The best revenge

This topic was created in the Aries forum by OceanDeep on Sunday, March 24, 2013 and has 13 replies.

The True Meaning of Revenge in Astrology

In astrology, true revenge involves personal growth and emotional resilience rather than retaliation. Focusing on self-improvement and maintaining curiosity can keep others intrigued. This approach fosters inner peace and long-term fulfillment instead of conflict or revenge. Understanding these principles helps you navigate relationships and setbacks with wisdom and grace.

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@OceanDeep
15 Years1,000+ Posts

is no revenge at all.

Make them wonder. That

is and will be the key in

getting and keeping them.

Never to be had, but always

elusive keeps the curious in

the chase.

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@RealTalk
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Posted by OceanDeep
is no revenge at all.

Make them wonder. That

is and will be the key in

getting and keeping them.

Never to be had, but always

elusive keeps the curious in

the chase.

You are so right. Negative attention is still attention & when you pay no attention, it bothers people.

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@MeowScorpii
13 Years

Posted by OceanDeep
is no revenge at all.

Make them wonder. That

is and will be the key in

getting and keeping them.

Never to be had, but always

elusive keeps the curious in

the chase.

Yes, 100% right. People begin to get so frustrated and crazed when they believe someone has just stopped giving a care.

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@dofacc
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Lesseee

Before revenge, there will need to be a "grudge."

A very good proverb is "To hold a grudge is to take the poison yourself and expect the other person to die."

To stoop to "revenge" is just that, to stoop. If someone does something to you that is so low that "revenge" would seem to be needed, it is the other person that is the slimy ball, not you. Their behavior defines who they are. There will be any number of people who will find their behavior acceptable, and perhaps even applaud that behavior.

Next proverb is "Know me by my enemies!"

Our "friends" can be a rather curious mix of people who we really like, and for some reason are required to tolerate. Those who despise us, and whom we despise, is much more clear.

Let's be clear though, there is a difference between "revenge" and "Justice." To allow clearly unjust behavior to go unchallenged is a very un-Aries like trait. The difference being that revenge tends to be back alley, underhanded, and cowardly. Justice requires standing up and demanding a "Wrong" be made "Right" in a very public manner. Justice does not sneak around and hide in the bushes waiting to ambush, Justice walks up to you in the full light of day and demands explanation and Reckoning!!!

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@ReallyNiceAriesPerson
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Posted by dofacc

To allow clearly unjust behavior to go unchallenged is a very un-Aries like trait.

The difference being that revenge tends to be back alley, underhanded, and cowardly. Justice requires standing up and demanding a "Wrong" be made "Right" in a very public manner.

Justice does not sneak around and hide in the bushes waiting to ambush, Justice walks up to you in the full light of day and demands explanation and Reckoning

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@astro123
13 Years

Posted by OceanDeep
is no revenge at all.

Make them wonder. That

is and will be the key in

getting and keeping them.

Never to be had, but always

elusive keeps the curious in

the chase.

I'm with you on this one! 🙂 🙂 🙂

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@OceanDeep
15 Years1,000+ Posts

Those of you who get it, get it. Those of you who don't, seek thoughts outside of the 'literal'. There is no sweet revenge. The point is that to get and keep an Aries is you always keep them guessing, be aloof, and elusive. Stay the fuck busy, and don't give up anything always and forever...don't give up your girlfriends, work, hobbies, sports, etc.

When they think they 'have' you, or 'get you' and "grow bored" that so many cry/ask/wonder/why THAT is the answer. So all these women plotting how to get back at them, how to get them, and make it so damn complicated? The answer is right in front of you. And has been, and will be. Aries men are smart. But simple.

I'm laughing literally ... there is no revenge. Too many people need to get the pole outta their asses, and loosen up. Cheeeez. I'm so tempted to say "duh" but I won't let my sarcasm come into this thread.

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@snipi89
13 Years

Thats true...good you got that.. aries are actually not used to all this... they are very straight forward, simple and direct...