of the night, or challe

in the middle of the night, or challenge me to climb a mountain or something else ridiculous like jumping out of plane. Hell I even love walks @midnight! Invite me to do that!

Be Loyal!

This is the MOST important thing ever. We will not tolerate being #2 to the person we love more than anything and once we love you, it's generally more than anything. Treat us like a royalty, and we will return the favor, treat us like peasantry, and we will do it 10x worse.

Just have fun with him/her, and your relationship will blossom!

Oh the filters on this site (chickeny should be a word that means arrogant almost, starts with a co-

LMAO @ dodging skills.

Love the "feral creatures" comment. Spot on!

Posted by starlover
God it sounds exhausting and i hate playing games


I dont want to challenge anyone or have to play hard to get, it sounds
like stuff teenagers do


What happened to healthy and functional dating?

Where's the fun in THAT?

Posted by starlover
I have had two aries men in my life and it wasnt actually fun
at all

So the alternative seems like fun in comparison

Sorry to hear that 😢 What is your sign by the way?

Posted by starlover
Awwww bless you...i am a Scorpio 🙂

Aries men have always left me feeling very lonely, sadly

😢 Well on behalf of all Aries men, I offer you a warm apology. I have done this to people, so my apologizing to you is like apologizing to hose I have contact with no longer. Please accept it. I know that we can be [male anatomy parts] sometimes.

lol that should say "those" not hose

Geminis seem to just naturally go from throwing dishes to giving a massage :p...alternative for scorp/aries? My experiences with scorp men have felt more like mind games than with aries. I love scorps but theyre natural heart breakers 🙂. Aries are as upfront as one is to them...

What about a Sun/Venus/Mercury in Aries with a Leo moon?? I've only known him for 3 days but he is already saying he likes me alot. He is from another country and I have been helping him with the language here. I did pull away from him today because I thought he had lied to me about having a gf back in his country (still trying to figure that out) and he offered friendship but I refused him saying that I'm not friends with liars and cheaters. That constituted a phone call from him. He kept saying that I misunderstood him (language barrier), that he liked me alot and didn't want me angry with him (I wasn't angry or mad or upset). I'm Sun scorpio but everything else is air....

Posted by aressupreme


.......like to come home and have a plate thrown @ my head at least once a weak (i've been practicing my dodging skills.)

LMMMMMMAAAAAAAAOOOOO